When an old man dies, how will the funeral be handled?

1. If you call 120 at night, the 120 doctor will finally determine whether the old man is dead and whether he needs to continue rescue. At this time, the doctor talked to his son (I don’t know why he didn’t talk to his surviving wife), and the son signed. Early in the morning, I went to the emergency department to find the doctor to issue a death certificate. If 120 is not present at the scene, contact the street health service center to issue it.

2. Wipe the elderly person clean with diluted alcohol and put on the clothes prepared at home (elderly people in the city do not need to buy old-fashioned funeral clothes, mainly because the size is not suitable). Different ethnic groups come according to their customs.

3. In the evening, contact the vehicle on duty at the funeral home (the funeral home’s vehicle will not pull the vehicle if you have not changed your clothes). Follow the car to the funeral home to pay the fee and determine the cremation time.

4. Follow the first step, take the death certificate, take the elderly household registration book and ID card to the police station as soon as possible to open the certificate of death and cancel the account. (If the police think that the emergency doctor filled out the form irregularly, he returns it and rewrites it and cannot find the person. Because he took a break on the night shift, he will not be seen again until the next day). If the elderly have bank deposits, then they can decide whether to cut off their ID cards and become invalid. Which is more important is unclear.

5. After 10 days and a half, go to the street with all the procedures to handle the death matter. After passing away due to illness, the home should be thoroughly disinfected.

6. Brothers and sisters have the same roots. If we sit down and discuss it, there will be no insurmountable conflicts or hurdles!

Everyone is mortal. Once an elder in the family dies, many children will be at a loss. Now I will talk about what the children and their families should do after the death of the elder. 1. Issuing a death certificate

If an elderly person dies at home, the neighborhood committee or village committee where the elderly person is registered as well as the relevant local police station should be notified immediately to ask them to issue a death certificate. If the elderly person died in a hospital, the hospital should issue a death certificate. 2. Cancel the household registration of the elderly person

The family members should go to the local police station with the death certificate issued by the relevant department to cancel the household registration and ID card of the deceased elderly person. 3. Call the local funeral home and communicate with the funeral home the specific time for transporting the elderly body.

Families can dress the elderly in shrouds before coming to the funeral home, and buy an ice coffin from a local funeral supplies store to temporarily refrigerate the elderly's body. Our local custom is that after the death of an elderly person, he will mourn for three days at home. In rural areas, monks and Taoists are generally invited to perform relevant ritual activities, and then relatives and friends are invited to attend the memorial ceremony. Then a chef is invited to cook for the relatives and friends who come. Friends eat it. In our rural area, it is called "tofu rice". 4. Cremation of the body in the funeral home

When the hearse arrives, the body of the elderly is sent to the funeral home for cremation. In the current cremation process, the family members of the deceased no longer need to queue up at the funeral home very early in the morning as before. Because currently the funeral parlor will cremate the remains in the order in which they are cremated. It is not like in the past whoever comes early will be cremated first.

After paying the relevant fees, the body will enter the cremator room for cremation. After the cremation is completed, the funeral home will also issue a relevant cremation certificate. With the certificate, the family can collect the ashes of the deceased within 1 to 2 hours. 4. Family members can make arrangements by themselves after receiving the ashes.

Nowadays, ashes can be buried in local cemeteries or stored in funeral parlors. Of course, other burial methods can also be used, such as burial at sea. Of course, this is relatively rare.

In our local area, a cemetery is usually purchased before the elderly person is alive. After receiving the ashes of the elderly person, the ashes can be buried directly in the cemetery.

My mother left at home. I will describe the entire process and points to note. ***Five big points and nine small points. I live in the city, so I will tell you based on the customs here.

After leaving home, there must be no doctor to prove anything. So be sure to make sure you are really gone. (I don’t really want to write about the process of my mother’s death. I’ll just tell you how to do it). Of course, this is actually relatively easy to determine, after all, they are their own relatives.

If you have brothers or sisters, please call your brothers and sisters immediately. I was very sad at the time, and my spouse took care of all the phone calls and other things. (I have more sisters, so I called each one personally to tell them).

Especially for sisters who are married far away, after all, it still takes a certain amount of time to get to my house.

Normally, the shroud must be prepared first. In fact, when the elderly's health is not ideal, these must be prepared. There are several kinds of shrouds, buy them according to the situation, some are expensive and some are cheap. There is no need to consider the quality, people are gone, these will eventually be cremated with the elderly. After the sisters arrived, they cleaned Mother and put on her shroud as soon as possible. Because my limbs have become stiff over time, it is difficult to change clothes.

We have a dedicated company here who will help you prepare all related work, such as mourning hall settings, carts with red cloth strips, burning paper, firecrackers, etc.

In fact, no matter whether the elderly person leaves in the hospital or at home, the family must obtain the contact information of the one-stop company in advance (it is not necessary to go to the hospital, the hospital will definitely have relevant contact information) . The one-stop company will help you contact the funeral home's car.

One thing to note here: If your home is in a community without an elevator, there is no big time requirement. You can just take the stairs anyway. If your home has a high-rise elevator, it is best to wait a little later, for example, let the funeral home's car pick up the elderly after ten o'clock in the evening. It's too early and it wouldn't be nice if you bump into someone else in the elevator. If you leave in the middle of the night, go earlier in the morning. In short, it is best to let people from the funeral home company carry the elderly person away when no one is around. (It is recommended that if there are sufficient manpower, it is best to leave one person at the elevator entrance and on the ground floor, and then persuade the neighbors to leave.

After the elderly are sent away, they are usually frozen in the freezer in the relevant room of the funeral home. Whether it is You can go to the funeral home during the day or at night, but it is almost meaningless unless it is cremated immediately. So the next thing to do is to do the following.

1. Contact one again. Dragon Service Company

They will give you the specific time for the old man’s cremation. It usually takes about three days or a week here. The specific time depends on the zodiac sign, birth, etc., as well as the conflicting zodiac signs. . This has nothing to do with us, the one-stop company will give it to us.

Then you will be asked if you want to hold a wake. If you want to arrange a funeral, then the family will have to prepare two people for it. There is a wake-up call, but there was no one when the mother left.

2. Pack a certain number of red envelopes.

This is probably a custom in different places. We are giving red envelopes as a return gift, so you have to ask for details. How many people will go to the funeral parlor to see the elderly off, and how many people will drive to the funeral parlor. Those who drive will also receive a hanging firecracker and a red cloth strip. The red cloth strip and firecrackers are also provided by Baihua. . But you have to prepare the red envelope yourself.

3. Prepare a one-inch photo and develop a large photo and frame it.

Ask someone or bring a one-inch photo yourself. Ask the photo studio to expand the printing. Just tell the person at the photo studio that you need it when the old man dies. They will know how to wash and frame the large photo for you.

Yes, and if the ashes are not placed in the funeral parlor, but are placed in one's own ancestral hall, the filial son or grandson should take them to the ancestral hall.

You must bring a small photo of the ashes with you. A small photo is required. Many people will forget this photo because of sadness.

4. Ask relatives and neighbors to get the death certificate and household registration certificate. >

The death certificate usually needs to be certified by the village or neighborhood committee. Then go to the hospital to get a medical death certificate.

The certificate of household registration cancellation is at the police station. Please bring the ID card of the elderly person. My cousin went to get it. Thanks to the netizen for suggesting that this certificate can be issued later to avoid some special circumstances)

The certificate is very important, because the death certificate must be exchanged for the cremation certificate (equivalent to the ID card) at the funeral home. , if there are any unfinished matters in the future, such as inheritance handling, you will need to use this)

5. Prepare a certain amount of cash

This must be remembered during this period. It's best to prepare a few thousand yuan. We have designated personnel to handle cash for weddings and weddings here, but you still have to prepare it yourself. When my father leaves to buy the urn and pay related expenses, he does not accept WeChat and Alipay, he must accept cash.

Fortunately, I knew how to bring a few thousand dollars with me at that time, otherwise I would have to go to a bank far away to withdraw it.

6. Prepare some old clothes worn by the elderly in advance

Why do you need to prepare these? The custom here is that when an old man leaves, a layer of clothes should be placed under the coffin and some clothes should be stuffed on the side. But these clothes don’t require much.

7. Prepare two coins

In the past, copper coins were used, but now one-yuan coins are generally used. I won’t say more about where they are used. Some funeral homes will prepare this.

8. Souvenir money

This is quite special. We require a red envelope of 600 or 800 yuan, wrapped in red paper and placed in the hands of the elderly. Take it away before the old man puts it down into the coffin. This money is usually used to raise pigs in our rural areas. It is equivalent to the old man leaving his last thoughts to his family. I didn't spend this money, and I couldn't bear to spend it. Different people look at their own specific circumstances

9. Go home and clean and tidy up the room

After getting ready at five o'clock in the past, it is time to send the elderly on their way. How to arrange the ashes after receiving them depends on the specific situation.

Relatives and friends are usually invited to a dinner party at noon. Cigarettes, alcohol, (we couldn’t drink before, but now we can), towels, etc. must be prepared for others.

After the dinner, we returned home. The room where the old man once lived must be tidied up. If there are many brothers and sisters, it is best for everyone to be present to sort it out. In case the elderly have private money. When my mother left, she still had several thousand yuan left, so we shared it equally among several people to avoid any disputes later.

It is best to disinfect the room with alcohol. Throw away everything the old man could use. But don’t throw away the clothes you have worn, pack them well. Because we have to go to the ancestral hall to burn it for the elderly during March 7th and July 7th.

This is generally the case. It may vary from place to place, so it is best to ask local elders who understand these etiquettes in advance to avoid being confused.

In cities, once an elderly person dies at home, he must first report the situation immediately to the community and the police station where his household registration is, and explain the situation. They will send a forensic doctor to conduct forensic identification of the deceased (the deceased must not be examined before the forensic doctor arrives) After the forensic identification is completed, you can notify relatives and friends on the one hand, and contact the funeral home by phone on the other hand. The funeral home will come as quickly as possible according to your request and provide you with all funeral services (including bringing you The clothes worn by the deceased, various sacrifices needed to set up the mourning hall, and help you dress the deceased and bring the coffin to the funeral home for storage in the freezer).

First of all, we must make sure that the person has died. If it is a city, various procedures after the funeral are cumbersome. It is easiest to call 120. The hospital is an authoritative unit and the community police station does not have a dedicated person at night. My father died at home this year. It has been confirmed that the death is less than 120. Afterwards, the funeral service will be used directly. They are responsible for contacting the funeral home for the car and shroud. However, after the cremation, the death certificate is a little troublesome. In the end, it was issued by the original unit’s detention office. If you have purchased the cemetery in advance, please contact them. Time, those who haven’t bought one should seize the time, and prepare a photo for the funeral service. Notify relatives and friends who can help as soon as possible. There are many people to divide the work and cooperate, such as arranging vehicles and restaurants, and preparing some sacrificial supplies. Don’t Panic, everything revolves around laying the ground in peace, every care is taken, any negligence is a trivial matter

In our rural areas, it is normal for the elderly to die at home. Generally, sick elderly people are hospitalized and have no therapeutic value in the end. The doctor will issue a critical notice. However, when rural elderly people die, they hope to die at home. If their children are not persistent and the treatment is ineffective, most of them will go home when they are in danger. , dying at home is the wish of most elderly people.

When the elderly are finally in danger, most local village doctors will be there. When death is announced, the family will rush to put the shroud prepared in advance on the deceased elderly at that moment. Then they burn "turban paper" and fire three cannons, which means to inform the villagers, and then the family members kowtow and cry.

If the death occurs before 12 o'clock in the evening, even if it is the day before, the elderly person must stay at home for two days. If the death occurs after 12 o'clock, even if it is the next day, the elderly person must stay at home for three days.

After the old man dies, the village deacon will automatically go to the master’s house to help arrange the funeral arrangements, and the master’s family only needs to take the money.

On the afternoon of the second day after the old man dies, he will be cremated. The person in charge will make arrangements, but he will definitely send someone close to him to follow him.

After returning from the cremation plant to the entrance of the village, those who followed had to fire cannons to inform the family members that they were back. The relatives waiting at home would be picked up by someone who understood and brought paper money, crying in grief, and were picked up by the old man's eldest son. Pass the urn and welcome home.

After the ashes arrived home, the son carefully spread the ashes into the coffin in the shape of a human being, and then someone from the village sealed the coffin. At this time, the children shouted their parents' proper titles, "Dad or Mom", hoarsely. He said "You stay away", and from then on the two sides of the yin and yang never met again. After the seal was over, the person who closed the hall took the red envelope and left without looking back.

On the night after the cremation, the old man will be sent to Nanshan, commonly known as "Send the Mountain". This means that all the relatives will follow the mountain sedan at night and recite the old man's words to see the clothes on the sedan, and send the old man's soul first. Sent to Nanshan, which we don’t know about.

On the third day, all relatives came to see him off. At noon, all the male guests performed family sacrifices in the mourning hall. The deacon called people in order to worship separately.

In our place, the mother's family and the in-laws are usually distinguished guests, so they should take a high look at them and then worship them in order of relative proximity.

The old man was laid to rest and buried in the afternoon. On the way to the funeral, when the female passengers were riding in the car, most of the daughters cried their hearts out, which made people feel distressed. The way the daughter-in-law cried was the focus of everyone's attention, which showed the relationship between the daughter-in-law and the old man during her lifetime.

During the funeral, the eldest son holds the spiritual tablet and the "send-off basin". After the eldest son-in-law performs the "head sacrifice", the "send-off basin" must be broken into pieces at once, not twice. Then move the place to allow relatives to worship. Along the way, relatives have to kowtow and kneel to the coffin bearers many times to thank everyone for their hard work, so that the old man can reach the cemetery smoothly.

After the burial, the girl's son must observe mourning for three days before going out, and then go to the police station to cancel his household registration.

My father passed away on July 5 this year. Let me tell you about my experience. As soon as he realized something was wrong with the old man, he immediately called 120 and notified all his brothers and sisters to come over immediately. The emergency doctor came with full equipment. Plug in the life monitor and find no vital signs. The doctor said, "My condolences, the old man has passed away." Then he told him to go to the emergency center of the hospital to get a death certificate. I went to the center and the certificate was issued. I was asked to confirm whether the information was correct, and after confirmation, I received the death certificate. Then contact the funeral home. Then go to the urban office of the funeral home to handle related memorial service and cremation matters. Then notify all friends and relatives before death. Determine the number of people, book banquets and hotels, and arrange for relatives and friends who need accommodation to attend the memorial service.

The old man died alone at home, and no one even knew about it for several days! When a child is not around, should the government consider connecting lonely elderly people to the Internet and exchanging information? You can also organize the elderly to help others when they are able, accumulate working hours, and use them when they are unable to move. They can help each other, become self-reliant, and lessen the burden on others. Let society be filled with love!

I have experienced this myself! In 2003, my mother suddenly left us in the middle of the night due to a heart disease. When we found out, it was already the morning of the next day...

This is a pain that will always be buried in my heart. I am the only daughter in the family. My father accidentally fell into the lake when I was 10 years old because of drunkenness. From then on, I didn't have a father. My mother did not abandon me, but chose to raise me strong and alone.

In my senior year of high school, because I really couldn’t study, I dropped out of school and went to Wenzhou with a few girls from the same village. At that time, I went to a shoe factory.

It was the first time I lived alone outside, the first time I left my mother. During that time, I often dreamed of my mother at night. After my first salary was paid, I was full of joy and left 200 for myself. Yuan, all others were called to my mother...

I could feel my mother's joy at that time, and I knew she was proud of her child's filial piety.

Time passed. During that time in Wenzhou, I got to know my current husband. She is from Jingdezhen, Jiangxi Province. My husband is a very attentive person and is very kind to me, which impressed me the most. Yes, my husband, who has always been Burmese, dared to propose to me in front of so many sisters in the factory.

We got married soon. The year after we got married, I gave birth to my precious son. Because my mother couldn’t get used to living in the city, I asked her many times to come and live with me, but she refused. Said: "There must be a generation gap between the old and the young. It's better to keep them separate. Just come and see me when you have time..."

Although we are not very far apart, every year I really have very little time to spend with my mother. All I can do is give her as much money as possible.

During the Spring Festival of 2003, my husband and I took our son back to our hometown to spend the New Year with my mother. This was the last time we spent the New Year with my mother...

On the second day of the first lunar month, about At about 9 o'clock in the evening, after we finished chatting about the housework, my husband took our son to bed, and I also went to bed after helping my mother with the housework.

Around 8 o'clock in the morning, my child and I got dressed and got up. However, I found that the door to my house had not been opened yet. At this time, my mother would have already prepared porridge for us to eat. Confused, I went to find my mother. When I arrived at the door of my mother's room, I told my mother, "Mom, I'm coming in." But after calling a few words, my mother didn't answer, so I pushed the door open and went in.

But the scene in front of me scared me silly. I saw my mother’s face turned pale and her eyes were staring at the wall motionlessly. I was so scared that I shouted to my husband loudly. I quickly went up and pushed her. Mother, but the cold touch broke my heart...

My mother left me like this without leaving a single word. I called the elders in the clan over that day. After everyone discussed it, we decided to leave. I called a doctor to take a look, and after examination, it was finally discovered that the cause was myocardial infarction caused by heart disease...

After my mother left, I began to deal with my mother's funeral, mainly focusing on the following matters; < /p>

First: Notify my mother’s family, that is, my uncles and aunts.

Second: Contact the funeral team to prepare an ice coffin and pipe materials for the mother.

Third: Discuss funeral arrangements and funeral banquet preparations with the elders of the clan.

Fourth: Choose a cemetery for your mother.

My mother was finally buried in my hometown on the eighth day of the first lunar month in 2003, less than 10 meters away from my father’s cemetery!

Even though so many years have passed, I still can't forget the scene when my mother left.

Later, I roughly understood the reasons for my mother’s death, which can be roughly divided into the following two points;

First: Long-term labor caused physical weakness.

Second: I have a history of heart disease, but did not prepare relevant first aid measures (this is what makes me most guilty, as a woman should prepare for my mother)

My mother left It has been almost 8 years since I passed away, but I hope that the lessons learned from blood will attract everyone's attention and not let my tragedy happen again. I sincerely hope that everyone will pay attention to the health of the elderly, especially those with medical conditions.

Here I want to mainly distinguish whether there is labor insurance. If you have labor insurance, the so-called pensioner, and if you die at home, you must contact the hospital to issue relevant certificates. Or the neighborhood committee must issue a certificate, and finally the police station must issue a death certificate before cremation. Only then can you receive relevant funeral expenses, pensions, etc. If there is no labor insurance, such as for farmers, it doesn't matter. Once the procedures are completed, you can just go to the police station to cancel your household registration. It doesn’t matter if you don’t log out. Last year, my father, a retired employee, passed away at the age of 88. Not long ago, my second aunt, a farmer, passed away at the age of 79.