What is the psychology of a 60-year-old wife who is eager to find a wife less than 100 days after her death?

As long as a man is widowed, someone will introduce him as soon as possible. He will not refuse, and some will find someone when his wife is seriously ill. I have a neighbor who is honest, frugal, low-key, speaks softly, loves his family, his wife and children, and loves cleanliness. After retirement, his wife had a mastectomy, and he was sickly after the operation. He took on all the housework at home, including buying food, cooking and cleaning, which lasted for more than ten years, but he never complained. Last year, my wife suddenly suffered from cerebral congestion and became a vegetable. Every day in Lacrimosa, he goes out with a sad face and no smile. His life is extremely painful and sad. In order to take good care of his wife, he hired a full-time nanny to take care of his vegetative wife day and night, because he had to look after his two-week-old grandson. Recently, some people have seen that his life is very hard, and he may not accept the introduction at first. After all, his wife was still lying in bed and didn't swallow her last breath, but this woman appreciated his personality and didn't dislike his present situation. She often goes home to help him with his work, washing clothes, cooking and cleaning. Slowly, he fell in love with a woman, and he accepted her without her death. I think he has quit his old nanny and changed his girlfriend, which means he can be a girlfriend. As long as a man loses his wife, the reason he wants to find the first time is simple. The first reason is sex. Although men are old, their demand for sex is still very strong, but the frequency is long. The second is to live with partners, middle-aged couples and elderly partners. Their lives are too cold and lonely. Although they have children, they also have their own jobs, children and wives, and they don't have much time to spend with their fathers. Third, find a wife who can live independently. They can take care of each other and reduce the dependence and burden of children. In short, men want to find a wife no matter how old they are, which is determined by gender.

Let's say Zhang Gong in the neighborhood. His wife died suddenly of a cerebral hemorrhage. Zhang Gong cried her eyes out. As a result, she was still at the memorial service, and someone pulled him to introduce her "wife". He didn't react at first. Unexpectedly, when I got home, people from all walks of life flocked to introduce all kinds of women.

To put it bluntly, it means "more than his son introduced!" Finally, he chose a woman 20 years younger than himself!

What is even more exaggerated is that there is a little leader whose wife is seriously ill. He was still serving in the hospital, and relatives and friends came to the door and said, "You can think about it." This cheered him up. My wife just died, and people can't wait to pick up the new couple.

What's more, some old people intend to be "perfect". If you don't get a license or get married, you will "live together." If you can't do it, change it, and your life will be more "beautiful!"

The world will always be "only listening to new people laughing, not caring about old people crying." In this respect, some old men go further!

These phenomena are suffocating and even more hateful. Therefore, people should try to take good care of themselves and not die more angry because of an old man's illness. Take care, relax and live a good life for yourself and your children!

I said that middle-aged and elderly people really need a companion. Why do they need old age? Take your time to understand! They are really lonely. When children grow up, they have to go out to earn money to support their families, and their grandchildren have to go to school again, leaving them alone. Think about their feelings! Tell you a true story! My father has been ill for many years, and my mother can take care of my father's daily life even if he is not sick! However, just after the death of her father in 19 17, her mother's body underwent a 960-degree transformation and she could not afford to get sick until she died in 19 19. Therefore, the elderly sometimes need companionship more than money. I hope that children will be more tolerant and considerate of the loneliness of the elderly.

Hello, everyone, I am Iraqi! I have a neighbor whose wife died just over a month ago. The husband found his own students regardless of his daughter's opposition. This kind of behavior is really incomprehensible. His wife, who lived with him for decades and gave birth to his children, left, and he never suffered? You forgot your wife's kindness for a hundred days in such a short time?

When her daughter talked to me about this matter, she cried very sadly, saying that because of this matter, she and her father had a big fight, which was of no help. His father found a wife so quickly because his father had an affair with the student before his mother died. People leave tea cool, dad doesn't care about being separated from his wife at all, and his conscience is eaten by dogs!

Since then, the image of this husband in the eyes of family and outsiders has plummeted, saying that he is a heartless and selfish person who has lost the dignity of a teacher!

No psychology. Sexual reasons. Physical and psychological needs, this is to understand them. Men are not as lively as women. When a woman is old, dancing in square dance can kill time. Men can hardly do it. You can't let the old people go to the square dance. . Of course, the primary need in a man's life is sexual need? Another factor is that the older men are, the stronger their loneliness is than their female compatriots. I can't stand loneliness and loneliness. My heart is more fragile. This phenomenon is more common in men. My classmate's wife died, and he went a few days later. Other wives are dying. The man cried many times. This is why my wife has been ill in bed for a long time, and she is eager to find a wife as soon as she dies. Because it's been too long. Some people stay in bed for years. You try. What I saw was an old man in his late nineties, still looking for his wife. It has nothing to do with conjugal love.

The old man is eager to find his wife less than one hundred days after her death.

I don't rule out that I had a bad relationship with my wife before my death, otherwise I wouldn't be in such a hurry to find it again. At least I haven't got over the grief of losing my wife, and I won't be in the mood to look for it again. Even if enthusiasts want to introduce another one, they will consider that the time is too short to open their mouths. That's the reason.

The old couple also have a good relationship. Men generally don't care much about housework, and the life of losing their wives is disrupted. He doesn't know how to live a good life in the future. When he is over 60 years old, his children may have their own small families, ignoring the sadness and loneliness of his old father. In life, some men have a strong ability to go out, but they can go home without knowing the daily necessities or even where to change their clothes. If your father is such a person, maybe before your mother left, he had advised him to find someone to take care of him as soon as possible. So that she can leave safely.

In short, as long as the elderly are willing, they will take care of all aspects of their future lives, can not replace their children, and also reduce the burden. I hope that children can understand and support, so that the elderly can live a happy life in their later years, which is what children expect!

Don't think too complicated, people are different.

Some people attach great importance to feelings and can stand loneliness. This kind of person usually has a deep affection for his ex-wife, and recalling the happy times in the past becomes his best companion. In this case, he may even die alone.

Others are old, but they are fun-loving, have many friends and have a good relationship with their children. This kind of person is not in a hurry to find a partner.

There are two kinds of people who are eager to find a partner. A kind of enterprising, well-developed, qualified and capable. Such as executives, professors, literati, etc. These people are all hot items, and there are many people who secretly love them, and even many people help to fix them up. They will soon find another partner. There is also a very ordinary person, with a confused brain and a deep emotional attachment to his ex-wife. He can't talk about good or bad, doesn't care about children, doesn't think so much, thinks little about the future, has a small circle of friends and is afraid of loneliness, even if he finds his ex-wife.

It's chilling not to have such a wife!

Maybe I don't feel it myself, otherwise, my partner who has been with him for decades has left, and I can find another one in 100 days. Such people are really chilling ... how many couples in the world treat each other with true feelings? Worth pondering ...

Isn't this the human touch between people?

No psychology, no rules, why so many rules? How can you find out what this means in a hundred days? What do you mean after 100 days? Why do people treat modern people with old traditional ideas? In the past, some people said that if there were no rules, it would be Fiona Fang. When people are alive, don't let the old traditional rules and regulations of the past fill our hands and feet. Nowadays, society is not so particular. If you are an old-fashioned mentality, a traditional mentality, a loyal mentality to your lover, and a mentality of loving only one person all your life, it is best not to find anyone, otherwise you are not qualified to make irresponsible remarks behind your back.

Men and women are different, and women generally attach great importance to feelings. As far as our village is concerned, men remarry after losing their wives, while widowed women generally do not remarry. As the old saying goes, the wife is mud on the wall, and the old one is really torn down and replaced.