If you have physical problems, don’t tell anyone, even your friends. Does it make sense to you?

If you have any health problems, don’t tell anyone, not even your best friends. If you have a physical problem, you should take medicine. If you need medical treatment, you should see a doctor. There is no need to talk about these things to outsiders. What's the benefit of telling it? It will have the opposite effect. When others ask about you, just say it's very good. Firstly, you won't make people laugh, and secondly, you won't be bullied.

When a person has a major physical problem, such as cancer, there is actually no need to tell others, because you know the cause of the physical disease best. If you want to cure it, you can only treat it from the cause rather than the cause. , others give you advice based more on the cause of the disease, which is mostly useless.

When you are sick, there are only two types of people you can tell others about. One is people who really care about you. Such people will be really worried about you, but they cannot actually help you, because the most important thing is you. How to face it yourself. The second is people with whom you have a normal relationship. If you tell them, one will look at your excitement, and the other will have an indifferent attitude. So no need to say.

In fact, the essence of life is loneliness. You have to fight many things on your own. Sharing happiness may not necessarily double the happiness, but sharing pain may double the pain!

Why can’t people tell others if they have physical problems? This is not something to be ashamed of. Who doesn’t get sick if they eat whole grains? Talking to others may help you. There is strength in numbers. I can help you with suggestions and introduce you to some hospitals that can treat your illness. Or say comforting words to make you feel relieved. What's wrong with that? Everyone has a compassionate heart. No one will laugh at your jokes, and no one will add insult to injury. After people get sick, they sometimes feel lonely and helpless. Talking to your family or friends when you are sick can encourage you to actively treat yourself. Don't hold it in your stomach and bear it silently. This will make you feel aggrieved and affect the treatment effect of the disease.

I got diabetes in 1997. When I was diagnosed, I felt like the sky was falling. Now for more than 20 years, I have been treating myself slowly. Very effective, very ideal. Although I have had this disease for more than 20 years, I now have no complications and am maintaining very well with my own methods. I don't tell others what illness I have. It's useless to say it. Other than sympathy, it has no effect at all. I have managed my disease in my own way for more than 20 years without complications or other adverse symptoms. If the disease grows on you, there is no need to talk to others about this or that. Discussing with others is like a blind man sharpening his knife. I know my illness and my physical condition, so I just don’t share my condition with others.

When you have physical problems, don’t tell anyone, even your friends. I think this makes sense. But it still depends on who you are facing? Different people react and handle this situation differently.

First of all, most people feel unhappy when they have physical problems. When unhappy people tell others about their body problems or physical problems, their tone and tone will be low, plaintive, sighing, and filled with suppressed emotions. This emotion will pass through the voice. , tone, language and expression are conveyed to the listener, making the listener feel depressed and lonely. And then feel disgusted.

Secondly, when others or friends know that you have a physical illness, they may express sympathy or say nothing on the surface. Very few people truly care about you or your illness. As a result, most people will reduce their trust in certain aspects of you, such as your physical health, your ability to complete a task, your endurance at work, etc. What's more, he will talk about your illness everywhere, spreading it to ten people and hundreds of people. In the end, he will say it very seriously and make it jealous, which is very bad and let more people know about it. As a result, once someone mentions you, many people will characterize you as someone with poor health.

There are also people who are narrow-minded and petty. Once you have some trivial friction with them, they will curse you and make you feel depressed. Therefore, it is better not to say anything to such people.

However, there are also people who are really good to you, can listen to your voice, are willing to help you sincerely, and treat you kindly. Once we know that you are sick, we will introduce possible treatment methods, or we will sincerely care for you through words and actions every day, making you feel warm and happy.

For this kind of friend, you can talk about your condition appropriately without any hindrance.

The ancestors said: If you have money, you should hide it, and if you are sick, you should talk about it. This is the summary of wisdom. There is no doubt that you should keep a low profile when you have money, but you should keep a high profile when you are sick because the wisdom of the people is endless. Some doctors who concluded that there is no cure healed themselves after listening to other people's advice or being open-minded or finding home remedies. There are many examples. There are people who have to go to the operating table the next day. They listen to relatives and avoid the trouble. There are people who accidentally enter a private hospital when two patients with gynecological inflammation next to them want to use a knife or a gun. They accidentally talk about being persuaded to go to the hospital. There are some people who don’t need to be fooled in the hospital, and they are doing well so far... Therefore, ordinary people like you and me should keep in line with and move closer to people with knowledge and wisdom, especially those who are sick. They should not be self-righteous or self-pitying because they listen to others’ advice. It could be you, or it could be me, who can feed you and cure your illness!

I am such a person. I never tell others when I am sick. If I have the money, I can just go to the hospital to see me. If I tell others, the worst they can do is sympathize with you and give you some advice. In terms of comfort, other things are of little use. Of course, things are different when people get old and sick. If there is really something seriously wrong after being checked in the hospital, you still have to tell your children that only children will come to serve their parents

It doesn’t make sense not to tell anyone about a person’s physical problem. Talk to family and close friends. They will help you. As for other people, it’s best not to talk about it. Some diseases may be mental illnesses. After talking to your relatives and friends, they will try their best to help you solve it.

In fact, people should learn to be strong. If they are really sick, they should go to the hospital in advance and talk to friends they trust. Everyone has ups and downs in life. It is very normal. Remember to adjust your mentality. Stay in place, live in the present, and live our old age well. I hope everyone is healthy, happy, and safe!

As the saying goes: If you hide your illness, you will die.

There was a woman who loved her husband very much. She had breast swelling and pain, but she didn’t tell him or anyone else. Later, the pus leaked out and smelled bloody, but she didn't tell her husband because she was afraid that her husband would feel uncomfortable smelling it, so she just sprayed perfume in her underwear...

When her husband found out, he sent her to the hospital for treatment. The breast cancer was in the advanced stage and surgery was no longer possible, so he was asked to prepare for his funeral. The woman died soon!

Therefore, it is not advisable not to tell someone when you are sick. Even if he didn't say anything, he would go to the hospital for a checkup as soon as possible.