What made you stop?

In May this year, a man named Sanjin stood in front of more than 100 people and shared his "floating experience" at the public lecture site of YES GO Action 1 1 in Hangzhou Camp.

In the opening paragraph, he introduced himself: I have been an unstoppable person since I was a child.

Why can't you stop? Why did you stop? After listening to Sanjin's self-report, you will find that the reason is the same.

I always feel that life is too short and I want to experience a lot, so I have to keep running.

In elementary school, Jiwa was still an unpopular word. I am already the originator of Jiwa, and Jiwa is myself. Finish your homework before going home in the afternoon and play badminton once or three times after dinner; Second, the fourth social dance; Learn bamboo flute on Friday. Let alone the weekend.

Going to college, taking classes on campus, joining clubs, falling in love, practicing outside school, traveling and doing projects have all been declined. I did what others did, and I like to play games when others don't play games.

The university went out to do projects.

You may be curious that my identity is a hotel sleeper and I found it when I was a sophomore. Traveling since I was a child, I slowly discovered the difference between different hotels. When I was a sophomore, I found an evaluation forum under the recommendation of a friend, and I have been writing it ever since.

When you meet a favorite hotel during your trip, you can write hundreds to thousands of words. With the foundation of media major, you can also take photos, which have been reprinted by many hotels.

This experience also made me become a travel editor of Feekr one year after graduation, and turned my hobby into a beautiful thing to find a job and share it with you.

Feiker's office.

Looking back on these irresistible experiences, I am proud. They broadened my horizons. But this rhythm has been going on, and there is almost no rest: eating is to fill your stomach, and a cup of coffee will choke your thighs if you are not energetic.

In my memory, I was in a daze only a handful of times. Doing a good job of sharing, but feeling less and less beautiful.

The epidemic is trapped at home, and a lot of work is like a punch on cotton, which cannot be carried out. Less exercise, drowsiness. Lighting aromatherapy and playing music at home will still lead to depression.

One day I finally couldn't stand it, so I put on a mask and went downstairs for a walk. Only to find that the temperature has already climbed and spring has arrived. But I actually spent the whole winter alone in the rented house in Beijing.

Winter in Beijing

Looking at the sanitation workers next to them holding the boat to clean up the garbage, before my ears rang, others commented on me:

"You have been busy, never idle down. You may wish to change the environment, and there may be unexpected gains. "

Winter has been missed, and I don't want to miss spring again.

I submitted my resignation application and pressed the first pause button in my life. I decided to stay well-go to Hangzhou, start a new life, and toss about something aimlessly.

The first is fitness, seven days without rest, rain or shine. I lost 6 pounds in a month, and the whole person was completely new.

Spent a lot of time on Le Yi Road and Gutui Road, and almost all the shops have been there. Walk into the coffee shop and chat with the owner, from morning till night.

Work as a manager at Ulysses Bookstore for one day. The audience only reads books and sells Ulysses. The boss won't let everyone study by themselves, and the rule is that they can only read books. When you meet a friend who can chat, you will be arrested for drinking and will not be allowed to go home until late at night.

bookshop

There is a small shop called Fuzi. I met the owner's sister Tuanzi. She loves Harry Potter very much. I asked, "Why don't you make a new Harry Potter series?" Late that night, she sent a message that she had been studying in the kitchen all night. ...

Hangzhou is getting fuller and fuller in my eyes. Clean streets, cars that stop for everyone, all kinds of plump and interesting people.

When I travel like the wind, I can't feel the wind. If I don't stop, all this has nothing to do with me.

I didn't have many friends when I came to Hangzhou. Seeing the poster of YES GO was very interesting, I signed up to play.

I didn't expect to play a lot of extra gains.

Let's talk about this public speech. I made a speech before I came, but this is the first time I have faced hundreds of people.

I was very upset before I went on stage, because I spoke slowly and liked to bring a lot of adjectives when I spoke. I'm afraid everyone will be bored.

But after the party, many parties will praise me for telling stories and drawing pictures. "A speech with slow speech speed and many adjectives is also a style." Positive feedback like this is particularly common in YESGO, but you can feel that it is not flattering or polite. I began to discover my differences, including my strengths and weaknesses.

Working together, I found myself less vigorous than other parties. After three disco dances, I was puzzled by other people's strange behavior, and I understood my misunderstanding of her in the long river of life. I found that maybe I can be more open and inclusive. After that, I will be more cautious and don't make too many judgments about actions I don't understand.

In the past, my own judgment was overturned and verified in various scenarios of YES GO, without any cost, without being deducted from wages and without being laughed at. Find your best side in a safe trial and error environment.

Before I joined YES GO, I decided to restart my idea five years ago-"going abroad for graduate study". In YES GO, I know myself more and more. When I saw someone leaving a big factory to open a bar, and someone boldly resigned to start a business, I was even more determined-just do it, and anxiety is unnecessary.

After graduation, I will prepare to go abroad and rush to the next school.

But those who worked as librarians together in YES GO and Qi Xin, who cooperated in the last operation, still keep close contact. They make me feel like my college friends who are catching up on their homework at the airport. Maybe this is the charm of fighting for something together.

After graduation, we got together and prepared many unique birthday surprises in the world:

Someone lied to the birthday boy bully that he couldn't come back on a business trip in Xi, but he still appeared at the scene with a birthday cake;

Because the bad panda likes art, we held a birthday exhibition for him in the hotel.

We also invited friends from all over the world to record a birthday greeting video for mainland, the monitor who loves to travel. ...

On the day I went abroad, they flew to Shenzhen from various cities to see me off. That night we talked until four o'clock in the morning until we boarded the plane.

Some people can't come and insist on saying goodbye to me by video. We talk about feelings, give everything to each other's entrepreneurial experience and talk about future plans.

My mother said, "didn't you just meet?" Why are you so exaggerated? " Yes, I met a group of people who are also very troubled and have a sense of ceremony.

After seeing me on the plane, the group returned to their respective cities. The WeChat group is still very lively.

After going abroad, to be honest, it's quite uncomfortable. Even a little emo. In a foreign country, there are no familiar people, no relatives and friends to talk to, but the time difference is poor.

There is loneliness in every stage, but every new loneliness needs to be adapted. My old habits and the people I meet are helping me adapt.

I still go to the gym at least three times a week. I am too busy, so I go home by bike. In autumn, by the canal, the sunset has not completely set, and the autumn wind gently blows the sweet-scented osmanthus fragrance in the city to me. The open senses are not closed, I am still alive.

A while ago, a lying person on WeChat told me, "You study hard in America and make new friends. We are waiting for you in Hangzhou. "

Sunset, caring, these beautiful enough for me to resist loneliness and continue to go on.

So long, so much, for what?

In retrospect, I took various roads. Easy-going, public, minority. In fact, what matters to me is not which road, but each road itself.

I love this world too much. The people I met and the things I experienced made me feel that as long as the state is right, the road ahead is nothing more than a good road and a better road.

On the day of the interview, San Jingang finished his meal.

He shared with me that he would spare a few minutes to set the table even if the dinner was simple.

What kind of power is behind a person who pursues a sense of ceremony, wears various identity labels and is always curious about people and things?

Until we talk about another kind of people, they can just do one thing and study hard on a fixed road. We all envy and even admire those who do one thing wholeheartedly.

"But this kind of person also needs to be super passionate about one thing, just like I love the world." In that sentence of Sanjin, I think I got the answer.

Because he loves it, he deals with the world and the response he gets makes him love it even more.

YES GO also hopes to send a response to everyone, hoping that each of us can find a "virtuous circle of loving the world".