Sister-in-law is vicious

The fuse of the mother-in-law problem is the contradiction between menstruation and her sister-in-law. It is natural for anyone to be partial to their parents. Don't be so angry and anxious yet.

First, you think your brother has changed, because in any case, your brother can only protect your family. Now he has the obligation to protect his wife, your sister-in-law and your parents' daughter-in-law besides his feelings with you. So, you will feel that because of her, your brother is no longer dedicated to you. In this case, what you need to do is to give your brother a chance to express his thoughts calmly. Why do married men suffer indignities at both ends? It is because both ends are busy talking about their own reasons and don't give him a chance to speak. After a long time, he will get tired of this relationship, whether with his wife or with his parents and family, so coercion is never a good idea.

From what you said above, you can be sure that this is a lazy daughter-in-law, just like me. Therefore, my mother-in-law's evaluation of me is that I am not lazy, but I am particularly lazy. Therefore, it is inevitable that a lazy daughter-in-law will be with a mother-in-law who used to be a daughter-in-law, but is very diligent and good at housekeeping. She is willing to ignore the differences in living habits. Although they will adapt to each other when forming a family, it does not mean that the married daughter-in-law must be fully integrated into the living habits of her husband's family. Therefore, the best way is not to do anything for her, because some things are already on his work list. Like you said, washing clothes, maybe your mother is just like my mother-in-law Maybe I'm wrong, but my mother-in-law is like this. She washed my husband and me before giving birth. After washing, I nagged endlessly before my eyes, so I listened to her patiently and carefully. Next time, I was washed by her before I washed it according to my arrangement. With too much work, she has no energy to wash the clothes we take off at any time, so she sees that I wash clothes every weekend and now she acquiesces in my habit. So, tell your mother, don't always make yourself angry and live the life you want happily. If you don't like their behavior, let them go out and live.

Second, you said that she blacklisted your parents' number on your brother's mobile phone. Does your brother know that if you can't contact your brother because of this, it must be your brother's fault. If he has your parents in mind, he will often call home to say hello. Of course, if your parents are angry with your sister-in-law because they can't call your brother often to complain, I can definitely understand why your brother is like this, and even what reason do you have to decide? Open your heart and put yourself in your brother's shoes. If your husband loves you very much and your parents are dissatisfied with you in one way or another, what do you want your husband to do, disown your parents, or divorce you? Escape may be his only choice.