"Many old people are sick and hospitalized before they understand that when they get old, their wives can't count on it." what do you think?

Nowadays, many couples with certain financial ability will choose to live separately from their children when they are old. They have always believed that when the old couple are alive, they usually accompany and take care of each other, and then serve and take care of each other when they are sick, without disturbing their children and living their own lives. However, is this really the case?

Uncle Jiang, 64, and Aunt Pan, 62, have always been a loving couple in our eyes. Whether walking, shopping or shopping, they always walk together, almost inseparable, always talking and laughing, and have a good relationship.

Uncle Jiang is a retired teacher with a decent salary. Aunt Pan is an ordinary rural woman who has never been to work in her life. When Grandpa Jiang retired at the age of 56, because they had not cultivated land for a long time, their two grandchildren were old enough to go to school, and they no longer needed their help, so they moved to the market town and lived a happy old age.

Uncle Jiang was ill and was hospitalized before the operation. Aunt Pan refused to sleep with her. In May of this year, Uncle Jiang felt that he always choked when eating. When his second son came back to visit him, he talked about his own phenomenon. Without saying anything, the son drove him to the best hospital in the city the next day. Aunt Pan didn't go with her because of carsickness.

After some examination, it was finally determined that Jiang Bobo was in the middle and late stage of esophageal cancer and needed immediate hospitalization.

The eldest son and the second son came back, and everyone discussed the specific matters of seeing a doctor and the escort of the staff. Originally, everyone thought that Aunt Pan, 62, could accompany Uncle Jiang when he was hospitalized, including various examinations. On the day of the operation, the two sons took turns to ask for leave, which was also the most important escort after the operation. Aunt Pan has been prevaricating about this, looking bitter and embarrassed, but refused to promise to accompany her.

Uncle Jiang saw her mind and said to her two sons, Your mother is old, and the hospital is far from home, so she has to live there every day. She can't read, and she can't eat or sleep well outside, so don't let her accompany her. Before the operation, I was alone in the hospital and did all the tests myself.

How is that possible? A patient with advanced esophageal cancer has enough psychological panic and pressure, and his spirit is also very painful. Can he stay in the hospital alone?

But when Aunt Pan heard what Uncle Jiang said, she immediately breathed a sigh of relief and said, Isn't your father a good man when he doesn't have surgery? There was nothing wrong with him when he was in hospital. What's the point of letting him do the examination himself? It's no use me being with him. I can not help you with anything. I don't know anything. I don't wanna go!

The two sons can only smile bitterly! Finally, the two brothers agreed that each of them would take turns to go to the hospital to accompany his father for one day and accompany him to do various inspection items.

Aunt Pan didn't visit Uncle Jiang on the day of his operation. Today is the day of uncle Jiang's operation. The second son went back to meet his mother and went to the hospital together. The two sons could see that Uncle Jiang had been very lost and lonely in the hospital, but he never said it. He silently pressed his heart and never said in front of his son that he wanted Aunt Pan to go to the hospital. But his heart must want his wife to accompany him, wait for him and take care of him.

However, Aunt Pan still refused awkwardly. She said that she had been worried about her wife at home for some time, and she couldn't eat well, slept well, was in poor health and was seriously carsick. Going to the hospital will definitely not help, but will only increase the burden on my two sons and even kill myself!

The two sons really didn't expect their mother to say this, but since she didn't mean to break up with her father, since she didn't want to visit her wife, and since she also said that she was in poor health and was not suitable for serving patients, let her go.

The two sons continued to serve and accompany their father day after day, and also invited nurses from other places to help them take care of their father. When the father woke up after the operation, the two sons obviously saw his father's eyes hovering over his two sons, daughter-in-law and grandson. After not seeing the wife he was looking for, his face showed disappointment! The two sons hurried forward to explain that their mother had been worried about you at home and exhausted herself, so she didn't follow her. When her mother is better, she will come to see you. Uncle Jiang just closed his eyes slowly, which was recognized by them.

Uncle Jiang went to the hospital, but Aunt Pan didn't. She said that she would wait for her wife when she came back. Since then, Uncle Jiang has been accompanied by two sons in turn after the operation. He spent all the hard days in the hospital and his health improved day by day. His two sons have been taking care of him in all aspects. However, Aunt Pan did not appear in the hospital from beginning to end.

The second daughter-in-law went to visit her father-in-law one day and heard him say that your mother-in-law was so cruel that she didn't come to see me all day. Is she so assured of me? If I don't come up in one breath on the day of the operation, I won't even see her last side, and she won't even see my last side! Why didn't she come to see me all day?

When the second daughter-in-law went back and said these words to her mother-in-law, her mother-in-law began to cry and said, where did I miss him? I'm not well either. I feel uncomfortable when I go to the hospital. I can't stand the smell of hospitals and those patients. I can't eat or sleep. I can't go to the hospital! I'll wait for him when he comes back, okay?

Later, Aunt Pan asked her second son to drive her to the hospital to see her wife. The second son refused and said that she would be discharged in a few days. Why are you going? You take good care of yourself, and when dad comes back from the hospital, you will have a day to wait on him!

In this way, Aunt Pan never visited Uncle Jiang once during his half-month in hospital.

After leaving the hospital, Uncle Jiang lamented that when he was sick, he could only rely on his own children to take care of him. Finally, Uncle Jiang was discharged from the hospital, and the two sons followed their father home. Uncle Jiang sighed at everyone: "People are old, useless, sick, and finally can only rely on their own children to take care of them!"

Aunt Pan is unhappy: Don't you need me to take care of you in the future? Uncle Jiang said, of course, I still need your care. Children have their own work and life. We parents don't want them to take time off to take care of them, do we? I just think, you and I are old, a old bones can't stand it. Without children, one person is sick, and the other really can't afford it!

Actually, you can't just blame Aunt Pan for not taking good care of his wife. What she said is also true. An ordinary rural woman, who can't understand several big characters, has never been far away in her life, so it's really difficult to accompany her to the hospital! And she also knows that she can't help anything, which can only make things worse, so she simply chooses not to go, which is really helpless!

When you are old, when you are ill in hospital, you need someone to take care of you. When you get old, your wife can't count on it! It's not that my wife doesn't want to take care of you and serve you well, but that their energy and ability are limited. If they are tired of taking care of you, they will become more burdensome. Therefore, at this time, the filial piety of children is particularly important, and the importance of raising children is also reflected.

I hope all parents can have filial sons and daughters, and I can rely on them when I am old and sick in hospital and need their children to take care of me!