Why do you need more and more bride price to get married now?

Why is the bride price so expensive now? These two reasons are telling the truth!

When I was in the company the other day, I chatted with an aunt who swept the floor. We talked about the bride price. Aunt said that there are two boys in their family, and the eldest son is getting married soon. Let's talk about bride price money. I asked my aunt what the bride price was, but she said it was 200 thousand. Hearing this figure, I suddenly felt a lot of pressure.

I didn't expect so many bride price now. A few years ago, I remember it was only tens of thousands of dollars. Who knew it had gone up so much? I don't know if the male compatriots feel a lot of pressure, haha! Actually speaking of this bride price, as my mother said, everyone has his own story. I asked a boy in the south about the bride price before.

Boys said that the bride price money there is very cheap, just tens of thousands. I said unbelievable. Is there a cheaper place now? I asked him where he was from, but he said he was from Fujian, and he was shocked at that time. Isn't the bride price in places near the sea like Fujian very high?

I watched the wedding video before, and there are countless gold hanging on the girl, not to mention the bride price, which is definitely more expensive. I think there are many businesses in the south, so the economic conditions will not be very bad. Families with daughters should not marry their children off so easily.

I told my mother about it, and my mother said, it depends on what you think. As a boy, he certainly doesn't want to spend so much money. If he can redeem it, he won't say that the bride price is so high. When a girl asks, she must speak a little lower, so that at least the price won't be so dead when the woman's family quotes.

Families with girls, as parents, have worked hard to raise their children and spent countless efforts and material resources. Now they are going to send their children to other people's homes, and they will definitely be reluctant. I always feel that no matter who I marry, my children are not as good as myself, so I should give more bride price when I get married.

Therefore, Bian Xiao summed up why the bride price will rise higher and higher now! First, people's living conditions have improved. Unlike a few years ago, everyone was generally short of money. Even if they want to take more, others can't take it out, can they? In today's family, who wouldn't save some money for their children? Perhaps some families will start planning their children's marriage after giving birth to a boy, and will not say that there is nothing.

Moreover, families with girls now will not prefer boys to girls as before, but now everyone prefers to have a girl, because girls are intimate little cotton-padded jackets. So these parents will spend more energy on raising their children.

No girl grew up under the careful care of her parents. There are little princesses at home. After a boy told me about their family, he said that he had a sister, and all the people in their family spoiled her daughter. My sister can buy whatever she wants all day, and her parents are very gentle and unwilling to beat and scold her.

But he's different. He felt as if he were not his own. Otherwise, why does his family treat him as a free-range, and whether he wants it or not, he can't get anything? It can be seen that other girls are so loved by their families that it is absolutely impossible to marry their daughters easily.

Second, for the woman's family, bride price money is an attitude. In my opinion, it is really easy to make enemies if money is not done well. Some girls' parents think that the amount of money you give to the bride price directly proves the degree of boys' concern for girls.

If a boy cares about this girl very much, then he will feel that if he wants to marry this girl, he can't let her be wronged, and the boy will want to give his girlfriend a grand wedding. But if two people don't have any feelings, when discussing bride price money, they will unconsciously bring some calculation ideas and don't want to pay so much for each other, which is inevitable.

But in Bian Xiao's view, in fact, our average family is very reasonable. No one wants to be unhappy about the bride price. Many parents of girls say that money is not that important. Children nowadays have hands and feet, and they can earn whatever they want. The key is to see what boys think of their daughters.

When two people are together, the most important thing is to see if the boy is good to you. It's no use asking for money if others treat you badly. But if boys know how to treat girls well, in fact, the bride price money is not that important. No girl's parents will ruin the feelings of two children because of the bride price.