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2 1 love cheats make college boyfriends stick to you.

Make your boyfriend stick to you more and more 2 1 Love Cheats

1, providing emotional value

For example, if he wants family warmth, you should give him a sense of belonging. It can make him feel comfortable when he gets along with you and make the other person depend on you.

For specific methods, please refer to the notes on my homepage No.89.

2, correctly express emotional feelings, such as when the other party makes you angry, the wrong expression is: sulk, ignore the other party, put a face, just don't say it. The correct expression is: concrete facts+my emotional feelings+my hopes.

3. Face up to contradictions and conflicts

Avoid contradictions and conflicts:

"Don't talk to me, I don't want to hear it", and then start to give the other person the cold shoulder.

Face up to contradictions and conflicts:

"The reason why you are so angry, can you tell me?

"What do you want me to do?

4. Create "unfinished events"

For example, at the end of the date, you can make an agreement with TA about your next plan.

Or one thing that was promised to TA, you can delay it a little.

5. Causing a sense of crisis in TA

For example, in the past, you took the initiative to ask him out on holidays, so now you have to break this state. People will feel safe about what belongs to them completely, thinking that TA will always be there, so there is nothing to be afraid of. Like a tree, he knows you are overhead, but he has to stand on tiptoe to get there! Instead of going around him all the time. The humbler you love, the more arrogant the other person is. For example, occasionally refuse a date with TA and tell him that you have an appointment with a friend. When you stop focusing on him, you are no longer completely under his control.

6. Become an inseparable part of each other.

Use what you are good at and make him you.

When you play an important role in his life and become an inseparable part of him, he can't live without you.

7. Worship

Boasting more is a kind of positive guidance, guiding the other party to do what they like.

Praise formula: what you want him to do, he did+your positive feelings.

8. Enhance sense of participation

Let him participate in daily life as much as possible, such as housework and shopping.

Give him encouragement and praise, and let him have a positive participation experience.

9.laziness

If you cook, don't wash the dishes.

You do all the housework, and the other person will have time to play with his mobile phone, so it's better to be lazy than the other person. 10, weakness

If you can do everything well, he will get used to it.

I think you can do anything. I don't need to care about you at all. As a result, you lose your sense of protection and need, show weakness appropriately and express your needs.

1 1, keep your distance.

If the phone keeps ringing and WeChat keeps ringing, you need to report your own dynamics at any time and accept the monitoring of the other party. Anyone who is tired will want to escape. So keep a certain distance and give each other space.

Take care of his face.

Don't lose your temper with him in front of his friends until you are alone. Take care of each other's face and don't make him embarrassed and uncomfortable. 13. Don't always criticize and accept, but know how to accept and accept, so that he can get full understanding and security here.

14. Pay attention to and respond to what the other party says.

When communicating with each other, be less negative and picky. Use yes and sentence patterns instead of inflectional words like but. As soon as the conversation changes, the opponent's vigilance will be improved, and you will show a state of confrontation, but yes and no aggression.

15. Be aware of the flowing state of feelings. Pay attention to the flow of feelings. If you are enthusiastic about him and he is cold during this time, then you should cool down moderately.

16, allowed

Allow him to have his own habits instead of asking the other person to follow his own standards. For example, how to cut vegetables and cook, there is no need to follow your own ideas.

17, worship

Worship him and satisfy his psychological needs of being worshipped. The most obvious point is that he will protect you better and develop in the direction you want.

18, cultivate the same hobbies.

Find something that interests both of you, and you can work together to finish it. In this process, we can also encourage each other and share our feelings.

19, enhancing cognition

Open your heart, improve yourself and let him appreciate you. It is your own source of energy and a place to attract each other. 2

Step 0 manage your emotions

Don't let him think that you are a time bomb, which will explode at any time, or an unreasonable person.

Only when your mood is stable enough will he feel at ease and be willing to be with you.

2 1, has its own daily plan.

Don't wait around him every day, you should do your own thing.

Not every time he asks you out, you have time. You should focus on your own arrangement, not him.