My mother-in-law in the south is coming to help me with my children, but my father-in-law is not coming. What should I do? I'm worried.

Put yourself in the other's shoes. If you are telling the truth, you are still doing well. As wives, we should be equally filial to our parents and husbands. Living with my mother-in-law and father-in-law does have many inconveniences, such as different tastes, different living habits and different ways of dealing with people. Another point is that you must never say that your husband is wrong in front of your mother-in-law's father-in-law, and you can't let your husband do housework, because your husband is their treasure, and you can't say that your mother-in-law is wrong in front of your husband. After all, we are connected by blood and feel sorry for each other. At this time, if the husband can't hurt people, the hardest thing is the wife, and there is nowhere to sue. Therefore, I think we should communicate with our husband more, but don't quarrel with him because of parents' problems. Tell your husband what you have done and let him know that you respect his parents and have not wronged them. I think of them wholeheartedly. At the same time, talk about your grievances. For example, it says that you are hungry, and the old man has to wait for his son to come back for dinner. You can complain to him behind his back, and the husband will say loudly that they will listen if they don't wait for him. Usually take the initiative to put forward some filial piety things for him to do, or you can do it and tell him. When he understands that you are kind to his parents, he can understand your pain and it is best to make him feel inconvenient to be with his parents. This is easy to handle. By asking him to share it with his parents, you can rest assured that his parents will agree to his request. After all, they love their son.

The key to the problem is to let your husband stand on your side, let him know how good you are to his family, and let him know that you are suffering with him. He will deal with this problem.

I wish you happiness and family harmony!