How to treat others' malicious slander correctly?

You never know how many versions of you others say, how they will describe you to protect themselves, and you can't stop unrealistic gossip.

Your own image in the eyes of others should be much more than you think.

Cooley's psychological definition of self is: "For everyone, others are a mirror, and individuals learn from others' views on themselves through social interaction, thus forming their own self".

So our evaluation of others is largely based on ourselves.

So are the others.

We regard what we think is right as our moral code and behavior standard; We suppress what we think is disgusting, and become the shadow of our own heart, even the object of exclusion.

We impose our own standards on others, which constitutes an idealized or hostile projection.

Living in this world, it's really normal that you have people you like and some people don't like you.

Really rich people don't say that others are showing off behind their backs, and beautiful people don't say that this is a world of looking at faces.

People who are better than you in all aspects don't bother to slander you at all.

People who are not as good as you, because you surpass their Excellence, lead to cognitive deviation and bring imbalance, so you want to eliminate this imbalance.

They take a way of "dragging you into the water" to make you become like them. Many excellent people are easily taken into the water by various attacks and criticisms behind them, and lose their aura because they can't bear it.

Stay who you are. As for those who attack you, don't stop for them.

Try to move forward, and one day they will be left behind by you and will not be seen at all.

When others look down on you, laugh at you and accuse you, in fact, most people are just passers-by, and any way of thinking and lifestyle of most people is none of your business. Anyone else, even if getting along with you can make you hate for a long time, you should realize that your life is yours after all, no matter who and your life are independent.

Your life is more important to you than all of them put together.