What are the basic hobbies between lovers?

I think * * * has the same hobby, * * has the same language, and the three views are not necessarily the same, but at least they can't be completely opposite.

For example, he likes playing games, but I will watch the live broadcast with him. I like reading books. She doesn't read it often, but she will give me a recommended bibliography. This is the same hobby.

For example, he will tell me that his favorite team will tell me about the live broadcast of the game, and I will also pay attention to the news of the team, so I will chat with him. I will tell him that I like puppies, and he will know what kind of dogs I like, and then talk to me about kittens and puppies. This is the same language aspect.

Finally, talk about three views. My three views were a little more optimistic than his, and then he became lively. His personality was a little deeper, and later I became more mature and steady in dealing with things.

So the conditions of being together are not inconsistent, but whether they will be the opposite. True love is that both parties will make changes for each other intentionally or unintentionally. A relationship will only expose many problems in the dull period, whether the three views are consistent and whether the interests are consistent.

At the beginning of a relationship, most people don't pay special attention to other things. The throb in their hearts has been urging two hearts. Both people like each other, care about each other, and are willing to cater to each other. As long as we are together, everything is romantic.

When feelings cool down and they love each other, it seems that there will be many problems that they didn't care about at first. Whether interests and hobbies need to be consistent is an unavoidable topic.

Indeed, if couples have the same interests and frequency, they will get along easily. In many ordinary lives, understanding may be more important than love.

But it really doesn't mean that every long-term relationship, two people must have the same hobbies. Good love requires both sides to know how to seek common ground while reserving differences, how to change each other and how to tolerate each other. Love is a moment, and getting along may be half-life. Being together is actually a process of understanding self-persistence and learning to compromise with each other.

* * * How important is the same hobby to couples?

Some people say that falling in love is to find people who have the same frequency, hobbies and interests, have many same topics and are easy to get along with. It is also said that couples don't have to care whether their hobbies are the same, let alone change their hobbies to cater to each other and respect each other. On the contrary, it can make their feelings have a long-term freshness.

In fact, love really shouldn't have any standards. It is best for two people to have the same interests, and it doesn't matter if they are different. When you meet the right person, you are attracted to each other and appreciate each other, so you can't sleep at night. It seems that all the standards are not worthy of your love.

The most important thing in a good relationship is love. Love can make each other learn to be tolerant, and love can also make each other cherish. Using various rules and principles to measure the quality of feelings is just weighing and making do.

When lovers have the same hobbies, we can do the same things happily, and we can enjoy the happiness brought by the same hobbies. Because we have the same hobbies, we won't feel lonely in the long years. On the contrary, because we have the same hobbies, we will be full of happiness in each other's hearts.