If you could do it all over again, what would you choose?

To give you an example, Yu Feihong was born in 1971, which is much older than you and me, but she really doesn’t look like she is about to turn fifty. Some people analyzed: Because she has no children!

Having no children means that for a woman, she does not have to worry about how to raise and educate her children, and that she will not age faster; it means that the center and focus of your life is still on you; it means that you can go Pursuing your childhood dream means that you don’t need to get up in the middle of the night to feed your child or make milk; it means that after your salary is paid, you can buy that bag and coat that you fell in love with last time you went shopping; it means that you have more Time to take care of yourself and slow down the speed of aging...

But not having children means that for a woman, you have no worries, no sustenance, and you may not have such a strong goal. ......

The reporter asked Yang Liping: "Do you not want children because of dancing?" She replied: "Some people's lives are for the continuation of the family lineage, some are for enjoyment, some are for experience, Some are spectators. I am a spectator of life. I came to this world just to see how a tree grows, how the river flows, how the white clouds float, and how the dew condenses."

Most babies are born. Coincidentally, a night of hangover or failure to take birth control, only a few families carefully plan for the birth of their baby.

If you had a choice, would you have children?

@丁MM: As a woman, only when you have a child can you deeply understand the greatness of the word "mother". Seeing the innocent and flawless smile of the child, the hard work and fatigue of the day are gone. Of course, when I have a child, especially when I am breastfeeding, I never get a good night's sleep. In addition to breastfeeding, I even poop in the middle of the night. When I get older, I have to worry about his education. However, if I had to choose again, I would still have a child. My child, I love you!

@雨阳mother: I knew it was a daughter when I first found out I was pregnant, because it was already four months old, but I am not a very good woman, because I am not a patriarchal person, but I I just don’t want a woman, because no matter how good my life is in the future, I will suffer. No one can pass the test of giving birth to a child. I am afraid that she will suffer, I am afraid that she will feel pain. I am just afraid. I am really afraid. A lot. I really didn’t want it at that time. I wanted to take medicine but I didn’t dare to let her fall off by herself. How scary was it at that time? Now that Nier is five years old, it’s really heart-warming. A few days ago I went to get milk and accidentally fell. She blinked and asked me: Mom, does it hurt? I feel uncomfortable. She has cared about me more than once. When my foot was injured that year, it was difficult for me to get up. She would run over to help me, which made me even more uncomfortable. Such a small person made me cry again and again? She She is really good and obedient, and I feel more and more sorry for my little Nier. If I had to do it all over again, it would be necessary to have a baby

@天天 Mama天天吃吃吃小鸭: Children are given to us by God. The best gift ever! Although I suffered a lot from pregnancy to the birth of the baby, the moment I saw the baby, I felt that everything was worth it! From the beginning of my pregnancy, I suffered from stomach acidity. Others had morning sickness for a month and I suffered from morning sickness for 6 months. But I persisted for the sake of the baby. I finally made it to the due date. The doctor said that my cervix was too tough and the baby just couldn’t come out. The two of us struggled a lot. It took nearly 30 hours for the baby to be born. During these 30 long hours, I was in so much labor pain that I couldn’t eat at all and was really exhausted. But I gritted my teeth and got through it. My husband has been with me to support me and feel sorry for me! Now the baby is one and a half years old. With the baby, the house is always full of laughter and laughter. Every day when I get home, the baby comes to me to hug me and calls mommy, and even kisses me. My whole heart melts. I feel that my family is happy. Together, the baby grows up healthy and safe, this is happiness! If I could do it all over again, I would still choose to be the greatest profession - a mother. I feel that only by being a mother can I be a complete woman, and only then can I understand the profound meaning of the saying that if you don't raise children, you will not know the kindness of your parents! Baby, mommy loves you!

@月halfmummy: Regardless of whether I can do it over again or not, I will have children. Children are not only the continuation of the relationship between husband and wife, but also the source of happiness for a family.

Those who say they don't want children may think in the eyes of others that she lives a beautiful and free life, but when they reach old age, how can others know what they are thinking. I think the happiest thing for a person is to have a happy family and descendants. It has nothing to do with money, this kind of life is perfect

@Only: In my opinion, the advantages of bringing up a baby outweigh the disadvantages. There are elderly people in every household. Without babies, the home would be so boring. There are old people and children, so the home is lively and lively. After we got married, we lived with others and felt that the family was very "calm". Grandparents often watch TV, while we young people go to work and then go home to rest. Whenever grandparents go out and see other neighbors taking care of their grandchildren, they feel very envious. Moreover, the old man is over 60 years old and needs children to support him. Carrying a baby is quite tiring and adds a sweet burden. Wherever you want to travel and where you want to eat, you have to consider your baby. The same goes for sleeping at night. We have to wait until the baby goes to sleep before we can sleep. Most of life revolves around babies. But after having a baby, the house became a lot more lively, with constant laughter and laughter. If I could do it all over again, of course I would choose to have a baby?, that is the inheritance of love

@xiaoxiao520: I have to say that before I had a baby, my time was really free and at my disposal. I wanted to go shopping I didn’t get home until midnight, so I slept as hard as I wanted! Ever since I had a baby, sleeping all night has been a fantasy. One moment he wakes up hungry, another moment he feels dirty, and another moment he cries out of fright. It hurts to take multiple night feeds! When I was sick, I looked at him all night long, and my eyes were red; I couldn't go anywhere after get off work every day, and all I wanted to do was go home and be with my baby. Select carefully, all the carefully selected items are given to the baby, and all friends’ gatherings and shopping trips are canceled because the baby needs something to buy! However, if I had it to do over again, I would still have my baby. He is my angel, my little pistachio. My world is perfect without him. He allows us to experience the joy and responsibility of being a parent, and makes our world more perfect. Our home is intact!

@筱筱 Mommy: After having a child, I realized that I am stronger, I am more and more able to understand my parents, and I have become more mature. But because of the children, I can no longer enjoy a free life, and it is easy to become selfless. The children become the focus, and I pay less attention to myself. If I could do it all over again, I would still choose to have children. Although I would lose a lot, the innocence of children brings us more reality.

@我是龙小青: There are both disadvantages and advantages to having children, both sides

First of all, let’s talk about the advantages: First, after having children, you get a lot of benefits. The same joy and happiness; secondly, the whole person is much more fulfilled; thirdly, it is the crystallization of the love between my husband and I and the testimony of happiness. In fact, there are many, many benefits.

Let’s talk about the disadvantages again: First, you don’t have freedom, you have to take everything with you; second, there is too much financial pressure; third, you are really irritable when you don’t obey; fourth, you sleep all the time. Not good

If I could do it all over again, I would still choose to have children, because I think the meaning of life is to get the family together, and children are the inheritance of a family.