Why can't a woman who is not respected at the dinner table be happy after three meals?

"I don't have a job. I'm almost 40 years old. When you divorce, you only need the custody of two children, and you leave home almost cleanly. It's a pity. " My mother mentioned my wife with a sigh.

"How many elite white-collar workers still can't afford a child? Besides, she has been a housewife for more than ten years, a woman with no education and no technology. This is not pity, it is stupid! " It was my father's incomprehension when he heard about it.

"But unfortunately, the marriage did not stop in time. It is a shame to bear the burden of humiliation for decades in inferior marriages. How many decades can life last? This is not pity or stupidity, but courage. " It was my anger and support when I learned that my wife was getting a divorce.

In fact, I have also heard of my wife's marriage tragedy, and I have also witnessed her unfortunate marriage for more than ten years.

Memories of three meals with his wife can predict the direction of their marriage: women who are not respected at the dinner table will not be happy.

0 1, I haven't had a full meal for a month.

The first time I met my wife, on the full moon wine table, she gave birth to twin daughters.

At that time, although his wife had given birth to a child, she was still in good shape. Although she was plain, it was difficult to hide her beauty.

It is said that my cousin has been obsessed for a long time, exhausted all kinds of scheming, and finally got the consent of both parents to get married by cohabitation before marriage and pregnancy before marriage.

I thought this combination of true love, coupled with the joy of twins, would make my wife pampered, but this is not the case.

At the beginning of the full moon wine, my wife has been taking care of two children in the cubicle provided by the hotel.

A man and two children, in just half an hour, were fed milk and water respectively. One took a bath, changed diapers and washed his ass. One peed on the mat and needed to change diapers. The crying of the two children worried his wife from time to time. Although it is joy, it is difficult to hide her fatigue.

Cousin and elders only care about greeting guests. When the guests have finished eating and left, cousin will let his mother take the place of his wife and let her come out for dinner.

As soon as my wife sits down, she doesn't talk too much to the people around her. It seems that she is wolfing down her food.

Half-drunk cousin kicked his wife's stool and said contemptuously, "Are you hungry?" ? Did you eat your last meal? My family is not good to you, and you are not allowed to eat at ordinary times? Are you afraid of jokes when you eat like this? "

Hearing this, the wife who was chewing felt like something in her throat, and it was difficult to swallow it again. She immediately became red-eyed, because she choked and spit out the rice.

"Oh, this coward is really a dog meat steamed stuffed bun. She can't go to the operating table, which makes me embarrassed. "

My cousin apologized to everyone and glared at his wife. I didn't forget to put my arm around my little neck. I look like someone who has experienced it. I muttered, "You don't know how annoying this woman is after giving birth. It's very different from before! "

The embarrassed wife left the table on the grounds that the child was crying and had to be looked after. Needless to say, she is not full.

"Ah, I took the baby alone. To tell you the truth, I haven't had a full meal for a month and slept for more than three hours. The two children don't sleep at the same time, nor eat and drink Lazar at the same time. They often eat three times a meal, from hot to cold. Take a bath twice at a time, and come out to see the children in the middle; Even the last tuba is hard to blow at once ... I just made you laugh. " Before I finished, my wife was sobbing.

"Cousin? Won't he help? Isn't it free to fall in love? " I don't understand.

"As you can see just now, your cousin is like my triplets. He has been separated from me for two months because I got up many times at night before giving birth. " His wife said helplessly.

At the dinner table, I am the one who cleans up the leftovers.

The second time I had dinner with my wife was her mother-in-law and my aunt's birthday party.

Because the elderly are inconvenient to move, they arrange to eat at home.

I rushed to help early, and my wife prepared chicken, duck and fish, and the vegetables were fresh.

I chatted with my wife, while preparing food and cleaning up.

When cleaning fish scales, my wife's hand was accidentally cut by a knife, and blood flowed out instantly. My cousin went to the kitchen and asked in the first sentence, "Did you eat the fish?" Get it on the fish, but you can't eat it. "The second sentence said to his wife," didn't you buy rubber gloves? "Just come in handy."

His wife looked embarrassed, turned around and bent down to look for gloves.

I can't help but scold my cousin: "You don't care about your daughter-in-law, you cleaned up the fish."

Who knows cousin confidently replied: "Come on, don't compare her with you women in the workplace. She is a housewife. What can she do except take care of the elderly and children? " You can't even clean a fish if you don't see it with your own eyes. "

After a while, the food came up, with a table of chicken, duck, fish and seasonal fruits and vegetables, but in front of my wife was a plate of cold celery, which was not good in appearance and color.

"Sister-in-law, this is leftovers. Look at these celery. Don't eat. There are so many fresh vegetables today that you can't finish them. " As I spoke, I walked to the plate in front of my sister-in-law

But my sister-in-law beat me to it, holding down the plate and not talking.

I only heard my aunt lying in the back room say, "Don't waste that plate of celery, it's a sin to waste food!" " "

Cousin also helped to tease his wife: "you don't know, her voice can't tell good from bad." Leftovers and delicious food are the same in her mouth. "

When my cousin was wolfing down meat and drinking, he was really upset to see his wife holding leftover celery with chopsticks.

When cleaning up the dishes and chopsticks, the wife complained, "The whole family is not allowed to waste a grain of rice, a drop of oil or a vegetable. It's my fault that I don't have enough to eat. Cooking too much is not to everyone's taste. Old people don't eat leftovers, children are reluctant to let them eat, and it's my fault that my husband doesn't eat. Who will eat? Only I can eat. When I was not married, I would rather drink fresh corn porridge than eat leftover braised pork, but after seven years of marriage, I ate leftovers for seven years. "

03, a jiaozi, dry in front, eat in the back.

The third time I went to my cousin's house for dinner, after I got married, my relatives and friends in my hometown invited the bride to dinner.

My wife said she would pack me jiaozi to eat, so I rushed to help early.

I saw my cousin lying on the sofa, eating melon seeds, drinking tea, watching TV and brushing funny videos from time to time.

My wife has gone out to buy food. Soon, the doorbell rang. As soon as the door opened, my wife brought in a large bag of pumpkins, potatoes, eggplant, minced meat, leeks and tomatoes ... roughly, it was more than 20 kilograms.

My wife trotted into the kitchen as soon as she entered the door and put everything down. My wife's fingers carrying vegetables were all red and swollen by plastic bags. My cousin didn't move, and my in-laws got up and went for a walk.

I want to wash my hands to help my wife. My cousin said politely, "You don't need help. These people's jiaozi is a piece of cake for your sister-in-law. You have to wait until there is ready-made food. Without earning a penny, Bao Jiaozi also let others help and spoiled her. "

I ignored my cousin and went to the kitchen to help my wife.

With my help, my wife was very happy and talked and laughed with me: "After so many years of marriage, what I like best is that you go home for dinner, because every time you come, you will help me. It feels really good. "

Wrapped jiaozi, my wife's hand trembled slightly when cooking jiaozi. I asked why, and my wife said it was a psychological reaction caused by nervousness, which acted on my hands.

She has cooked for this family for so many years, cooking early and cooking late, losing appetite and being salty ... Her family will blame her, she will be nervous, her hands will shake, and then it will become a habit.

At noon, everyone sat down and waited for jiaozi to serve, leaving only his wife to cook jiaozi.

While cooking jiaozi, my wife peeled garlic for everyone and served vinegar dishes.

When the first pot was cooked and served, the wife was all smiles. While handing out garlic and vinegar dishes to everyone, she nervously asked, "Is it delicious? Is salty and light suitable? "

After everyone answered correctly, she safely cooked the second pot and then put a bowl of soup in front of everyone.

Jiaozi was completely cooked, and everyone was almost full before leaving the table. I saw my wife didn't eat jiaozi immediately, but fiddled with all the jiaozi to prevent adhesion. The good ones are put in one plate, and the cooked ones are put in another plate.

Finally, the wife ate the rotten jiaozi, put the good jiaozi aside and explained, "The children and your brother like fried dumplings, and they will cook them tomorrow morning."

In this way, my wife worked in fear and trouble all morning, and ate a few tattered jiaozi.

I think my wife is not a hostess, but more like a nanny at the dinner table. This feeling makes my guest feel that she is the culprit who wronged her.

"Sister-in-law, are you wronged?" I asked.

"You are married. Take your time, but you are better than me. You can earn money, you should live better than me. " My sister-in-law replied.

It is said that my sister-in-law wants a divorce because my cousin has a mistress outside and a son. My wife wants a bag from 99 yuan, but my cousin doesn't think it's worthy. Xiao San wants a necklace of 999 yuan, and my cousin doesn't even blink.

In order to get a quick divorce, a desperate wife wants nothing but custody of her two children.

Write at the end:

The tragedy of my wife's marriage is something I can foresee a long time ago, but it is also the last thing I want to see.

In fact, marriage never requires you to make sacrifices from the front, and rarely requires courage to face where you will go, but what can best maintain the temperature of marriage is three meals a day, daily necessities.

How can a woman be happy if she is not respected at the dinner table?

I hope the above words can encourage my readers.

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