Sister-in-law is not good to in-laws. What should I do?

In fact, you have some sympathy for your in-laws, and you don't like the behavior of your eldest brother and sister-in-law, but we are all adults, especially the way they get along, and you can't control it. But your husband and wife were inadvertently implicated by your brother and sister-in-law. Obviously, unlike them, your parents-in-law also guard against you like thieves. Nobody will be happy.

But do you actually know why your in-laws are so excited about their eldest son and daughter-in-law? You know and understand that you don't even want their money, but you are always unhappy because you hear their empty talk.

In fact, if they don't give money, you may feel nothing. You said you didn't want their money either, but they kept their word, and you felt bad.

In fact, if you put it in another way, you will feel better psychologically:

Your in-laws have raised your husband, and you are both promising people. You don't want to be as old as your eldest brother and sister-in-law, even if they don't give you money, it's nothing.

The old man's wealth has not dragged you down. Unlike some people, the husband and wife are poor, the old people on both sides are poor, and the medical expenses can't be raised. Your mother-in-law intends to save money for her old age and doesn't want to drag you down.

Your in-laws like to talk big, but they don't always give them. You haven't encountered this problem once or twice. You should also know that they are just paying lip service. First, don't put your hopes on them. Second, just listen and don't take it seriously. Think of it as an old man who likes to brag. You let them talk about it. Comfortable and filial, so it's not expensive.

As the saying goes, people need time to get along with each other. If you like, you can spend more time with the elderly, chat with them and bring something to eat to see them. After a long time, they will know that you and your sister-in-law are different, so they will not be so nervous.