Talking about women like clothes.

The exact origin of "brothers are like brothers and women are like clothes" is unknown, but it was quoted by his uncle Liu Bei in the Romance of the Three Kingdoms, so the world regards this as Liu Bei's invention.

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The Three Kingdoms Entertainment Circle Episode 15: According to legend, Zhang Fei committed suicide by drawing his sword. Liu Bei grabbed the sword and threw it on the ground, saying, "As the ancients said,' Brothers are like brothers, and wives are like clothes. Clothes are worn and can be sewn; Can you continue with your hands and feet broken?' The three of us became sworn in Taoyuan. We don't want to live together, we just want to die together. Although we lost our city and home today, An Ren taught our brother to die halfway. Besides, the city is not mine; Although the family is trapped, Lu Bu won't kill them, but he can still design to save them. My good brother made a mistake at the moment, why did he give his life? "Say and cry. Both Guan and Zhang cried.

The general idea of this chapter is that Zhang Fei captured Xiapi City in Xuzhou and gave Liu Bei's wife to Lu Bu. He was ashamed and begged for death. Liu Bei advised him that he didn't know which "ancients" would take the blame, saying that "brothers are like brothers and wives are like clothes". At the end of the Eastern Han Dynasty, women in troubled times really mixed up like "clothes". If they lose them, they can give them to others! But on the other hand, it was the last year of the Eastern Han Dynasty, more than 1800 years ago. That kind of dross thought should have been thrown into the Pacific Ocean a long time ago!

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Let's talk about "clothes". If we must regard "women are like clothes" as the golden rule of marriage and love, there will be more people with broken hands and feet in the world. Who goes out without clothes? Moreover, under the protection of the marriage law, this dress has grown to the flesh. If you have to "change clothes", you must tear off a layer of belt and meat! Nowadays, neither "divorcing a wife" nor "divorcing a husband" is as simple as a piece of paper in ancient times, which inevitably involves the division of property and the struggle for custody of children. Generally speaking, if the husband and wife do not agree on the marital property before or after marriage or the agreement is invalid, the property obtained during the marriage relationship belongs to the joint property of the husband and wife.

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There is nothing wrong with treating brothers as brothers, but don't say things like "* * is like clothes", which lacks gentlemanly manners, affects social and family harmony, and occasionally smacks of legal ignorance.