Once the "signs" of the elderly appear, their "time" is running out. Why?

Parents will eventually get old. Although this is the law of nature, as children, they should cherish their parents' lifetime and try their best to repay them, so as to avoid regretting their parents' life when they leave in the future.

If we observe carefully, when the elderly have the following symptoms, it implies that there is not much time left, so children should be psychologically prepared. Before her death, my mother had the following symptoms:

First, the blood pressure of the elderly continued to decrease gradually

In the last few years of life, the blood pressure of the elderly began to decrease, and many elderly people even had no basic diseases, and their blood pressure also decreased some time before their death. If the elderly at home regularly measure their blood pressure, it is not a good sign when they find that their blood pressure is gradually decreasing. As children, they should be vigilant.

Second, tell your children that you don't want to die yet

Research shows that many people are conscious before they die. This point has been proved by scientists.

My mother got a blood clot in her leg and looked at the worsening calf. My mother said sadly, I really don't want to die! Looking back now, it shows that my mother had predicted that she would leave us soon. Sure enough, my mother died less than two months after I said this.

Third, the old man suddenly wakes up after a long coma

If the old man stays in a coma for a long time, one day he suddenly gets better, and he can eat and talk, which is by no means a good thing, but what China people often say is "coming back to life".

my mother couldn't eat for several days before she died, and she almost stopped talking. But one afternoon, I was suddenly very awake, drank some milk and ate some buns, and felt my appetite suddenly improved. Everyone felt very happy. Originally, everyone stayed in front of the bed for several days. When they saw that their mother was strong, they went home to rest. In the middle of the night, I suddenly received a phone call from my sister, telling my mother that the situation was not good and asking everyone to hurry over. But it was too late. By the time we arrived, my mother had already died, and everyone regretted it.

Fourth, my hands are cold

During the two months when my mother was in bed, my elder sister was basically waiting on her. A few days before my mother left, my elder sister told us that my mother's hands were cold and somehow. This may be due to poor blood flow in the body.

Everyone must be very sad when the old man dies. However, it is human nature to be born and die. As long as we can do our best to be filial before the old man dies, we will get some psychological comfort. If you can predict in advance that the old man will die soon, gather around him in advance so as not to leave lifelong regrets.

My father died at the age of 81, and my uncle and aunt didn't leave until they were in their nineties. According to my observation, once the old people have these symptoms, there is not much time left. Of course, this may be a few months, or it may be a year or even longer. It doesn't make any difference even if you have a good appetite.

First of all, my legs and feet are ineffective, so I don't want to walk, and I can't walk. My father rarely walked a few years before he was 8 years old, even though my mother helped him to take a walk in the yard, he was reluctant.

The second is incontinence, and more than 7% of the elderly will lose control of their bowel movements several months or even years before their death. Although my father didn't have this kind of situation, my uncle, aunt and uncle all endured incontinence for several months.

the third is the illusion of thinking, hearing and hearing. Three years before my father died, I began to doubt this and that. Some doubts were ridiculous. Sometimes I even lay on the ground like a child, and later I often told my mother that someone was trying to kill him and there were thieves.

these phenomena may occur at the same time or individually. once this happens, we must pay great attention to it. My father was able to wash his face and wipe his body before he left, and he could eat two steamed buns and a bowl of porridge at a meal, but he suddenly left when my mother went to the hospital to see a doctor, not to mention that even my mother could not see his children for the last time, which caused eternal regret!

These are just some of my personal observations. Welcome to add them.

I wish the elderly in the world health and happiness!

a person's life is born of dust, and when he walks on the road, he returns to dust. Everyone will get old one day. In fact, death is metabolism, the cycle of life and death, and it is the law of nature, even the Emperor Lao Zi is born to die.

As children, we should make early preparations, communicate with their parents as much as possible when they are alive, find out what unfinished wishes they have and find ways to help them realize them, and don't let them die with regrets. Spend more time with them and take good care of them, so as not to cause lifelong regret!

When the old people are about to die, there will definitely be some special performances, and these performances also indicate that their time in the world is running out. Children should be psychologically prepared and make plans early. So as not to catch yourself off guard. When my dad left, he had the following common symptoms:

On the day my dad left, he talked for a while and talked for a while, and some talked nonsense. I often say things that make people confused. He can't remember anything when asked. This sentence is still about Zhang Saner, the next one is about Li Si, and the next one is about Wang Erpockmarked. In short, I always say something irrelevant and puzzling.

in the month when my dad left, his hands and feet were swollen like steamed bread. I used potato chips to reduce the swelling, but it will swell again soon, and it will never completely reduce the swelling. And in the week when he left, I held his hand, and it was as cold as holding an ice knot without any temperature.

His pulse is very slow, he speaks weakly, and he doesn't want to eat anything delicious after feeding him food. He always says that it has no taste. Up to now, I haven't figured out why his hands and feet are cold, perhaps because of the poor blood flow in his body.

In the year before he left, his blood pressure began to drop, and it was getting lower every time. His pulse was so weak that he could hardly check it. I feel a little bit, but my beating is also very weak. The whole person is also weak and weak, not angry at all, and sometimes his blood pressure will be regular and gradually decreasing. I don't think this situation is a good sign. At this time, children should be psychologically prepared.

Especially in the last 1 days, my father always talked about my grandparents. Moreover, we don't know many people he said, all of whom are people who have passed away. He has terminal lung cancer. When I can't stand the pain, I will say: Mom, take me away. Don't let me suffer here. I've had enough. Take me away. I miss you.

If the patient is ill in bed for a long time, or is usually groggy and sleepy, he will suddenly feel refreshed one day, have a good appetite for eating, speak as usual, and have a particularly good memory, so he can remember everything that happened before.

He has a good hearing. Even if you speak in a low voice, he can hear you, and his face is red and his eyes are full of gods. This is by no means a good thing, but what people often say is to shine. This phenomenon generally does not last long, ranging from a few minutes to an hour or two. After that, after this kind of gas is vented, it will slowly go to death.

When the patient is about to leave, it always happens, that is, touching the wall. When lying in bed, the hand always reaches out to the wall and touches it. Many old people say that touching the wall will definitely leave. He is exploring the road. There is also a saying that cats don't go near dying people. My cat, I approached my father with it, and it ran away desperately. My dad had a crooked nose when he left. I don't know if it's because I often wear a ventilator.

once a person is in a coma, he will know and respond when he is called, but he will soon fall into a coma again. The dying person, because all kinds of organs are on the verge of collapse, is to stop working. At this time, you can't provide enough energy for your body, resulting in insufficient oxygen supply to your brain and no energy to communicate with people normally, and the whole person will fall into a deep coma.

When a dying patient is alive, his limbs are soft and warm. Once his life enters the countdown, his limbs gradually lose their temperature and become stiff from softness. The reason is that muscle cells lack energy supply, which leads to continuous contraction, resulting in the limbs becoming stiff.

Normal people's body temperature is generally 35 to 37 degrees, but dying patients can't keep their normal body temperature any longer because their energy in the body is exhausted, and then their body temperature will drop rapidly. It was still hot to the touch the first day, but the next day it may be cold to the touch, and there is no heat at all. At this time, as the patient's family, it is necessary to be psychologically prepared.

Old people in the forest often have incontinence, which is what we often say, they are no longer in charge, and they are unconsciously urinating. This may be caused by the failure of various organs and the stop of operation. Once this happens, it is not far from death.

When our parents are old and frail, and gradually dying, we, as children, should be filial and spend more time with them! Take care of them. Instead of holding a funeral in a big way after the death of the elderly, it is better to talk and chat with them more when they are alive. This is the real filial piety!

let me talk about this problem, too! Because of the need to build a new house, the old house was demolished. My uncle, who used to live with me, moved to my other room. Although I didn't raise him, another relative who raised him was not at home! So let me take care of it. This care has been for several years! One morning, when I was preparing to serve my uncle a meal, I found that I had only eaten half of the meal last night. I asked what was wrong. He said that his mouth was dry and he wanted to drink water. I said, isn't there water? Not enough, still need to drink. In the afternoon, he still said that his mouth was extremely dry! I called the doctor at once. The doctor looked at it and said it was useless to have an injection. It was only a matter of time. No way! Sure enough, the next two days are all about drinking water and drinking water, and the rice can't be eaten! Then eat porridge! It's just a little food. I know my uncle is leaving. He told me to go to his bed and said, I have nothing for you. You are really good to me. I have some money in my pocket. Take it! The rest of the money has been given to the relatives who have not been filial for a day and have not raised me. The next day, my relatives came back to see my uncle, who was suddenly in good spirits. Did my aunt say there was porridge? Uncle actually ate two bowls. I also talked to my relatives who came to see him for a long time! The next day, the relative didn't listen to me and went to work again. Go! There's no need to guarantee your return trip in two days, because the former uncle came to the fore. It's already the countdown to life. My uncle left in the sound of drinking water that night, and his relatives who had just arrived in Guangdong returned home. This is something I know personally.

There are signs before death, especially for people who have been ill for a long time. Some people who have seen a lot of experience can judge this person's condition from some people's different physical reactions. The dying old man actually has some signs when he approaches death. Of course, people who have no experience in this field can't see it, but those who have experience can.

First of all, some elderly people have inexplicable edema on their limbs, and the spots on their faces are getting deeper and deeper. This symptom shows that the elderly are running out of time, and of course they will not die immediately, but there will be a slow process. Normally, they will be within a few months. Many experienced people have already started preparing for the elderly silently after seeing this. This is a physical reminder.

In addition, it is impossible to maintain the normal sanitary condition in the room, which is also a sign of the deterioration of the physical condition of the elderly. Incontinence of urine and urine is basically a physical problem. In reality, many elderly people are unable to control their urine and urine normally, and that step is not far away. During this time, family members need to be psychologically prepared and pay more attention.

The frequency of shortness of breath is accelerating. This kind of old people lying in bed are short of breath. Seeing the old people and listening to the sound feel that they are very painful. Most people can't stand this sound, and they feel particularly painful and uncomfortable. The sound of breathing is fast and fast, which shows that things have reached a very serious level. Generally, there will not be a few days.

Being in a deep coma has a weak breath, which also means that the old man's body has been unable to change. Of course, he can fall into a deep coma. The old man whose life is in crisis at least makes his family look less painful, not as uncomfortable as the feeling of shortness of breath. In fact, it is better to disappear into a coma, at least his family doesn't look too painful.

In the end, I was in a coma, and my limbs moved, kicking the quilt and turning it constantly. In this case, it was basically a matter of heaven. In fact, I didn't even have a chance to explain myself. I was completely unconscious, and I had no judgment on external information. I had hallucinations in my head. This should be prepared.

My great-uncle died at the age of 76. In almost the first month before his death, the old man changed his old routine. Some experienced elders in the village directly told his children to prepare for the funeral!

My uncle is 76 years old. Since his uncle died, he has been living alone. His children are working in the city and can only come back once a week or once a month.

don't look at 76 years old, my uncle is in good health. All the work at home, big and small, is not a problem. Even five acres of land in my home are done by myself. On weekdays, everyone met him and said that it would not be a problem to live for another ten or eight years in this body.

However, three things happened to my uncle one after another, and the experienced old people in the village reminded my uncle's children to prepare for the funeral!

Last summer, as usual, my uncle went to the roadside to sit around after dinner. At six o'clock, everyone dispersed, and my uncle got up and went home. After walking this road for most of his life, my uncle could find a home with his eyes closed. But somehow I suddenly fell down that day.

This road was paved in the village the year before last. It is very flat and there is no trip. Moreover, it was not dark at six o'clock in summer. At that time, my uncle sat there alone for a while after he fell, and the neighbors next to him saw it and helped him up.

After my uncle stood up, he felt that there was nothing wrong with him, so he stood up and went home slowly.

By the end of the week, my children came back and heard that my uncle had fallen, so they didn't worry about taking him to the hospital for examination.

I went to the hospital for a long time, and I had a full-body examination. In the end, there was nothing wrong with it, so my children were relieved. When I get home, my uncle should eat and drink as usual, and work as usual.

At that time, someone in the village said behind his back that time was running out because he was old and fell for no reason. When he heard this, he thought that the person who said this was too insulting.

and then my uncle and uncle Zhang, who have been right for a lifetime, drank wine at the same wine table for a long time, which really surprised us.

Although my uncle is not respected in our village.