"The First Half of My Life" Luo Zijun fell in love with He Han, starting from these few sentences

After Luo Zijun's divorce, her best friend Tang Jing always brought her boyfriend He Han to counsel her, and sometimes even asked He Han to counsel her alone. As a result, Luo Zijun fell in love with He Han.

He Han is a first-class problem solver and a very handsome person. He can help Luo Zijun find the key to the problem every time and give her guidance.

In the process of helping Luo Zijun, he said a lot of reasonable words, which instantly turned Luo Zijun into a little fangirl, full of admiration for him. This, in turn, breeds feelings of admiration.

01. You can replace anyone, but no one can replace you

After being rejected n times, Luo Zijun finally found a job as a supermarket salesperson, but due to I had a conflict with a customer who was getting free cosmetics, I was complained, and I lost my job.

Tang Jing was worried about introducing a job to her. He Han couldn't bear to see Tang Jing worrying about this matter, so he used his own connections to introduce a job to Luo Zijun.

Before the interview, we also provided her with interview guidance, listing all the questions that might be asked, and helping her straighten out her ideas for answering questions.

Finally, He Han said something to her: You must first realize that you can replace anyone, and then consider that no one can replace you.

Luo Zijun said he didn’t understand.

He Han looked at the time and said that he would explain it to you in detail next time.

I think this sentence is very reasonable. You can replace anyone, but no one can replace you. Simply put, you are very versatile and have your own skills. No one else can do it but you. .

In this way, you will be the most competitive in the workplace and will not be eliminated.

A person’s irreplaceability best reflects his value.

Why are He Han and Tang Jing so able to stand up in the workplace? It's because of their irreplaceability. And Chen Junsheng is facing a crisis in the workplace because he can be replaced by others at any time.

I think He Han's words are a reminder to Luo Zijun that he should study hard when he gets to work, learn from everyone, and let himself grow quickly. Then find your own special advantages and become something that others cannot surpass.

I have what others don’t have, and what I have is superior to what others have.

02. Hold on, you will definitely win

He Han hired a lawyer for Luo Zijun. In order to help her win custody of her child, the lawyer told her what to do and what to say. I hope her family can live in harmony.

But Luo Zijun’s mother, sister, and brother-in-law would start a quarrel whenever they met. The lawyer's advice to show a harmonious family is simply not possible.

Luo Zijun had a sad face. He was afraid of losing the custody of his son and had no choice but to do anything to his family.

At this time, He Han said to her: "Don't care what others do, the key is you, hold on, you will win!" Then, he held Luo Zijun's hand.

Luo Zijun suddenly felt particularly powerful. In the end, she did not follow the speech written by her lawyer in court. Instead, stop looking at that fake speech.

She told the truth that although her family was noisy, it was very warm and loving.

My mother has a bad temper because my father abandoned the three of them, mother and daughter, and raised them all by himself, which is understandably hard.

My sister and her brother-in-law always quarrel because of financial difficulties, which is understandable.

Although their family always likes to quarrel, they never break up, because everyone will feel very warm when they think of this home.

The judge was moved by his heartfelt words, and finally, he won custody of his son.

Hold on, you will definitely win. It sounds a bit like chicken soup, but it is really powerful.

It makes us believe that there are no obstacles in the world that cannot be overcome, and all bad things will disappear.

Luo Zijun withstood her husband's betrayal, the hardships of re-entering the workplace, and the ruthlessness of her parents-in-law who wanted to steal their children. In the end, I finally won and got custody of my son.

Human potential is endless. When you are forced to a dead end, you may be able to see how powerful you are. Things that I never dared to think about have been accomplished.

So, when you feel that you have no way out, please remember: hold on, you will definitely win!

03. Don’t be someone who can bargain

After the divorce, the house was awarded to Luo Zijun, mother and son. Ling Ling also wanted to live in a big house, so she persuaded Chen Junsheng to go to Luo Zijun to discuss the matter. The big house is coming back.

Chen Junsheng wants to take his parents over and live with him, so he also wants this big house.

So he went to talk to Luo Zijun, hoping that she would give up this big house and he would help her mortgage a smaller house. Then, compensate her 200,000 yuan.

Luo Zijun relented and agreed to think about it as soon as his head got hot, and offered to give him 2,000 yuan more for living expenses every month. After Tang Jing found out, she started to scold her for being stupid, especially after seeing the shabby house that Chen Junsheng found for her, she became extremely angry.

So, she asked Luo Zijun to ask Chen Junsheng for another 500,000 yuan in compensation.

Tang Jing said that the price difference between the two houses was not only 1 million, but asking him 500,000 was already a bargain for him.

Knowing that she wanted another 500,000 yuan, Ling Ling volunteered to talk to Luo Zijun, hoping that Luo Zijun would scold her to vent her anger so that she could settle the matter with only 200,000 yuan.

Luo Zijun was no match for Ling Ling. Before the meeting, he was still drinking water nervously. Fortunately, He Han heard their conversation and gave her WeChat advice.

He Han told her not to make a fuss, no matter what, they all owe you. The key is: you can't take back what you said, otherwise you're the one who can bargain.

Ling Ling did not expect Luo Zijun to be so tough, so she was disappointed and walked away in despair.

Then, Chen Junsheng’s parents began to beg Luo Zijun again, giving Luo Zijun their more than 200,000 yuan in cards and their own jewelry, hoping that she would order less.

Luo Zijun remembered He Han's words and refused forcefully. He was so turned against her when he snatched the child from her, and now he is begging for help for the house.

Seeing Luo Zijun's tough attitude, he began to accuse her of being cruel, not caring about old feelings, and changing her face faster than turning the page in a book.

Why should you wrong yourself for such a person?

Yes! Don’t be the one to bargain, in life or at work. In order to protect your own interests, be tough when you need to be tough, and never wrong yourself for the sake of others' happiness!

When you toughen your attitude, you will find that your words carry more weight. No one will bully you casually.

04.

He Han is indeed very powerful, and the tricks he gave Luo Zijun are very useful. Luo Zijun also learned very quickly and transformed from a little woman who relied on her husband for everything to a single mother who could be independent on her own.

She understood deeply: If you can replace anyone, you must learn from others' strengths and keep yourself recharged. If you want not to be replaced by anyone, you must have your own skills. No one can. substitute.

Always believe in yourself unconditionally, even if you are in adversity, you must believe: as long as you hold on, you will definitely win!

You can be kind, but kindness is not a bottomless compromise, sacrificing your own interests to please others.

Therefore, you must live a strong and confident life, and become a person who cannot bargain!