What if two people are unhappy together, separated or unhappy?

You are in new york and I am in Beijing. In the long separation, I only do one thing, love you full-time. If love can become a career, I will never leave early and never change careers. My tenure is this life. The happiest job in the world is to be your full-time lover.

1 Not long after we were together, he moved out of the school dormitory and rented a house. He always asks me to accompany him. When he disagreed, he said sadly that I didn't like him. After a long time, I alienated my classmates. Every time I go to class and go back to the dormitory, I always feel that someone is casting a strange look. I am a sensitive person. I felt that I was stripped naked like a broken ring girl in the old society and was condemned. Is it dirty and cheap? Why do other students look at me with that kind of contempt and disdain? Why use it as a joke after dinner? Yes, there are not many people like me who stay overnight in my sophomore class, but don't all the girls in my dormitory and class stay overnight in my junior and senior year? Why do you look at others differently? Because it's rare and different? I'm not a bad person, I don't harm people, I don't steal or rob, and I treat people warmly. From freshman to sophomore to junior, I was the only one who bought a computer in the dormitory, and I was always happy to play it for everyone. Even when I was not in the dormitory, I deliberately let it out just to make up for the faded friendship and please them.

I have been struggling with my boyfriend's pleading, my first love's longing for love, my gradually cold classmate friendship, and my sensitive and lonely heart. However, in the end, it was just me and him. In the year of graduation, I didn't dare to film graduation photo because I didn't know who I was standing next to. It's just too late to regret it. For a man, I lost the best and most vivid friendship days in college. If time could be repeated, I wouldn't choose to fall in love in college. At least I won't let my boyfriend drive all my friends away. If a person just wants to possess you and drive everyone around you away, what is it if it is not selfish? If you are not together in the future, aren't you alone?

After being together for a long time, I found that he has many defects. He is sometimes lazy and sometimes sloppy. Under the appearance of weakness and negativity, the essence of arrogance; Worship foreign things and flatter foreign countries, without patriotism and social responsibility; Just thinking about not doing it, changing my mind, one idea a day, saying that I want to start a business, develop my career and live a high quality life. What he does is basically to fish for three days and dry the net for two days. He will never make it to the end. Two or three years after graduation, no high-paying job, no savings. We often make such a fuss that we can't count them. Because of different values and world outlook, different interests and hobbies, and because of his lack of perseverance and perseverance, I can't help being angry with him for various reasons.

After two or three years of stumbling in the society after graduation, I was admitted to a civil servant, and he and I were admitted to a high school preparation teacher in my work unit. His life has improved, but it is still far from the beautiful life we yearn for. He lives with me in my dormitory. We have been together for many years and often quarrel. I don't want to marry him, and I have told him countless times. I didn't promise him anything Since he lived in my dormitory last June, I have quarreled with him and asked him to move out, but he always put it off for a day or two. I was really helpless. He always lingers like this, and I even thought about quitting my job and leaving the city so that he couldn't find me. I broke up with him when I was most angry, and he called me a baiwenhang! Call me cruel! Say what? Come and work in this place! Call me selfish! I'm really shaking with anger! I lent him money to live in the dormitory. I took him to all kinds of restaurants that we were afraid to go to before we had no money. I spent so many years with him. I lost the happiest classmate friendship in college for him. Every time I break up with him, I still stay with him again and again. I am ungrateful but heartless, swearing and throwing things in front of me! This is not the first time! The night before yesterday, I ignored him. The next morning, he got up, turned on the computer, knocked on the keyboard, and then began to smash bottles and kick things, saying that he didn't want to talk to me anymore, and called me a loser. Where I live, who has the right to scold me? ! Still unreasonable? !

In the evening, he came back, and then he seemed to cry after quarreling in the past, but I really didn't want to live with him. Such a person can't do anything, and his character is still so bad! More importantly, I have given up on our future for a long time. I don't even want to marry him. I really don't want to go on like this and waste each other's time. We are both 2829 years old. Last night, I threatened to call the police and drove him away.

At 8 o'clock this evening, he knocked at the door, but I didn't open it. The phone didn't answer, and then it just blacked out.

In recent years, we have had a bad time. Together, it seems that we are not in love. Many things are related to diseases and depend on each other. I think we are just tied together by a hard life.

We were unhappy together, but now we are finally separated and unhappy. I'm starting to feel lonely. I don't know what to do. Handling documents at work is boring and tiring. After work, I want to open my own online shop and run it well. Who can tell me how to quickly dissolve this sad mood?

By the way, my 28-year-old wife is 26. We met at work. We have known each other for 7 years and been together for 6 years. We went to get the license last year, but we didn't provide alcohol. We plan to provide wine this year.

Last June, we had dinner together on her birthday. When we came back from the movie, we watched TV at home. She is playing with her mobile phone. Because it was after 12 in the evening, she was chatting on WeChat. I wonder who she is talking to. Who knows that her face has changed? From her face, I could see that she suddenly felt scared and nervous. Although she concealed it, I could see it, so I was more suspicious.

We have lived together for more than three years, and I have never seen her hand. I guess I didn't expect to look at her mobile phone.

She wasn't angry with me at that time, and I didn't rob her. I'm afraid I'll see something I shouldn't.

I also asked her who you were talking to, and she replied that it was a classmate, saying that her classmate had some diseases and it was difficult for others to know. I don't believe it. I'll pack my things right away and go back to the company at two in the morning.

Later, the next day, I continued to press her, saying that she was a game friend and a drug seller in the village, and asked her about sex. delete

On the third day, I sent a message telling her to get her hukou book ready for divorce! ! ! ! I'm a bitch. I ran back by myself. She did prepare a household registration book to divorce me, but I was afraid to go. I guess she guessed I wouldn't leave. Later, I told you not to talk to others behind my back. Show me if you want to talk, because she is fascinated by playing games. I guess she is talking to someone who plays games. I'm afraid they are from the same city, because some of them have played games with her for many years. During the intermission, I said I don't object to your playing games, but don't talk too much with the opposite sex, and don't meet with netizens or the opposite sex I don't know. She said yes,

We made up for two or three days. After eating Fan Fan in the evening, we did some exercise. This exercise really surprised me. She took the initiative to try various postures. She used to be single and was a little cold for several years. …

After the exercise, she always let me go out to run Didi, because I am a part-time job. She also said that she might continue to exercise with me when I come back, because I was in a bad mood before. I didn't go out for a sports car, so she made an excuse to go out and talk business with her mother. I knew it was an excuse, but I didn't expose it. Because it was the same neighborhood, I followed. It's not like this at all. I guess I went out to send a message, and she refused to admit it.

We started fighting, and I filed for divorce. She agreed to let us go through the formalities because the hukou problem was not settled at that time. In the past ten days, I have always stressed that as long as you are willing to stop talking, I will not pursue it, otherwise I will divorce, but she never listens to me. She never stops chatting with others. Not only that, on the second day of the quarrel, she applied for a new mobile phone number to register WeChat, locked her mobile phone and completely changed the password of WeChat.

Several times, I saw her playing with her mobile phone. I said if I didn't show her my mobile phone, I would get a divorce. She still hasn't given it. What's even more annoying is that someone sent me a message saying who it was because I couldn't open the password lock.

Please don't pretend to be nice to me. I am stupid and will take it seriously. Love is so short, forgetting is so long. I was still waiting for you, but you forgot that you had been here. It turns out that eternity is just a misunderstanding. Happiness is to find a warm person for a lifetime. After the pain, I won't feel pain, and some will only be a cold heart. There is nothing I can't get through, but I can't go back …