Mengwa called her brother to get up, but he yelled at her to get up, which made her laugh.

No matter what kind of family environment, as long as it is a second-child family, it is doomed to be not very peaceful, just like the older generation often said, "A bowl of water is flat", but when facing children, there are many times when the bowl of water is uneven, which leads to ups and downs when the two children get along.

When it comes to getting along with the second child, sometimes it depends on the personality between the two children. If one of them has a good personality, it will be very smooth. If one of them has a bad personality, children will be difficult to get along with, just like the two children in this video. Because they are quite old, it is normal for the boss to be angry. In the video, two children are lying in bed, the older is about three or four years old, and the younger is only a few months old.

When the boss was sleeping, the second child woke up and kept scratching his back. When the boss didn't wake up, the second child was very happy and kept moving. As a result, the next second, my brother suddenly woke up, but he was also unconscious when he woke up. Because of getting up, my younger brother began to cry as soon as he woke up, because he cried too selflessly, and the crying second child began to be afraid and motionless.

Netizens also felt very funny after seeing this video.

Netizen A: This is the only boss I have ever seen who won't let himself suffer.

Netizen B: I laughed so hard and cried so loudly.

Netizen C: Second child: The child is too scared to move.

In fact, after watching such a video, parents should understand that sometimes two children are really easy to get angry and fight, so how should parents let the two children live in harmony in this process? How should parents educate their children?

In the face of a second child, the first thing parents have to deal with is the contradiction between their children. Why do children have contradictions? As long as it is sometimes caused by parents' partiality to a child, parents can solve it from these points. First of all, they should patiently and actively guide their children, tell them that they are not partial to one side, and then let the boss help them take care of their children, so that the boss can find a sense of accomplishment when taking care of their children and make them proud of being big brothers and big sisters.

Parents can leave the solution to their children when they are in conflict, and do not interfere too much. For children, they actually have their own thinking ability, especially the boss. In the face of children younger than themselves, they are more willing to endure for a long time, so they will become calm when thinking. Slowly, the two children will get back together in this calm, so parents can say that there is no need to interfere too much in the relationship between children.

In fact, apart from letting the two children live in peace, the psychological problem of the boss is also the most difficult to solve, because as an only child who was once loved, suddenly a child came to the family, distracting the parents' attention, and the boss will feel left out, and slowly psychological problems will also arise.

At this time, parents' solution is to let their children know that they still love him. For example, taking children out to do what they like and doing some parent-child activities with them can increase the affection between the eldest and the second while feeling their parents. Most importantly, parents should learn to "make a bowl of water even". Although it is easier said than done, parents can't blindly favor the second child anyway, which will only make the boss's psychology even worse, so

The most common question asked by parents of second-child families is: What if they always quarrel with each other when they have two children?

In fact, the solution is very simple. First, parents should understand why two people quarrel and who started the fight. Parents should understand this before taking measures. Parents should not subconsciously scold the boss when the second child cries. Such a move will not only make the boss feel wronged, but also make the boss feel inferior and sensitive gradually, and the contradiction between the two people will become bigger and bigger, especially easy to quarrel.

After solving the problem, parents should explain the importance of affection to their children, let them know that the other party is their own relative, quarreling is a bad thing, let them understand the importance of affection, and then the children will become very good after understanding it.

Do parents remember so much? So is your family a second child family? How do you educate your children?