What about children fighting for toys? Teach you four coping strategies

When children compete with other children for toys, parents can adopt the following four strategies to help children learn to communicate and negotiate with others and improve their self-confidence and problem-solving ability.

Guide the baby to express his feelings.

Parents can ask their children, "Baby, don't you like people grabbing your toys?" Or "Do you want to play with this toy?" In other ways, guide children to express their feelings, understand their inner world, and encourage them to express themselves bravely.

Teach coping skills

Parents can tell their children: "If someone steals your toy, you can firmly say' this is mine' and take it back." Or "you can politely say to them,' Please wait a moment, I want to play for a while'." Through other ways, teach children the skills of communication and negotiation, and improve their self-confidence and problem-solving ability.

Provide alternative options

If the child is not interested in a toy, parents can provide other toys or activities for the child to choose freely. This will not only make children feel that their choices are very important, but also cultivate their decision-making ability and self-management ability.

Accompanying and guarding

When children are playing, parents may wish to observe and guard to ensure that they are happy and safe. Once a conflict is found, intervene in mediation in time to help children live in harmony.