Why do children always say some dirty words? How should we educate them?

Lying on the sofa after work, my daughter came home from school and sat next to me, picking up my mobile phone? War? . The phone started to fight, and the daughter suddenly said? You are the one with the problem! Your whole family is sick! ? I laughed out loud, can't you see that in the game, she is still a girl? Fierce girl? .

After a while, my daughter shouted all kinds of things into her mobile phone? Adults curse? I got my phone back and asked seriously. Who taught you to say these dirty words! Little girls can't swear! ? The daughter replied:? That's what the internet says! It's normal! ?

The secret of the birth of Chinese characters in China? Swearing? Variability, in simple words, you can express your anger. Adults are under pressure in life and work, or? Game failure? Will habitually bring a few dirty words. Some friends even regard swearing as a mantra, everyday? Can't be separated? .

You will find that many children also like swearing. Whether playing with friends or talking back to parents, you will swear with a few words. When parents hear this, they will pull their ears and forcibly get rid of their bad habits.

The reason why children curse.

However, for parents' scolding, children will growl: What's wrong with scolding students! Why can't I! ? Even for them? Good advice? Explain the disadvantages of swearing, and they are indifferent. Why do some children like to curse? There are two main reasons.

On the one hand, children don't know the meaning of swearing, but they just find it novel and interesting. Students will subconsciously imitate swearing; Or get in touch with all kinds of videos online and hear all kinds of dirty words, will you? Follow the fashion? . Sometimes children accidentally fall down and get up and swear.

On the other hand, it is the child's wrong emotional catharsis. I don't know how to vent my negative emotions when I encounter grievances or unhappy things. When they shout dirty words, their hearts are still in a state of anger, as if the anger spewed out was sucked into their bodies again. Like my husband, when he is angry, he will throw a pillow angrily and shout out three common things? Swearing? .

Children lack language skills and vocabulary, and can't vent their inner anger correctly. They will take it for themselves when they see others calling names and venting their anger.

Children often swear, how should parents guide them? You can try these two methods.

The first method: standardize children's language.

The poet Jonson once said: Language can reveal a person best. As long as you speak, I can understand.

Children who like swearing will be branded by others? Rude? 、? No tutor? Labels, parents too? Come back for no reason? . Hearing them swear, parents should not take it as? Children are too young to understand? On the grounds of tolerance and forgiveness. Do it well? Soft punishment? You can make a penalty, write a review, or halve your pocket money.

Then explain to them the disadvantages of swearing and the standardization of speaking. We should also reduce the frequency of swearing when we get along with children. Without the environment and conditions for swearing, children will gradually become fragrant.

The second method: teach them to vent their negative emotions correctly.

Writer Liang Shiqiu once said: When the blood is boiling, the reason is unclear, and words and deeds are easy to go out of line, which is not suitable for people or for themselves.

Surrounded by anger, we all habitually say all kinds of things? Swearing? The reason is that it is temporarily locked? Little black house? . Afterwards, you will find that there is no need to swear at all, but it hurts people. When children are in negative emotions, they will also say more extreme swearing. Beating and cursing have no effect. It is better to teach them how to vent their negative emotions.

If the child is angry, he can yell at home. Or do what you like, read books, play games, and play puzzles to divert attention. When you are free, you can also take your children for a walk or outdoor sports. Every day, you are surrounded by a good mood. Children naturally don't vent their emotions by swearing.

Message: swearing is like a lighter, which ignites the inner anger and the emotional flame of the other party. Sometimes a habitual dirty word will change others' evaluation of us. Should we teach children to learn? Speak in language? , will swear all? Imprisonment? . Does your baby usually like swearing? How will you teach them a lesson?