What kind words should the family say to welcome them?

Du Fu's "visitors arrive" is right. Two of them are "My path is full of petals-I swept it for others, and my thatched door was closed-but now it's open for you", which means that the path in my garden has never been swept so grandly because of the arrival of guests, and Chai Men opened it for your arrival for the first time today. But this is not the first time. There should be an intertextuality and exaggeration here. From this unique description, we can see that Du Fu attached great importance to the arrival of guests.

The whole poem goes like this:

The north and south of the thatched cottage are all springs, and the flock of gulls flew in. The old lady didn't sweep the flower path for the guests. Today, it's only for you. Chai Men hasn't opened it for you yet, but it will open it for you today. Too far away from the city, too far away from good food, too thin family background, only old wine. If you are willing to invite the old man next door to drink with you, he will drink his cup through the fence!

There is also a sentence in the Analects of Confucius that expresses a warm welcome to the guests: "It's a pleasure to have friends coming from afar." Ancient friends refer to classmates, right? It means that classmates and friends come from far away to meet. Isn't it a very happy thing? This sentence comes from The Analects of Confucius. Learn first ":

Confucius said: it is also good to learn from the times. Is it not delightful to have friends coming from distant quarters? Isn't he a completely moral person? Although people may not pay attention to him, he won't feel uneasy.

Let's look at the sentences that express our yearning and expectation.

In ancient China, the most famous expression of longing for love was "I don't see you for a day, like Sanqiu Xi". In other words, it's really hard to miss you and wait for you. Such days seem longer and sadder than three years. This is described in detail in The Book of Songs. In Brother Cai, let's take a look:

He picked Ge Xi, and he doesn't see you for a day, such as March Xi. He took care of him, but he didn't see him all day, just like him. I haven't seen you for a day, and I'm three years old.

And the Book of Songs. There are three paragraphs in Zi Gan's "Qing Zi Dry, Wandering in My Heart", that is, if these three paragraphs are full of thoughts and waiting, we can experience them carefully by ourselves.

Let me give another example of Li Qingzhao's word "Pruning Plums". "Red lotus root fragrant residual jade long autumn, light solution Luo Shang, alone on the green boat. Who sent the brocade book, the word geese returned, and the moon was full of the West Building. Flowers from Shui Piao to water, one kind of lovesickness, two places of leisure. There is no way to eliminate this situation. You can only frown and take it to heart. "

Li Qingzhao is a talented woman. Her poem describing the pain of waiting for lovesickness has always been praised by people, especially the sentences such as "Who sent the brocade book" and "I can't get away from this place, so I frown, but it goes to my heart". This word was later sung by the famous singer Teresa Teng, and became a household name. I believe many people have quoted it when writing articles and letters.