Talking about the feelings of husband and wife's parting (the most beautiful love story between husband and wife)

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Will there be endless love stories between husband and wife after marriage? Or, do you still think of saying some sweet words to each other from the heart?

To tell the truth, in life, after marriage, especially after having children, many people will focus on their families and careers, often lacking care for their partners, and will not say some "unrealistic" love words. After all, marriage is not like love. It is more about two people living cautiously on daily necessities. The great pressure of life also determines the romantic ability between husband and wife.

Even the simplest sentence "I love you" seems that most couples seldom say a word, otherwise, there won't be so many couples. You will be jealous of me when you are in love, but after a few years of marriage, you will hate each other and complain.

I remember there was a line in the TV series "Defending Marriage":

"Couples' life requires an attitude of falling in love every day, just like making a cake. Every day, they add some honey, sugar and cream to their relationship. "

In fact, getting along between husband and wife, even the "old couple" who have already passed the love period, needs not only mutual understanding and understanding, but also "sweet words" from time to time, sometimes a heartfelt compliment and praise; Sometimes, I hope that the other party will "not leave" the company.

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My best friend Yanzi has been married for ten years.

As a college couple with her husband, she entered the marriage hall as soon as she graduated. At the age when she has no money and no career, and her parents are particularly opposed to this marriage, her "moth to the fire" is considered by many friends around her to be carried away by love.

But her marriage was not optimistic at first, but over the years she has lived to be praised by everyone.

Even though she and her husband are old couples in the eyes of outsiders, they still love each other as always.

My best friend told me that the biggest feeling of maintaining marriage is that the partner is always the first, so don't feel embarrassed or not embarrassed when you are sweet; You should also know how to cherish when you should cherish it.

Because of work, my best friend's husband always goes on business trips from time to time, and often can't even go home for a long time. In addition to meeting on holidays, I usually only rely on telephone and video to solve the suffering of lovesickness, so I will talk for a long time every time.

However, unlike "I love you" and "I miss you", Swallow and her husband say "I don't want you to go" and "I don't want you to go" the most.

In the eyes of outsiders, the way they get along with each other will inevitably produce dull feelings. However, she and her husband are really inseparable.

Especially on holidays, as long as her husband comes back to see her, she will hug him like a child before leaving, unwilling to let him go. Even many times in the lobby of the airport, she and her children hugged her husband tightly, cried and shouted "Don't go", and recruited security personnel at the airport.

She also said that the sweetest moment now is not simply to let her husband accompany her all day, but after the phone call, she and her husband can feel each other's breath from the microphone even without saying a word.

"People will think that we are too shuffle when couples spend. In fact, it is more important for the old couple to manage their marriage with heart. For so many years, I know it is not easy for him to earn money to support his family, and he understands the hardships of my family. We will always tell each other what we really think, whether it is sweet words, dissatisfaction or resentment, we will not hide it.

Although I have envied the warmth of other people's couples sitting around the TV with their children countless times, I cherish our present state more. Some couples, although together, are separated; And some couples, even though they are far away from Qian Shan, are still soul mates. Sometimes I feel that even if I don't want him to be alone, I am still very happy to think about it. "

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Indeed, a good marriage is inseparable from the joint operation of both parties.

But how to manage it is actually something that each of us should learn and study.

When I was not married before, I also felt that I lived alone and let nature take its course. There is no need to pay attention and care so much.

But after marriage, I think marriage needs each other's "bitter conscience" more than love. Many people will think that husband and wife don't have to worry so much. However, sometimes, the root cause of quarrel and emotional weakening between husband and wife is usually negligence and indifference.

In fact, there are two things my best friend said that I quite agree with:

First, a good marriage cannot be separated from each other's understanding and consideration, and neither party can always pay.

Second, at any time, marriage needs each other's sweet words, even a heartfelt "reluctance" can make each other feel their love.

Many times, we will feel tired of each other in marriage. In fact, it's not that ta has changed beyond recognition after marriage, unlike the previous understanding, but that we no longer cherish and treat each other with a grateful heart.

In addition, distance is not the most fundamental reason to determine the quality of marriage.

Some couples who are separated for work reasons, such as girlfriends, always find it difficult to meet each other because they spend little time with their husbands and haven't seen each other for a long time. For them, it is a luxury and happiness to snuggle together for a moment.

Of course, there are also some couples who, despite being together every day, forget the romance created in the past in trivial matters and ignore each other's company in their increasingly busy work.

I remember, not long ago, I watched such a video: a couple were sitting together, a woman was watching TV, and a man was listlessly playing games. After a while, the man looked up after playing the game and found that the beautiful wife next to him had become a yellow-faced woman.

When we are together, we don't know how to cherish each other and even ignore each other's aging. In fact, marriages that are close at hand and "seemingly far apart" abound in life.

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In fact, in the final analysis, whether we live in two places or in the same place, "busy with work and no time" should not be the reason for us to ignore the people around us.

For women, men's companionship and care can bring more sense of security than money;

For men, women's understanding and support are also great happiness and wealth.

Marriage is not easy, and it is even more difficult for two people to come together in the vast sea of people.

People often say that life is long.

However, sometimes, life is really short, so short that you don't even have time to look at the charming woman around you, and she suddenly becomes a yellow-faced woman who makes you hate and is suspected by you; When you don't have time to look closely at a high-spirited man, he will become what you call an ungrateful bad boy.

The maintenance of marriage is like caring for a budding flower. Don't stop to appreciate its fragrance when it blooms, but when it fades, remember to lament its fleeting.

I remember that there is such a passage in Zhu Shenghao's love letter I read before:

"I understand your ordinary day by day, but at the same time I love you more and more day by day. If you look in the mirror, you won't see anything particularly good about you, but if you walk into my heart, you will definitely know how good you are. "

Only by truly accepting each other's imperfections can we better understand how much we love someone and how true the love between husband and wife is.

And a beautiful marriage, like a love letter that can never be finished, needs two people to write it together.

As for what it looks like, it is worth studying by you and me for a lifetime, even if it is a parting message and a little companionship.

It's good for each other.