I want to drink "chicken soup". It was a sad day. Although I was shocked, my time was not wasted.

Nothing can be accomplished overnight. Nothing can be that easy. If something can be done so easily, then it must be very simple. It must not be important, let alone be able to develop for a long time!

Life is short, it exists between exhalation and inhalation, between one minute and one second. It disappears like running water and will never return. So I have always known that I cherish my time, I also cherish my life, and I work hard on my choices.

Romain Rolland once said that life does not issue a return ticket, and once you set off, you must never regret it.

But even though I know so much, I know that time is precious, and I also know that life cannot be repeated, but I still can't resist some "contempt and slander" in daily life.

Hey, isn’t it almost three months since I wrote this? Sometimes I will show off to my colleagues. You see, I have written 500,000 words. Maybe I just want a little vanity satisfaction.

After all, they are my familiar colleagues and have been with me day and night for many years. If you can get their approval or praise, you should be very happy and happy.

The result is a slap in the face, because you are overthinking. These three sentences are what they ask you the most. Does it hurt your heart to hear them? Do you feel uncomfortable? There is no fire in the nest. Do you still have the desire to continue sharing with them next time? Or, do you ever feel like you are not on the same channel? :

Yo! How much money have you earned?

When can I become a writer? (Plus a look of contempt, thousands of galloping horses running through my heart)

What’s the use of writing that thing? If I don’t write, I’ll waste my brain cells.

When you hear this, do you want to use curse words? Do you want to use the words from your hometown?

: Oh my god, are you misunderstanding the text?

Nothing is that easy. If it were that easy, we would just buy lottery tickets.

Do you think that by trading P2P stocks, you can make a fortune in one fell swoop?

Of course, I can only think about it in my heart, and I will never say it out loud. But in my heart I felt 100,000 unwillingness and 100,000 dissatisfaction.

My heart is really on fire. So I immediately thought of a sentence, I want to drink "chicken soup", I want to drink " Internet poison chicken soup".

A person once calculated such an account: If you squeeze out 15 minutes a day to read a book with it, a neutral reader can read a general book every minute. 300 words, 4500 words can be read in 15 minutes, which is 135,000 words in a month, and the reading volume in a year can reach 1.62 million words. The length of the data ranges from 60,000 words to 100,000 words, with an average of about 80,000 words, and reading 15 words a day. Minutes, you can read 20 books in a year.

Do you know why I wrote this paragraph? I do more than inspire you to read. In addition to telling you that time is like the water in a sponge squeezing itself out. The most important thing I want to tell you is that every little thing can really make a big difference.

More than two months ago, I would not have believed that I could write an article of more than 500,000 words. It was because I read this book that I decided to write it. No matter what the reason, I started writing "Harvard Family Instructions"

Consortium Morgan enters the office on time at 9:30 a.m. every day and returns home at 5 p.m. Someone liquidated Morgan's capital and earned $22 per minute. Except for commuting to and from get off work that had a special relationship with Sheng Rishang, he never talked to others for more than 5 minutes.

Franklin also said that if you want to succeed, you must value the value of time. Our lives are made up of time. If you don’t cherish time, you don’t cherish your own life. This is a cliché and almost everyone knows it.

I watched a short video yesterday. A farmer from Shandong produced a potato harvester. Become a rich man with a net worth of hundreds of millions and a famous local farmer entrepreneur.

It depends on cherishing time, pondering deeply, and grinding. From the research of the first generation of harvesters to the seventh generation of harvesters, he applied for a large number of patents and became an inventor that is well-known far and wide and even exported to foreign countries.

Everyone’s original intention cannot just be to make money. If your purpose is particularly impure and just to make money, you won’t be able to go very far.

In the beginning, the farmer entrepreneur was not trying to make money. He just saw that old farmers were working too hard digging potatoes in the fields. He thought that if he used his own technology, he could create a machine to replace manual work. , a land harvester, that would be great.

With such a wish, he kept grinding and grinding, and even lost more than 2 million in the process. Although his wife objected to him many times and argued with him, he always studied hard and never gave up, and finally succeeded.

Nothing is so successful, it all happens step by step. When you can't stand it anymore, think about your original dream.

Have you seen "Uncle Tom's Cabin"? The author of this book is Mrs. Harriet Stowe, who squeezed in time to write this book while taking care of her family. She is a true housewife.

There is also a foreign translator who translated "Hell" while making coffee. If you think about it, the time it takes to make coffee with a coffee machine is only about 10 minutes. Not even 10 minutes are wasted.

Did you know? It was the story of this housewife that infected me, and there was another female inspirational legend who also infected me, "Lean In". Like me, he also has three children and a busy job.

But when she was only in her 40s, she took the postgraduate entrance examination and improved her career. She raised her three children very well, and she and her husband immigrated to a foreign country to take the postgraduate entrance examination. I think this woman is amazing.

It was because of these baskets of chicken soup that I embarked on the path of writing. Originally, because my business was getting worse and worse, I wanted to find another way.

Then I stopped and thought for a few days, what do I like? What kind of life do I want and what is my definition of happiness? How do I want to live in the future?

If you did a job you didn’t like in the first half of your life just for food and clothing, please stop and find one you like.

What are your requirements for the quality of your own life? What kind of life do you want, and can your abilities reach that level? Should you run forward desperately to reach that level, or should you stop and improve your current abilities.

What do you want the future to look like? I hope NIO will be free financially, mentally, physically and spiritually.

What is your definition of happiness? I have written an article before. Happiness or happiness all depends on yourself. If you can’t get out, I suggest you read Zhang Defen’s book!

Your pain or happiness all depends on your inner thoughts now. And everyone's standards for happiness are different.

Happy people. Many faces are the same, isn’t there an old saying? Happy lives may be the same, but each unhappy life may be unhappy in its own way.

Unhappy people are usually ungrateful, complaining, and have negative energy. They cannot see the beauty of this world, let alone the beauty of their partner. His desire and greed are very strong.

When you are born as a human being, you must be open-minded and let go, and don’t be extravagantly attached to external things.

I have written an article before, telling everyone that some chicken soup is still drinkable. You are really too tired. Others recruit you, but you have nowhere to relieve yourself!

Just find an emotional influencer in the emotional field and read a few of his emotional chicken soups. Or find a few guitar books you like, read more, and inspire yourself.

If a car has been driven for a long time, it still needs maintenance. If it runs out of oil, it still needs to refuel. If the leather shoes are dirty, it still needs oil. If the bag is dirty, it still needs maintenance.

What's more, a person will always be tired sometimes, and our tiredness refers to mental fatigue. Naturally, you need a lot of chicken soup for the soul.

So if you don’t think you are weak, you are embarrassed, or you think you are a man and cannot shed tears easily, it doesn’t matter, you can drink the chicken soup from the book. Every adult has a meltdown sometimes. You are not a special case, you are not the first and you will not be the last.

So, it’s okay to be weak once in a while, there’s no shame in it.

If you finish drinking the chicken soup, just be confident, find your dream, and keep running forward. I remember making a bucket list of things I needed to see.

Human memory has a curve, and if you don’t review it for a long time, you will forget it. Including your own dreams.

"Harvard Family Instructions" also gives you several excellent qualities for success: confidence, self-reliance, optimism, and tenacity.

It also gives a ticket to creative skills:

Give yourself an accurate position

Learn for life

Don’t miss anything An opportunity, even a radio-type opportunity

If you are good at eliminating obstacles and solving difficulties, there are always more methods than difficulties

Have you heard these methods countless times? Or does it sound familiar? Yes, this is what chicken soup looks like in the beginning.

After reading "Harvard Family Instructions", do you understand what it means?

Human psychological growth and spiritual growth are more important than all the knowledge you possess. Knowledge can be acquired at any time, and you can learn it from scratch whenever you need it.

And your mentality, confidence, and spiritual psychology are the dominant factors in learning knowledge and putting it into action. The implication is that people's psychology must be healthy, positive, and full of positive energy in order to have future development.

"Chicken soup is useful but useless. If you have never drank it at all, you must drink it and tell yourself to reward yourself. If you drink too much and don't take action, you will become a fat man. Become a fat man. A lazy fat man has turned into a fat man who only knows how to live in illusion."

Everything tells you, act, act, act. Change, change, change.

It will be sunny in Beijing at 6:49 on Saturday, August 21, 2021, in the evening.