Marriage and sex have different meanings for men and women.

Marriage and sex have different meanings for men and women.

Marriage and sex have different meanings for men and women. After being tempted, we care about the people we love very much, and communication between the two sides is undoubtedly very important. Let's share the different meanings of marriage and sex for men and women.

Marriage and sex have different meanings for men and women. As husband and wife, we should know what is the difference in sexual desire between men and women. Only by mastering the sexual characteristics of both parties can we have a harmonious and happy sex life.

Let's start with men. Although the mature age of men is 1~3 years later than that of women, men's sexual desire is generally stronger and stronger than that of women after maturity. Before marriage, almost all men have left behind experiences, and some even commit adultery. Male sexual excitement is mainly manifested in penile erection, which can be stimulated immediately through sight, hearing and touch, and the time only takes one or two minutes. Once the sexual impulse is aroused, it can cause orgasm within a few minutes, which is the essence of shooting. After the shooting, the sexual excitement quickly subsided.

After marriage, when couples have sex, men's sexual desire is still the same as before marriage, and sexual desire comes quickly and strongly. First, I have a desire for sexual intercourse and always hope that my wife can meet his requirements. But after reaching the climax of sex, sexual desire fades quickly, so it can be said that you come and go. In addition, men's sexual desire is more focused on contact with sexual organs, which is easy to be satisfied.

And women. After female sexual maturity, sexual desire is slow and hidden, except for a few outside the body, there are generally few sexual impulses such as masturbation. Women's sexual excitement is mostly obtained through the experience of sexual life. After marriage, the sexual impulse is slower and weaker than that of men. Women's sexual excitement must also be aroused gradually under the caressing action of male sexual stimulation, such as kissing, hugging and stroking sexual organs.

Female sexual desire is also related to menstrual cycle. Generally, sexual desire is strong around ovulation and menstrual period, and weak at other times. A considerable number of women have no pleasure in sex life at the beginning of marriage, and it takes about a year to become interested in sex life.

Female orgasm is relatively difficult to obtain. Some women don't know what orgasm is until they have children, and even some women don't have an orgasm lake all their lives. Of course, most women can get the pleasure brought by the high lake with the cooperation of their husbands.

In sexual life, once aroused, women's sexual excitement slowly disappears and often lasts for a long time. Women's sexual desire is not only reflected in the feeling of sexual organs, but also in the pursuit of emotional satisfaction, that is, sexual life is human instinct. At a certain age, men and women will have sexual desire, which is a normal physiological phenomenon. A high degree of combination of sex and love. So it is more tangled, not as impatient as men.

Marriage and sex have different meanings for men and women. Sex is the beginning, love is the process, and marriage is the result.

This is such an important but rarely discussed topic that many people who have been married for more than ten years have not seriously thought about it. Therefore, when social entertainment news is flying all over the sky, it is easy to follow suit and get lost because of the confusion of value and not seriously thinking about these fundamental issues.

Love, here we only talk about pure love in a narrow sense, the so-called "true love". In my opinion, pure "true love" belongs to Plato, that is, pure spirit. If you can't accept my opinion, then I can say that love can be divided into physical love and spiritual love.

The so-called "sex" in the first part refers to physical (physiological) love. So what is spiritual love? Spiritual love means that when you are in contact with a person, this person attracts you strongly except the body (face, figure), which makes you enjoy the process of getting along with this person very much. These qualities can include wisdom, morality, talent and so on.

Finally, let's talk about marriage, which is a very complicated issue. We can't talk about this problem as simply as we understand physical sex and spiritual love. I can only talk about my personal thoughts in a superficial and general way.

First of all, marriage is essentially a contractual relationship between two people. And divorce is the dissolution of this contractual relationship. Then, what is the relationship between marriage and "sex" (referring to pure physical aspects) and "love" (referring to pure spiritual aspects)? In my opinion, the original intention of marriage, or ideal marriage, should be based on sex and love.

Generally speaking, when two people get married, both sides can meet each other's needs in "sex" and "love". But remember, complete satisfaction is basically impossible. What do you mean? To put it bluntly, how many people can say with a clear conscience that your spouse is your perfect sexual partner, and your appearance and figure satisfy you to the greatest extent?

How many people can say with a clear conscience that your spouse is the most suitable soul mate for you and that you are the most soulful person you know? Even if you simply meet one of the indicators, I'm afraid you are one of the few lucky ones. So we can see that marriage is based on sex and love to some extent.

Marriage and sex have different meanings for men and women. 3 (1) Men and women have different requirements and understandings of marriage.

It has been analyzed before that women are easily dominated by emotions, and their happiness comes from love and being loved. Marriage is almost a life and a destination for women. Therefore, it is easy for married women to fall into the circle of their own home that they think is very safe. Family, children and husband are everything to her, so she can sacrifice her ideals and pursuits. Therefore, for a woman, the man she loves is her whole life, and she is only a part of it.

At the age when women are suitable for marriage, in the relationship between men and women established through the introduction of friends, women often aim at marriage. If marriage doesn't work out, this relationship will often end. The purpose of a woman's love is to hope for the result of marriage.

In marriage, women (especially well-educated women) often demand the consistency of love and marriage. This is also a reason for the high divorce rate of women with good education and strong independent economic ability. They think that divorce is a wise choice when love and marriage deviate.

Of course, for men, marriage cannot be said to have nothing to do with love, but the weight of love is often not as good as that of women. In love and marriage, it should be said that men are more utilitarian I have heard many such stories. A man is loved by two women, A and B. Men love A more emotionally, but B's family and social relations are more conducive to his development. He will make the choice of marrying B at the expense of his feelings with A.

For a man, for the sake of his career development and social reputation, he can separate marriage from love, and he can naturally live this life of separation of marriage and love. But women can't. Once a woman has true love for A, it is difficult to accept B, let alone continue to live with B. So some people say that if the wife's feelings change and the husband tries to maintain them, a marriage is difficult to maintain, but if the husband's feelings change, as long as the wife tries to maintain them, it is possible to maintain her husband.

The purpose of men's love is not necessarily to get married. There are many boys in college who want to learn to love by experiencing love. In their words, they are accumulating experience for tomorrow's formal love.

It is precisely because men and women have different requirements and understandings of marriage that it is no wonder that there is an old saying in China: Men are afraid of entering the wrong line, and women are afraid of marrying the wrong person. So that in reality, many people (including women themselves) think that it is better for women to do well than to marry well.

A woman with this idea can't figure out whether this "good" is temporary or forever. Can you keep this good state forever? Or we can realistically grasp the good in front of us and see what will happen later. Step by step.

(2) Men and women have different requirements and understandings of sex.

In the past, sex was a taboo topic in China. Of course, now people dare to talk about it openly. It should be said that this is a manifestation of social progress. After people's material life is basically satisfied, especially when the material life is quite good, the status of sex in love and marriage has been improved. Have you found that sexual disharmony has become a very important reason in the current divorce cases?

There are also great differences between men and women in their concepts and requirements for sex. As I said before, women want love and marriage to be consistent, and women also want sex and love to be consistent. Especially for a well-educated woman, it is absolutely impossible to sleep with a man without love unless she has other plans. In sexual intercourse, although women also yearn for the combination of spirit and flesh, they are more concerned about the romantic process of sexual intercourse.

Therefore, "Platonic" spiritual love can last for a long time for women, and even love will stay in "Platonic" forever. On the issue of sex, for women, the process is more desirable and unforgettable than the result. As long as a woman gives her body and mind, she will be more attached to the man who gave herself to him and can't live without him.

Women's attitudes towards sex are very different from those of men. Speaking of loving you, women can often or possibly give their sexual intercourse to the man they love. Men, on the other hand, can mostly regard sex as a very simple thing, which has nothing to do with love. Therefore, women are passive after giving sex to the man they love actively or semi-actively, because not all men will associate sex with love.

In love, a common idea among women is that if you don't love me and don't intend to marry me, don't touch me. You moved me, and finally you don't want me. What happened? Can't this explain the irresponsibility of men? In fact, in the relationship between men and women, men don't think that they will get married with intimacy.

It is often heard that a young man and a young woman met under the introduction of a friend. Both sides have a good impression on each other and expressed their willingness to communicate in depth. But soon, the man told the introducer that he didn't want to continue dating. Why? Have no affection for each other? The man told the introducer that the woman was too stuffy to touch. Then the introducer went to enlighten the woman, but the woman felt very wronged.

She said that we just like each other, which is just a good beginning of our relationship, but he always takes me to the darkest and most secluded places on every date. I don't know whether he loves me or not. How can I go to that place with him? He thinks you should ask me if I love you, and see if I feel anything in our closer relationship first.

In similar scenes, women often think that only when two people have love can they have intimate contact. Men, on the other hand, don't think so about intimate contact between the two sexes. Men's love is often produced in the intimate contact between the two sexes. Many men still have no love even if they have a deep intimate relationship with women. Therefore, women should not have unilateral fantasies in the intimate contact between the two sexes, otherwise the final outcome may hurt themselves deeply.

A very close girlfriend of mine told me a very private question, that is, she hated her boyfriend after learning that he had two feet on both sides. She told me that when she had sex with this man she already hated, she would have spasmodic pain in her vagina, which she had never had before she found out about his infidelity. This shows that women demand the consistency of sex and love.

On the issue of sex, men can be said to be more practical and concrete, and men need to get it concretely. Even though he likes "Platonic" spiritual love, he still hopes to get her physically one day. On the issue of sex, for men, the result is more worth pursuing than the process, and you can even go straight to the result without going through the process. So many women think that if a man loves a woman, he will definitely touch her, otherwise he will not love her.

In fact, it may be more appropriate to say that a man loves a woman and will have the idea of touching her, but a man who has touched a woman may not necessarily love her. Sex is not the absolute expression of men's love. That's why some women don't know what to do when the man they like touches them.

I often worry about why I can't judge whether the other person is true or false to me. It can be said that love hidden in a man's heart is true love. Even he can watch you from a distance and help you when you need it.

On the issue of sex, men and women are very different, that is, love and sex can be separated. Many men can sleep with a woman who has no feelings at all, which is why when her husband is flirting outside, people always persuade his wife that he has no intention, just playing, just taking part in accidental amusement. However, one thing is certain, that is, after men get women physically, they often don't cherish them so much.

Because men are more eager to conquer. Men are also more keen on sexual skills and novelty than women. Although a woman doesn't like some of them, as long as she loves him, she will do as he asks. This is the attitude of women towards love and sex.

In fact, sex has never existed in isolation. Throughout the ages, sex and personality have always been closely related. What kind of personality foundation determines a person's sexual concept and way of sex. So some people say that the best way to understand a person is to observe how he or she falls in love? How to deal with sexual problems?