What if my husband is not self-motivated?

It depends on whether your husband is content with the status quo or wants to lie flat. If your husband is a person lying flat, you should encourage him more, drive him and cheer him up, but if he is just a person who is content with the status quo, it may be difficult to change, but it doesn't hurt.

Let's talk about the life of a person lying flat. In general, most men lie flat because they have experienced blows, such as career failure or emotional failure, such as your husband. Although I don't know if he is devastated by business failure, if so, you should always encourage him and cheer him up. No matter from work, he will return to his good life one day.

I have a good brother who lost hundreds of thousands of dollars in one breath because he failed to invest in the stock market, and then recovered. Because the business of opening a shop was not good, he closed the door and didn't want to do it. He lay flat at home all day and his wife didn't want to give up. He has been struggling to support this family, but the only good thing he has done is to encourage him to look for a job anyway.

The other is to be content with the status quo without ambition. We have a distant cousin in our family, but she is not very promising, but she is pragmatic. His job is an ordinary office clerk, with a monthly salary of five or six thousand yuan, and he never thought of making a fortune. His wife gets three or four thousand a month, and the children are in primary school. The house at home is funded by parents, and his wife never wanted her to struggle. I think this kind of life is also desirable. After all, life is short. The most important thing in life is to stop and look at the scenery. Don't spell blindly, so people will be very tired, just to see if you can accept this life.

Finally, I want to say that if you don't like plain life, you can change your husband and make him better. If he cannot be changed by you, it means that your outlook on life and values may be different. You should consider whether you still live with him. If one day you can accept a plain life, then you can continue your life with your husband. I wish you a happy life. Come on!