Please teach me some Japanese phrases for making a date.

At X o'clock, at xxにxxで,,,,

Near XX Opposite to xのdirectional (む)こうにございます

Beside xのそばにございます

I will go in first and wait for you servant (ぼく)はfirst (さき) に入（はい）ってお出ちします.

I'm waiting for you outside.

Please speak more slowly ちょっとゆっくり语（はな）してください

I’m afraid I don’t understand ちょと大変（たいへん）ですけど、わかりにくいと思（おも )います.

In fact, there is no need to be nervous. Just say よろしくお愿いします. Anyway, you don’t have to worry about making mistakes in order to learn Japanese. She will be happy to help you correct it, and say "大変" "I learned a lot." (Thank you for your hard work) Wait, she should be very happy. Japanese women are very gentle, just don't ask too personal things, but they will probably be very happy when talking about their husband and children. If you can't talk anymore, just ask her what she knows how to cook, and she will be happy to talk to you about it.