How terrible is Xiong Haizi's evil deeds?

The real case around me, a fifth-grade girl, did something to get rid of her classmates who she didn't like, which made everyone feel chilling!

Li Hua, a fifth-grade female student, is a girl with a lovely face and a lively and cheerful personality. The most important thing is that her grades are particularly good, and her classmates and teachers like her.

Once, Li Hua and her friend Zhang Li came to the teacher's office and said that the ten dollars Zhang Li had put in her schoolbag had disappeared and had been stolen by Sun Jing in her class. Zhang Li asked Sun Jing for it, but Sun Jing wouldn't give it, so she had to call Zhang Li.

The teacher asked Zhang Li, "You said Sun Jing stole your money. How did you know? You can't talk nonsense without evidence. "

Zhang Li looked down and said for sure that it was in Sun Jing's schoolbag. She wants to open it and search it. The teacher wants Sun Jing to go to the office with his schoolbag on his back and settle the matter privately. I didn't expect Zhang Li to pull Li Hua to the classroom, so the teacher had to follow.

Zhang Li ran to the classroom and shouted to Sun Jing, "You stole my money, you thief!"

The teacher reminded Zhang Li not to shout. The truth is still uncertain. She can't hurt other children's self-esteem like this. At this moment, a boy stood up and told the teacher, "Teacher, it was Sun Jing who stole the money. I returned ten dollars to Zhang Li with a sign on it. I saw Sun Jing take the money! "

When the teacher asked Sun Jing what happened, Sun Jing cried and shrank to one side, saying, "I didn't take it, I didn't steal it, and I don't know ..." The pitiful and wronged appearance made the teacher unable to blame her. But things always have to be solved, so the teacher discussed with Sun Jing and came to see her schoolbag himself, so as not to let other students see it. As a result, the teacher really found the marked ten dollars in the schoolbag.

Zhang Li and the little boy shouted excitedly, "Look, Sun Jing is a thief! She stole the money! "

Sun Jing cried and said no. Because Sun Jing has always been a very honest student in the class, the teacher felt something was wrong, so she called her to the office and asked if she had taken any money from other students. Sun Jing cried and said, "Teacher, I really didn't. I don't even know how to put that money in my schoolbag. "

So the teacher called Zhang Li and the little boy in and asked slowly. Finally, I learned that Sun Jing didn't steal money, but Li Hua made them do it, just because Li Hua hated Sun Jing and didn't like her!

The teacher called Li Hua to the office and told her that she had to call her parents and ask her to apologize to Sun Jing in front of the class. Li Hua cried and knelt down and begged the teacher to say, "I don't want it." My parents are not at home. Grandma is old. What if she knows that she is ill? " I know the wrong teacher. I want to apologize. Don't call my parents ... "

It's really hard to think of Li Hua's family. Her parents are not at home, and her grandmother is very old, and it is very difficult to walk. So the teacher explained to Li Hua that this incident had caused great harm to others and might ruin her life because of such a thing. Don't do such things again.

Li Hua promised while crying, and sincerely bowed to Sun Jing to apologize at the class meeting. Although Sun Jing felt wronged, she also forgave her. The teacher breathed a sigh of relief. Just when she thought that things had been solved satisfactorily, she found something that made her spine chill, which made her feel that the child had formed an extremely dark character from the heart and could not be changed.

After school that day, the teacher left a little late and happened to see Li Hua at the back door with Zhang Li, the boy and two other students, not knowing what to say. Out of curiosity, the teacher went over and asked them why they didn't come home after school for so long. As soon as they arrived nearby, they heard Li Hua arguing with the children.

Li Hua stood there, arms around him, like a leader, and shouted loudly, "You are too timid! Last time it failed, there were too many loopholes. If you two hadn't betrayed us unwillingly, would the teacher's brain have found out? I've been thinking about this plan for days now, and I'm sure it will kill him. Look at her like a little princess. I hate it! "

Teachers don't believe their ears. I didn't expect a cheerful, helpful and liked child by the teacher to be such a person in private. Last time the teacher told her the truth, she listened on the surface. In fact, in private, she never felt that she was wrong. She felt that whoever she hated would be destroyed. There's nothing wrong with that.

The teacher stood up and startled several people. Several students escaped. The teacher took Li Hua, Zhang Li and the little boy to the office and asked them what plans they were considering.

Zhang Li cried, saying that Li Hua made them pretend to be friends with Sun Jing, took Sun Jing to play in the wasteland behind the school every day, soiled her clothes, and refused to let her call her mother to tell her where she was. Sun Jing's mother hates Sun Jing getting dirty. It's dirty. Sun Jing's mother will definitely hit her when she comes home.

We drag Sun Jing to the wasteland every day and get her clothes dirty every day. Her mother will definitely beat her half to death!

The teacher didn't even know what to say at that time. This is really a proper way to kill people in reality. If you bully yourself, Sun Jing's parents will definitely come back to find out about them. Now they use invisible violence, who can think of looking for their business? After all, it's normal for Sun Jing to hit her, because her naughty clothes got dirty.

The teacher really doesn't know how to educate this seemingly perfect child with evil thoughts behind him. He has talked to Li Hua many times. Every time Li Hua cried and said that she knew she was wrong, she did something wrong. But judging from this incident, she never felt that she was wrong, but she bullied someone without success. Then I will try other ways to bully her, and I will always knock her down, no matter what method. ......

Later, the teacher visited Li Hua's home. Li Hua's family is relatively rich and the style of the house is relatively large. Li Hua's grandmother and Li Hua's brother live at home.

Grandma saw teacher Li Hua coming, and quickly asked Li Hua to pour water for the teacher: "Dead girl, didn't you see the teacher coming?" I can't see at all. Please sit down, teacher. "

As soon as the teacher sat down, Li Hua's younger brother came back to play. At this moment, she heard Li Hua's grandmother calling Li Hua, "Damn girl, get water for my younger brother quickly. I'm exhausted!" And cut some watermelons in the refrigerator for your brother and your teacher. Don't steal, or I'll kill you! "

Li Hua looked at the teacher piteously with a watermelon, for fear that the teacher would say something bad she had done. The teacher is still hesitating about what to say. She only saw Li Hua's grandmother pick up her cane, slapped Li Hua, and said, "Why are you standing here?" Don't eat at night, you are a teenager, too lazy to cook! "

Li Hua covered her arms and bowed her head to cook. When the teacher saw grandma Li Hua's attitude towards Li Hua, she seemed to understand something. ......

The ancients said: poor people must have something hateful, and hateful people must also have something pitiful. Li Hua is such a child.

At present, campus violence is increasing and escalating. As parents, when we are worried about whether our children will be treated unfairly at school, we should also guide them correctly, give them full love, don't let them become campus violence, and give her the courage to resist campus violence.

As parents or guardians of children, we should know:

First, now, in school bullying, it's not just a fight between students on campus, but it has violated the criminal law. If your child encounters such a situation, record and video. If the other person doesn't mean to correct it, you can report it to the scene at the first time.

Second, teach children how to deal with school bullying and how to ask for help from people around them. Don't put up with it alone because you are afraid. The more you put up with it, the more you condone the abuser.

Third, pay more attention to children's psychological development, guide children's correct values, and let children grow up healthily in a happy atmosphere.

Teaching children not to be cruel abusers, indifferent bystanders and weak victims is a fertile ground for their psychological growth.

Let's talk about two news cases of Xiong Haizi's evil deeds.

1. Beijing girl incident. I met a mother while waiting for the subway, and a girl with a child stood beside me. The girl has chicken chops in her hand, and the children clamor for them, but the girl won't give them. As a result, just before the subway came, the child ran behind the girl and pushed hard! Almost pushed the girl off the subway! Fortunately, a good-hearted man caught the girl with a quick eye and a quick hand and avoided a tragedy. The girl cried for a long time in the subway station. But the mother and son, their faces slightly changed, and they didn't even apologize. They just hurriedly took the children on the subway and left.

It is said that two little boys hated another boy in the class and agreed to kill him when they went to school the next day. As a result, the two men went to school with knives the next day and killed the boy. After killing someone, they were not afraid at all. They went home and told their families that they had killed someone. Parents thought it was a joke, but when the police came to the door, they found that things were out of control. After being taken to the car by the police, the two children suddenly found that things were beyond their imagination, laughing and shouting, but it didn't have any effect.

How can parents prevent their children from becoming "Xiong Haizi"?

1. Respect children's personality and dignity, let children think independently and choose freely, and treat children as equal members of the family.

2. Listen to children's opinions carefully and patiently, and try to be friends with children. Parents can't just make their own decisions and completely ignore their suggestions.

3. Try to understand the child, understand the child's heart and desire, respect the child's choice, and agree with the child's just request.

When educating children, we should use practical and reasonable methods. Don't make comments and instructions on children's behavior easily, but try to guide children to think.

5. Take the initiative to communicate with children and exchange ideas with them. The purpose of this is to close the spiritual distance between parents and children.

When I first arrived in Xinjiang, I was only in the third grade. In fact, it was not bad at all, but I was always bullied and my heart was on fire. I met a Xiong Haizi in the sixth grade. He kept kicking me, and I didn't care. I went to the back and threw dirt at my face. As a result, I got dust in my eyes It's only been half a day since my parents were around, and I didn't care. Instead, he smiled at his spicy chicken. I was very hairy, nearby. Then that Xiong Haizi cried like a silly pig, and his parents didn't like it directly, scolding me for having a life without my mother's education. I directly scolded him for going back, right, only to know that you and your beast live a mother's life without a mother's education? Garbage, I told you that life was an insult to me, and then that parent hit me. I picked up a brick and said to him, Come on! Garbage, you don't manage your own mouth properly, and others help you educate others to hit people. Come on! Going to work is a big deal! The man was directly stupid and took his Xiong Haizi to the clinic. In the end, my family lost some money, and my family didn't scold me or hit me, just saying that the bully can't let go.

Now, almost no one dares to mess with me. If people don't attack me, I'm not attractive. If someone attacks me, I will teach him to be a man.

Children don't understand the concept of right and wrong, and there is no lower limit to evil.

Not long ago, there was a news report that a five-year-old child and a little girl took the elevator to the top floor. The child took the little girl out and then took the elevator down by himself, causing the little girl to fall to her death. Monitoring shows that during the whole process, neither parent appeared.

Another one, a boy watched Pleasant Goat at home, thinking that the noise of the decoration electric drill was too loud to affect himself, and even cut the safety rope of the decoration workers with scissors. Fortunately, there are two safety ropes, so the worker can only wait for help in the air.

I have to say that there is no Xiong Haizi in the world, only parents. There is nothing wrong with children, but parents' overindulgence will change children. As I said, children have no sense of right and wrong, and they may just be playful bears, so there is no limit to what they can do. Parents are children's first teachers, so we should guide children to develop correct concepts. Indulgence will only set the stage for the future. Let children have a correct view of right and wrong and know how to pay for their mistakes, which can reduce the occurrence of such incidents.

At a dinner party the other day, my husband handed a cigarette to a friend nearby. As soon as his friend lit a cigarette, his 4-year-old grandson ran over and slapped him. He smiled and his wife said, that's good. Who told him to smoke? My grandson can control him.

The little guy tried to take my husband's cigarettes and lighters again. My husband said, no, this is mine. As he spoke, he put away his cigarette and lighter. The little guy scolded my husband severely: get out of here!

A table of people was shocked, some whispering, some showing displeasure, and friends and couples were still happily praising their grandchildren.

Xiong Haizi is hiding! Grandpa Guan is proud to get the support and praise from his grandmother, including his mother. It can be seen that Xiong Haizi is very favored and has the highest status in this family, and he knows it himself. So, in other things, he also wants to do whatever he wants.

Friends' habit of smoking is hated by their families, but they will not be beaten. Only his wife has the right to control him, not in public. Even if the child is evil, it is unacceptable to show great disrespect to the elders on this occasion, which reflects the lack of family education.

For children, we should give them positive education. Praise will not blame, but will encourage children to act rashly, lose their correct judgment and develop the bad habit of arrogance. Professor Li Meijin pointed out that children's cognitive formation is just before 1 1 and 2 years old, which is the most critical growth stage. If you can't train children well at this stage, it will be difficult in the future, and it is too late to change. Xiong Haizi of his own family is naughty and evil. Adults always think he is funny, cute and even complacent. He thinks his children are smart, occasionally swearing, swearing, losing his temper and hitting people, which is not serious at all. This is really ignorance!

A child's mind is like a blank sheet of paper, and his cognition of right and wrong is all told by us adults. When he grows up, others think it is wrong, and he seems to be right. Isn't that terrible?

My brother and I 12 years old. When my brother was in the second grade, a child in the class threw my brother's school uniform on the school wall. I took my brother home, and he cried under the wall (I couldn't get my school uniform, and my brother became more and more autistic). I asked why, and my brother told me everything! I said nothing, go home for dinner first, I will help you solve this problem in the afternoon, and then take off your clothes! When I went to school in the afternoon, I told the doorman directly that I needed a teacher, and the doorman let me in. Going to my brother's class, I deliberately asked my brother who threw your clothes on the wall! The younger brother pointed to a child in their class! I'll just walk over and say you threw it? The child was stubborn and said I threw it. Several children in their class said that he always bullied your brother and beat him! I asked my brother why you didn't say anything. My brother said that my mother said not to get me into trouble! I'll give that boy a few mouthfuls and tell my brother that you have beaten back all the people who bullied you. I think he dares to fight back! Then my brother hit the child! Then I told my children that if you bully my brother again, I will let you go to the hospital, believe it or not! We won't let my brother bully others, but I won't do it if others bully him! Don't think he is easy to bully! Then I told my brother that I had left, and he would dare to bully you in the future. Tell me! I sent him to the hospital! After that, I often ask him if anyone bullied you. My brother said no, obviously cheerful personality! I don't think I can convince education when I meet this kind of Xiong Haizi! Direct education is more meaningful! If my own child becomes Xiong Haizi, no one else will beat him first! !

Take an experience of mine as an example.

Xiong Haizi is terrible, and what is even more terrible is that there is a bear parent! Once our family went out to play (I was a middle school student), my sister played in a children's playground, and a Xiong Haizi knocked around with a sledgehammer. When I told him not to knock, he put on an indifferent attitude and said, "It's none of your business." I think it's better to do more than one thing, just bear with it. Later, when I went to find my sister, I accidentally found that the slide was pitted.

(I can't shoot my mobile phone well at night)

So I reminded him once again that a parent next to me (not the bear's parent) asked, "Are you this brother's brother?" I said I'm not. I think this child is so annoying.

Later, when we were about to go back, we heard a little girl crying. As soon as we went to see her, Xiong Haizi knocked the little girl on the head. The little girl's parents were reasonable and scolded Xiong Haizi for not being ready to call her parents. Later, Xiong Haizi's parents didn't know where they died, and they didn't care if their children caused such a big thing.

Later, I told my dad about it, and my dad said that he had been paying attention and analyzing who his parents were. In retrospect, after Xiong Haizi knocked on the little girl's head, the parents looked as if nothing had happened. If that person is really Xiong Haizi's parents ...

I was once hospitalized in a double ward. I am a vegetarian with AB blood, and I am almost selfless with O blood. Then I don't know where a Xiong Haizi came, changed our blood bags and added soapy water to our infusion bottle (the infusion bottle was lowered). Fortunately, the nurse found out quickly that the blood bag was dropped 100CC, but the infusion bottle was not dropped, but the other one was not very good.

I met him, too. I was 12 years old. My cousin took my five-year-old sister and me to the grocery store to buy something to eat. After buying, we sat on the lawn and ate lollipops. We want to have a picnic. My cousin and I went back to get snacks and told my sister not to run around. Just after eating snacks, I heard my sister crying. There is a bear Haizi who wants to eat the snacks we just bought, but her sister won't let her. Then the child hit my sister. I put my sister behind me and slapped the child when I went up. Then Xiong Haizi cried, and their parents came over, and then they began to curse. My cousin told the story again. Then Xiong Haizi's parents said, He's just a child. He's still young. You can't let him do it. Just a few dollars of snacks, he has no quality!

I was angry. He robbed our snacks and hit a bag on my sister's forehead with a stone. They ignored it!

Cousin was angry at this time, and scolded bear's parents in a scratching way. Bear's parents feel wronged, but they still have the cheek to say that children are not sensible or something.

Then I grabbed Xiong Haizi by the neck. At first, they squeezed it gently, but they didn't use force. They want to rush to catch their children. My cousin stopped them. Then I grabbed Xiong Haizi by the neck and slapped him, saying, apologize, apologize ... Then Xiong Haizi's parents apologized, gave me 50 yuan, took the children away, and then came to my sister. Our sister's forehead was stoned by that Xiong Haizi, and there was blood next to it. She was also beaten black and blue by that Xiong Haizi, and then my cousin and I quickly bandaged my sister in the hospital. I really regret not strangling that Xiong Haizi.

A few years ago, I bought an ice cream model on a treasure, which was 1.5 meters high and made of gypsum, and put it in front of my shop to attract customers. Many children like it. Some of them feel that they stand together and let their parents take pictures. One day, the old man who set up a stall opposite to repair shoes, his granddaughter came, ran across the road and knocked it down, and then it broke down. Our model is made of thick and heavy gypsum, with a round stainless steel base below. It's okay to be touched and hugged every day. He watched his granddaughter rush up and push it down. I was really distressed at that time, not to mention that I bought it for 1500. It took a week for the logistics to arrive, and it took a lot of effort to pull it over. At that time, the old man watched her running around and pushing it down, and said she was willing to pay for it. I told him to go back and talk to his family, and then come to me. After all, I showed him the receipt. She said that she scared the children, that she was going to the hospital for examination, that I bullied the elderly, that my family was poor, and that people all over the street were watching and listening to her blocking the store door. Everyone who doesn't know thinks I bully them. Her grandmother's father sets up a stall to repair shoes every day, rain or shine. He doesn't wear socks in winter and his clothes are in rags. Her daughter opened a counter in the shopping mall, with several gold rings on one hand and a thick gold necklace and bracelet. The shopping center is only a few steps away from where her father set up a stall. I never saw her come to see it, and then she didn't make it up to me. Kind passers-by also said that the old man who repaired shoes was poor and had no money, and your shop owner still cared about money. This is the way of society. Moral kidnapping, no one's money was blown away by the wind, 1000 yuan. How much ice cream do I have to sell hard to earn back? Don't even pay the rent, water and electricity, and don't pay the workers?