What should you do if a man doesn’t take the initiative to send you messages? Can you elaborate?

1. Don’t think too much, don’t pester and disturb.

In love, if a man does not reply to your message, a woman does not have to think too much, let alone entangle and disturb each other. You should know that someone who truly loves you will not ignore you. If he is busy and does not contact you, he will come to you when he is not busy. Men won't love you that much either. Even if you take the initiative to contact him and send more messages, he will ignore you.

Therefore, what a woman needs to do is not to pester or disturb. The other person does not care about you, and you do not have to please. Women should not be too modest when dealing with men. Men who always ignore you are not worth any cost. If a man always breaks off the relationship with you suddenly, it means that his love for you is not firm enough. At this point, you don't have to please him. Sometimes, the more a woman likes it, the less a man cherishes it. On the contrary, the more you ignore him and ignore him, the more he will care about you.

2. Understand each other’s interests.

Boys will not take the initiative to chat with you. Maybe these two people don't have the same topic and they can't talk together. At this time, we can understand the other party's interests, so that we can know what the other party likes and let the other party take the initiative to chat with you.

3. Don’t lose your temper

Girls should not lose their temper. This will make the boy have a headache and not want to take the initiative to chat with you, so the girl should not lose her temper. Being angry will only make boys think you are difficult to communicate with and it will be difficult for them to avoid chatting with you.

4. Divert attention appropriately.

In this case, I'm afraid women will get into trouble. The more you think about the question "Why is he ignoring me?" the less you can figure it out. In the end, you can only struggle with yourself, and ultimately you can't get out of this strange circle. Smart women will divert their attention appropriately at this time. They do whatever they want. They can treat their best friends to yoga, tea, reading, and a game of chase. When you are immersed in other things, you will naturally forget that he is ignoring you. When you think about it, they were probably too lazy to notice him and slowly put him down!

5. Improve yourself comprehensively.

When a woman likes someone, she will be used to focusing all her attention and energy on him. But it is worth mentioning that although love is important, there are many things in life that are more important than love, so what you should do is to improve yourself comprehensively. When you become excellent, you naturally don’t need him. Maybe when he pursues you again, you have to consider whether to answer! A smart woman won't dwell on this issue, let alone him. Because she knows that even if it works out, love won't last. The more you treat him, the less he will appreciate it. Good love is never wishful thinking, but I am willing to pay for you, and you know how good I am.