I know I'm stupid, how can I change myself?

Since we know that we are relatively filial, we should make some changes, such as disobeying our parents, having our own ideas and being responsible for our own lives. If your parents always want to control you, you can also tell me that the other person has grown up and can make a decision, and can no longer be controlled by you. Let the children make changes, and the parents will follow suit, and they will not be so old-fashioned.

Children who don't know filial piety are very filial and good to their parents, and can meet any requirements of their parents. For example, after graduating from college, you can obviously stay in a big city to develop and get a higher position and salary, but parents want their children to stay with them, and their children will give up the development opportunities in big cities and return to small cities. Such children are stupid and listen to their parents. If it is a boy, he will become a mother-in-law. If he asks his mother everything, he can't find a girlfriend. Even if you find a wife through blind date, it will make the marriage life fly like a dog and make your wife look down on you. This kind of marriage is also unhappy and will make you very painful.

You can read some educational books, see how to deal with the relationship between yourself and your parents, and take moderate measures to resist. You can reduce the frequency of calling your parents at first, and then decide whether to ask your parents for advice. After that, you can do some big moves, for example, don't always listen to your parents in 2008, but you can tell your parents what you think, your plans for the future and your requirements for choosing a spouse. This will make parents realize that when their children grow up, they will slowly let go of the thread in their hands and will not tie it again.

Not knowing filial piety is very bad, which will restrict your development and make your small family influenced by the big family. Parents can only accompany you through the first part of your life. Should I go with my wife and children later, or should I love my wife and children?