What if parents disagree?

In real life, I'm afraid there are few parents who don't ask questions about their children's love and marriage. Which parent doesn't care about their children's lifelong events? When a child is a child, he should solemnly introduce his love situation to his parents and ask for their opinions. If your parents are not satisfied with your lover, what should the children do?

We believe that we should listen to parents' different opinions patiently and consider and analyze them in the process of listening. Because they have rich experience in social life, they often consider the issues of love, marriage and family life more carefully than we do. They are more accurate in some problems that we can't easily see through. To some extent, the different opinions of parents are likely to be a good medicine, which can cure the childish diseases of children and girls. In fact, there are many cases in which children avoid love tragedies because of their parents' correct opinions, and there are also many cases in which children get happy love because of their parents' advice. Some parents like to say, "I have crossed more bridges than you have." This is the big truth. You know, parents have experienced it after all. They deeply know what kind of love is the best and what kind of family is the happiest. They are experienced, knowledgeable and thorough in thinking. As the saying goes: "If you don't listen to the old man, you will suffer." This is not unreasonable, we should respect the opinions of our parents.

Of course, parents' opinions should be analyzed in detail. Why don't they agree with your lover? If your parents think that your other half has a bad personality, is not self-motivated and can't live, so they object to your contact with each other, then you should reflect on yourself. Have you noticed each other's ideological quality before, and have you found any bad behavior from each other? If it is as your parents observed, you'd better stop contacting; If the other person is not what your parents say, then you should patiently do your parents' work and get to know your lover again. Another situation is that your parents think that your lover has poor family conditions and low social status, so you should stand in the right position and help your parents eliminate this vulgar feudal thought without confronting your parents. If not, you have to be patient with your parents' ideological work, re-introduce your parents to your other half, and have a harmonious atmosphere in your communication!