Talk about it shamelessly

Only when people are ashamed and lack self-knowledge can they have the determination and courage to rest on their laurels. If they can't correctly understand their own shortcomings and stand still, they will only fail more and more.

Knowing shame and being brave allusions During the Spring and Autumn Period, wuyue went to war and Yue was defeated. Gou Jian, the king of Yue, entered the Wu Palace and became the servant of Fu Cha, the king of Wu. Gou Jian was brave and ashamed, and returned to China after his release. He paid a salary, visited the poor and asked questions, appointed talents and developed production. This situation is unique among the rulers of China. After ten years of reunion and lessons, Qiang Bing finally became a rich country, wiped out the State of Wu in one fell swoop, and Gou Jian became the overlord in the Spring and Autumn Period.

Enlightenment has gone through hardships and blows. In the face of difficulties, it will never be discouraged, never retreat, and never give up on itself. Instead, it will maintain a mental state of striving for progress and facing difficulties. Shame is twofold, both a challenge and an opportunity. It is both an obstacle and an exercise. It seems that only after people are ashamed will they have the determination and courage to stand still, otherwise they will not be able to correctly understand their own shortcomings and will only fail more and more.

The first advantage is that we can calmly analyze ourselves, dissect ourselves constantly, review ourselves and examine ourselves. It is not difficult for a person to build self-confidence. There are narcissistic and egocentric genes in human nature. Because of this gene, we tend to be self-righteous, which is what we often call self-confidence. Because of this self-confidence, sometimes I don't listen to advice, so I often walk into the wrong alley. What we really can't do is to always realize the imperfection of our lives and keep a modest attitude in our mentality.

Of course, people should not be shameless, but should face their own defects and problems shamelessly! Even Confucius has asked others some questions, and a founder of Confucianism can be ashamed to ask questions, let alone us? Anyway, learn to judge right and wrong, and be ashamed to say it. As long as all of us are ashamed, when we are ashamed, we will become brave, and then human civilization will turn a new page!