I weaned my child at the age of 3, and now I regret it. I don't advise my mother to learn from me.

I believe that the first parenting problem you face as a new mother is the problem of baby feeding. Breastfeeding or milk powder feeding.

Some mothers may choose milk powder for physical reasons or for fitness.

The other part of the mother chose breastfeeding without hesitation.

I am one of them. At the beginning of pregnancy, I always believed in the principle of breastfeeding for many reasons:

First, because breast milk is not only the best food for babies, but also the cheapest baby consumables;

Second, in recent years, milk powder problems have occurred from time to time, fearing that children will regret it for life if they are recruited;

Another is that I personally enjoy this kind of thing that only my mother can do, which makes me feel that my position in my daughter's growth is different;

Last but not least, I think breastfeeding can enhance resistance.

This knowledge mainly comes from the children of my husband and his cousin, and the comparison between these two different feeding methods.

My husband was born in Beijing in the 1980s. Maternity leave was only 42 days at that time. After her mother-in-law goes to work, she has an hour's breastfeeding leave, but she can't breastfeed exclusively.

Moreover, there were no convenient tools such as breast pumps and milk storage bags at that time. Soon after her mother-in-law went to work, she weaned her child.

After that, the baby husband used milk as the main ration, which also caused the husband to be weak and sick from childhood.

Although he has grown into a man in his thirties, he still can't resist any flu.

As long as someone around him catches a cold, his husband can't escape the curse of being infected.

Another example of breastfeeding comes from his cousin's children.

Cousin is a nurse in a hospital in Beijing. Through a conversation, we learned that my cousin's child was breast-fed until he was 3 years old and weaned in kindergarten, but his resistance was surprisingly good and he was basically not sick.

Later, through many examples around me, I became more convinced of the benefits of breastfeeding.

My initial goal is to breastfeed my children until they are 2 years old, so that they can be weaned naturally and will not cause too much pressure on them and me.

When the child reached the age of 2, he actually had the opportunity to wean himself naturally, but he was a little selfish at that time and could not bear the physical and emotional connection between mother and daughter, hoping to continue to be needed by the child.

This may be because the working mother made up for it. On the grounds of enhancing the child's resistance, she continued breastfeeding until she was 3 years old, regardless of her family's dissuasion.

Then something happened that made me regret weaning too late.

Sometimes children will be disobedient. When I am strict with her, the little fish will cry and lift my clothes, trying to touch her breasts for comfort.

If I'm okay at home, it will make me particularly embarrassed if this happens outside.

Sometimes when I'm lying in bed playing with my mobile phone or resting, Xiaoyu will mistakenly think that she is going to suck milk. She will climb on top of me to prepare dinner. The more she stops her, the more proud she becomes.

Every time I don't want to eat or feel that the food is not to my liking, the child will refuse to eat on the grounds of drinking milk. Sometimes grandma gives the child a bag of milk, and this meal is basically not eaten. In the long run, it will inevitably affect the child's physical growth.

Because I am a girl, I have emphasized that private parts can't be seen by others through picture books and daily communication since Xiaoyuer was one year old, but it doesn't have much effect on breast milk.

I don't think I can let it go on like this. I began to look for reasons and resolutely solve these problems.

Whenever a child wants to eat breast milk, it is actually a child's milk addiction. At this time, I usually say: I'll get a bag of milk. This method is always tried and tested.

Whenever a child seeks comfort by touching his mother's breasts, I will seriously say, "This is the mother's private parts, and it can't be shown to others, and neither can the baby." The more times you say it, the more interested the child will be.

Whether it is a boy or a girl, weaning too late will bring some negative effects.

I once saw a girl on the Internet. Her mother breastfed her until 18 years old, and the girl felt that every child was like her. It was not until college that she realized that this was abnormal.

The influence of boys weaning too late is much greater.

Taiwan Province actress Di Ying dotes on her son very much. She weaned her son at the age of 1 1 and slept with him at the age of 15. She didn't sleep separately until her son had a physiological reaction. Her doting also killed her son and sent him to prison.

Breastfeeding embodies the greatness and purity of motherhood, but everything is too much. I hope the above examples and my own experience can remind all mothers that weaning too late will do more harm than good.

I am a little fish mother, recording my life in words.

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