Three kinds of high emotional intelligence reply skills

What should you do if someone talks to you? Master three kinds of high emotional intelligence reply skills

1. Kicking method

In the workplace, colleagues set you up: hey, I said, have you found that our boss seems to be very dissatisfied with Xiao Li and has been criticizing him recently? This is actually a cliche for you. If you say yes easily, you will easily fall behind. Once the boss knows, he will definitely have a bad impression on you.

At this time, how to reply? It's simple, just like playing football. Kick this question back, you can directly ask him: Why do you think so? Why do you think the boss is dissatisfied with Xiao Li? How did the boss criticize him? Can you tell me more specifically?

In interpersonal communication, rhetorical answering skills like this can effectively avoid being fooled.

2. Continuous rhetorical questions

A few days after you joined a company, a colleague came to talk to you. I heard that the pony you entered the company with has something to do with it and has a background, right?

At this time, if you say that you are different from Pony, it doesn't matter, and you have no background, your colleagues may bully you as a newcomer in the future. But it's not good if you say yes, and your colleagues may say you came in through the back door.

At this time, you can ask him in a series of rhetorical questions: why do you ask this?

Colleagues are likely to say: nothing, just ask. You can ask the second question: Is it important to have a relationship and a background? Colleagues are embarrassed at this time, and may make excuses to say that they just care about you. Colleagues will generally realize that you are a hard nail and a difficult person, so they will shut up and walk away.

Step 3 divert attention

In interpersonal communication, a person who has not been in contact for a long time suddenly chats with you and tells you: I heard that you have made a fortune recently and changed your car. Congratulations.

If you get carried away at this time, just admit it and tell the truth. After that, the other party may borrow money from you or beg you to do something.

If you want to avoid this situation and don't want to get into trouble, you can use a diversion when replying.

For example, you can reply like this: What are you busy with recently? Is everything all right at home?

The essence of this high emotional intelligence reply skill is that you don't answer the other person's questions, but find another topic, which can effectively avoid being framed.