Parents always compare other people's children with themselves and say that others are better than you. What should they do?

Nowadays, many parents are very strict about their children's education, and even some parents always like to compare other people's children with their own, so there is what children call "other people's children." This is also one of the reasons why children and parents form contradictions and estrangements, and we should all pay attention to it.

Some parents always see the bright spots of other people's children and compare their own children. In fact, it is wrong to do so. Parents who do this cannot understand their children's feelings. The more they do this, the children will be depressed and feel inferior. We should pay attention to the advantages and disadvantages of other children, and at the same time, when we see the shortcomings of our own children, we should also pay attention to their luminous points.

As parents, we should find the right way to educate our children, instead of always comparing our children with others, which will only frustrate our children and even cause their distorted psychology. When our parents always compare other people's children with ourselves, we must communicate with our parents in time instead of waiting for death. We should try our best to let our parents see the bright spots in us, and let him see that our strengths are not just clinging to our shortcomings. Everyone has his own excellent place, but some people can't see it.

When your parents always compare other people's children with you, you must not feel inferior and put too much pressure on yourself. On the contrary, you should not be influenced by these emotions. You should also communicate with your parents so that they can see your bright spots and give full play to your strengths. Only in this way can parents better understand you and guide you on the right path.