It is very dangerous to put firecrackers into manholes. How should parents control their naughty children?

There is a piece of news on the Internet that has attracted the attention of many netizens. It is about a naughty kid who put firecrackers into the well. Such behavior is very dangerous. Some netizens asked parents how to discipline their naughty children. I think there are mainly the following methods.

First, parents must watch over their children when they are outside.

Why do many children cause trouble outside? The reason why many children are called naughty children by others is because their parents do not take good care of them. For example, when the parents take them out to play, they only focus on doing their own things and let the naughty children run around. When the time comes, they commit crimes and get into trouble. Everyone knows how bad it is. Danger.

So, if you want to discipline your own naughty children, the most important thing you should do is to take good care of your children. Since you have taken your children out, you also know that your children are a bit confused in doing things. The most important thing you should do at this time is to keep an eye on him and don't let him do bad things or do something stupid. In this case, there will be no danger. After all, you are the child's parent and her guardian. You have the obligation to watch over him, ensure his safety, and ensure that he does not do bad things.

Second, when a child does something wrong, be sure to let the child realize the wrongness of the matter. Don't take responsibility for your child.

I believe that many parents will make a mistake, that is, if their children do something wrong outside, the parents will stand in front of the children and say, it has nothing to do with the children, it has to do with me, and I will take care of the children. I apologize to you. The child is still young, so don’t argue with her. Don't ever have such an idea. Once you do something like this, you still won't realize that you did it wrong. Instead, you will feel that no matter what I do, my mother will stand in front of me. That's not true. It’s related.

He will make bigger mistakes in the future, and he will do more dangerous things in the future. Therefore, mothers must remember that if their children do something wrong, they must bear the responsibility themselves. Be sure to let the child realize that he has really done something wrong, rather than admitting the mistake for him.

Third, let the children try to solve their own mistakes.

Many parents ask their children to apologize when they make mistakes, but after the apology, the parents will help them deal with the matter. I think it is not good. Not only should the children apologize and realize the wrongness of the matter, The child must also be allowed to solve the problem on his own. Only in the process of solving the problem will he know what he should do when faced with the same thing, and he will be able to understand more deeply that he did something wrong.

So parents must not just ask their children to apologize. They must let their children deal with the problems they have left.