Have a heart-to-heart conversation

First, mentality determines words and deeds, and what kind of life you will lead in the future depends on your current mentality. If people can live a good life, they will naturally not compare with others and will not care about others' comments. Naturally, they will become optimistic and open-minded, and life will become simple and happy. Every night is death, and every dawn is rebirth. Being happy with people and things every day is the best reward for life.

Second, look down on the vicissitudes of the world and feel at ease. Life, in the final analysis, is mood. People live tired because there are too many things that can affect your mood. The change of weather, the warmth and coldness of human feelings and different scenery will affect your mood. And it's all beyond your control. Looking down, it is nothing more than rain or shine, people just gather and disperse, and the ground is just high and low. Things change, my heart is not surprised, and I am naturally stable; Comfortable is sunshine, not sad or happy!

Third, we are not perfect people, but we must accept our imperfect selves. Comfort yourself when you are lonely; Give yourself warmth when you are lonely. Learn to be independent, bid farewell to dependence, and bid farewell to your weak self. Life is not only warm, the road of life will not always be smooth sailing, but as long as you have confidence in yourself, know your own value and know how to cherish yourself, you can face all the imperfections in the world calmly.

Fourth, the mood is a river, and its state depends on its depth. Deep water is quiet, shallow water is noisy. If the mind is too small, small stones can also arouse the waves of the mood; If you have a big heart, you can hold hidden rocks. Care about your own heart, no matter how small the interests, there will be disputes; If you relax, no matter how big the interests are, there is room for concession. Bad mood is to be fought for; A good mood is to vent. Hello, everyone. It's really good. Get over it, look down and laugh naturally.

5. Face life with gratitude, and life will be full of sunshine. The mind is a mirror, and what is in it depends on where you are facing. The world is not perfect, and life is inevitably flawed. Happiness is a contrast, because there are tears flowing, so the smile is sweeter. Put away your complaining heart, let the mirror of your heart shine into the light, and let the darkness hide in the corner, out of sight and out of mind. Everything has advantages and disadvantages. Think on the bright side, and your heart will not shed tears.

Sixth, if you care, there are complaints everywhere; If you relax, it is always spring. Nine times out of ten, there are unpleasant things in the world. What can obey you is very few things that can make you get what you want. If you don't care, no one or thing can satisfy you. If you live a lifetime, you need peace of mind, so why bother yourself? The heart is one inch wide and the road is ten feet wide. If it is not as broad-minded as the sea, how can there be a calm life?

Seven, too much pressure, often because of too much desire. Therefore, even if you can't let go completely, you should at least know that contentment is always happy, and everything in life will follow fate, and don't let the greed in your heart over-expand. The Buddha told us that we should reduce greed and desire and understand how to forgive others. Don't complain immediately if you are a little unhappy. Only by facing everything with a fatalistic heart can we live freely.

Don't give yourself a hard time. No matter how good others are, they are others. No matter how miserable you are, you are yourself, your unique self. Try to be yourself, and you will definitely give yourself the biggest surprise. The price of admiring others is to lose yourself. What others have, you may not have it, and what you have, others may not have it. Appreciate yourself, be kind to yourself and manage yourself well, and one day you will shine brilliantly.

Nine, if you want to be happy, you must be easy-going; If you want to be happy, you must follow the fate. Happiness is the pleasure of the soul, and happiness is the satisfaction of the soul. Don't quarrel with others, yourself and fate. If you don't care, your heart will always be happy; In addition to dedication, it begins with fate and ends with fate, and contentment is always happy. You are easy-going and have your own inner happiness; Others care, and it is himself who is depressed. A day's mood depends on easygoing, and a lifetime's happiness depends on fate.

Happiness is not for showing off, nor for comparison, but for feeling. Happiness is like drinking water, not a distant goal, but enjoying the present process. As long as you have a grateful heart, grateful for life, grateful for life, grateful for everyone who cares about you, happiness is everywhere, all the time. Remember: we are pursuing our own happiness, not "being happier than others"!

An inspirational speech about bravely facing all the realities.

An inspirational speech about bravely facing all the realities.

1, don't confuse arrogance with wisdom. Don't let your modesty lack wisdom.

2, the purpose of lying, if not to please each other, is to protect themselves.

People who are full of their own opinions and ideas will never hear other people's voices.

It turns out that our relationship is just a game from beginning to end.

Seven days is not enough to express my deep love for my motherland!

6. I like you for no reason; Don't like you, anything can be the reason.

7. If you ask your parents for the money you spent later, your famous brand can only set off your incompetence.

8. Wear away your arrogance and suffocation. There are many reasons that we didn't understand yesterday. Maybe we understand today. Maybe we don't understand today, but it doesn't matter. We are growing every day. Maybe tomorrow, maybe the day after tomorrow, maybe the day after tomorrow, we will all understand one by one.

9. We parted in the light fog. Dew, the sky, like your innocent eyes; Fog, misty, like my deep sadness.

10, years of dreams and love, sky blue every day.

1 1, the real peace is not to avoid the noise of cars and horses, but to care for a flower in your heart.

12, yearning for sunflower, why doesn't the sun understand and cherish it?

13, I love you so much that I ignore myself.

14, brave, there is a road under your feet; A wise man knows which way is the best.

15, the person who has been chasing you for a long time has left, even if you don't like him, you will feel that there seems to be no expectation for a day, which is worse than being lovelorn.

16, jealousy is dissatisfaction with others on the surface, but it actually reflects dissatisfaction with yourself. When we are aware of our own shortcomings, we will show envy of others.

17. Leave your tears to the person who loves you the most and your smile to the person who hurts you the most.

18, higher vocational education is inferior to high salary, high salary is inferior to longevity, and longevity is inferior to happiness.

19, holiday girl, I love you. Please come back as soon as possible and don't go too far.

20. Never waste a minute thinking about people you don't like.

2 1, with inner feelings, people can truly understand ruthlessness. Source: Xueyou. Com- Very realistic and reasonable words _ Mood and talk are very realistic _ Face the reality bravely. All inspirational talks are with pictures.

22. Many things are like this. It is often easier to tear down than to build up, especially friendship. Once you give up, you will lose not only your friends, but also your energy and good times. How many times in life do you have to give up?

Don't lose your temper when your mistake is exposed. Don't think that being willful or noisy can cover up or overcome your shortcomings.

24. Sometimes, the reason for falling in love with someone is also the reason for leaving someone.

25. Every memory has a password. As long as the time, place and character combination are correct, no matter how long it is dusty, that person's scene will be picked up again in oblivion. You might say, "Isn't it all over?" In fact, the past is only time, and you still can't escape. I will laugh and feel sad when I think about it. That fate is called "powerlessness".

26. Stand in a corner of the world and watch the sunrise and sunset alone.

27. Two hearts used to be so close, but now they have to give up like this.

28. You are my old confidant after light years, and we will never meet again.

29. Love is the source of life intertwined with you and me: schoolmates. Com- Very realistic and reasonable words _ The tone of voice is very realistic _ Face the reality bravely, and it's all inspirational with pictures.

30. Only when you are in trouble can you see clearly what a dog is and what a brother is!

3 1, it is easy for one person to win over another, that is, to learn to bear hardships. Son, no one in this world likes people who take advantage, but everyone likes people who suffer. When you think about losing, you will win others; Those who know how to repay you in a bigger way are your friends.

32. I have never spent so much time, and I can't tolerate everything from you, including betrayal.

33, a dull life, no noise, some things, gently put down, you may not be relaxed. Some small things, if you think too much, become big things. Some details, if you think too much, will become tragedy. After all, it is all fantasy. So people are heavy and tired, and their hearts are heavy and tired. Relax like a man.

Don't try to make any excuses for yourself. No one likes the excuses before mistakes.

35. Life is nothing more than making others smile and occasionally smiling at others.

Draw a circle and curse you. Don't leave me in this life.

37. Even if the signature is changed a thousand times, you will not pay attention to it.

38. When all good things can't come back, people are used to living in memories. People have a misunderstanding, that is, they are afraid that their lovers will never forget their first love, and many strong consciousness is on each other, so they must forget it! This bullying makes you more tired, and caring about the past will only make the people you love want to stay away from you more! The person you love has been hurt, please don't care about his/her hidden past, because he/she has the courage to go out and accept you, proving that your weight is enough. Happiness is the most important thing now!

39. Having a daughter will be called beautiful, and others will call me beautiful mother when they see me.

40. My world is getting darker and darker, and only your voice remains in my mind. Source: Xueyou. Com- Very realistic and reasonable words _ Mood and talk are very realistic _ Face the reality bravely. All inspirational talks are with pictures.

4 1. Laughter is just an expression and has nothing to do with happiness.

42. Knowing your ignorance is the surest way to know the world.

43. The difference between an oath and a lie is that the listener is serious and the speaker is serious.

44, things have happened, no matter good or bad, calm down!

Friendship is like an antique, the older the better.

46. The happiest thing is to wake up the next day and find that the person you love has sent yourself a long message.

47. In chemistry class, the chemistry teacher asked, "What should I do if your gas leaks?" Don't panic, light a cigarette and calm down.

48. Love without sound is the end. No matter how beautiful the story is, there will always be an end, only the differences in their respective degrees.

49. I choose to avoid all feelings because I am afraid of being hurt.

If you insist on taking simple things seriously, you will be miserable. Source: Xueyou. Com- Very realistic and reasonable words _ Mood and talk are very realistic _ Face the reality bravely. All inspirational talks are with pictures.

5 1, the more you pay attention to others, the less you pay attention to yourself, understand?

52. So, I understand that mom and dad are fragile before they grow up.

53. Get used to forgetting you and your past.

54. People live with faces and trees have skins.

55. My world doesn't need you to judge whether it is good or bad. I'm just happy.

56. Your apologies will only make me cry.

57. Only oneself will always be heartbroken, and others will be heartless.

58. I am not a worm in your stomach. I don't know if you will lie to me.

59. I have been thinking about one sentence in my heart, that is, you told me that you loved her.

60. I don't care if you care about me.

6 1, life is so short, why should unimportant people affect their important mood?

62. There is always an answer to everything. It's better to let nature take its course than to worry about it. Source: Xueyou. Com- Very realistic and reasonable words _ Mood and talk are very realistic _ Face the reality bravely. All inspirational talks are with pictures.

63. The most important thing in falling in love is love without regrets. How did you fall in love in the first place? Please love it without regrets. Everyone has the right to choose love, but at the same time, he has the obligation to bear the result. Since you fall in love with someone, you should learn to accept her shortcomings and her unsatisfactory side. It takes courage to love, not to be together, but to love all the time.

64. How much can you do and how much can't you do to resist fate and play with your feelings?

65, the faint wind, with the fragrance of the earth, gently brushed the face; Light rain, with clear coolness, makes people linger; Faint feelings, quietly across my heart, silently engraved on the road. Let go of the faint mood, walk into nature and get close to mountains and rivers. Perhaps a leaf boat can cross the dust and tell Sha Ou, who is sailing around against the rising sun, a faint worry. There is a faint normal heart and a faint but not boring life.

Will it wither before it blooms? I have unfulfilled dreams.

67. The first concept of learning Buddhism is never to look at the faults of all beings. When you see the faults of all beings, you will always pollute yourself, and it is impossible for you to practice.

68. The initial enthusiasm of being clean, stubborn, overbearing, arrogant and unyielding has long been smoothed away by time.

69. Sorry is just a reason for betrayal. It doesn't matter. Just an excuse for disappointment.

70. I choose to avoid all feelings because I am afraid of being hurt.

7 1, saints seek the heart, not the Buddha; Fools have no intention of seeking Buddha. Source: Xueyou. Com- Very realistic and reasonable words _ Mood and talk are very realistic _ Face the reality bravely. All inspirational talks are with pictures.

72, the city sang a song, but the heart is still lacking. The lonely scene is empty and the figure is chaotic. When people go, the scenery is already embarrassing. Who plays the eternal song by the Shishan River, who plays the farewell of life on the road of broken bridge. Love in this life, life and death together, a finger quicksand, cut off the dust, a pen and ink, write a complaint. Before Buddha's third life, he insisted on the afterlife, dripping blood at his fingertips, painting love and looking forward to reincarnation. The love of three lives dies in quicksand, and the love of a lifetime languishes only for Iraqis.

73. Like you doesn't need a reason, but dislike you can be a reason.

74. For you, the phrase "I love you" often seems useless. Your heart is not with me.

75. The grievances that can be said are not grievances, and the lover that can be taken away is not a lover.

76. Words, from beginning to end, can't express my feelings. It only makes me depressed.

77. The tangled emotions and confused thoughts make us lost again and again.

78. Knowing that you are lying is stupid enough to believe it.

79. Say that his father is an old ox, plowing loess to brew autumn harvest. Sweat for the children and turn the desert into an oasis.

Don't flatter yourself in front of me. False eyelashes fell off, and cosmetic contact lenses fell off. I don't think you're so smug.

It is absurd to meet the wrong person at the wrong time. Source: Xueyou. Com- Very realistic and reasonable words _ Mood and talk are very realistic _ Face the reality bravely. All inspirational talks are with pictures.

82. People who know me don't have to explain why people who don't know me do.

83. Some people's wounds fester slowly in time, like mine.

84. Hate someone you loved, don't ask the reason for breaking up, and don't beg for the possibility of getting back together. No matter how hard life is, you will eventually find someone who will make you want to be stupid. No one can bear all the sadness for you. People always learn to grow up by themselves. Turn around and make yourself happy. That's true. I thought I was afraid of the farewell moment, but I was also afraid of reunion.

85. What you can't take away is sadness, and what you can't see through is always the truth.

86. Time is a master in treating mental trauma, but it is by no means a master in solving problems.

87. Choose what you love and love what you choose.

Dear yourself, don't point to the sky just because of a cloud and say there is no sun.

89. It's the unpredictable nature of the human heart that caught me off guard.

90. Every day we are separated by a long distance, which always makes me think about you every day.

On the personality of nourishing heart and nature

1. In this world, a man's most precious possession is a woman's heart. The most precious property

In order to criticize the world and correct others, we live a busy life and are exhausted. Let the future you hate yourself now. I'm trying to be the person I like. It is better to be strong than to pray for a plain life.

Only when we turn the lesson into punishment will we feel pain. We might as well accept it happily and deal with it with a smile-then it is just a lesson for us. Just study hard.

If you have no worries, don't make them. If you have, try to solve it.

5, mysterious curse, God-given inspiration, love or not is black or white, who can make it!

6. You are going to drink today. Go ahead. Don't come back until you're drunk.

7. Woman, put down your arrogance. Dude, get down.

8. Don't let worldly problems and personal habits stop you from returning to your true self. Whenever you love others unconditionally and expand the quality of your love, that is your real self-expansion. Every time you do this, you are broadening your world and your true self, and you will become more and more great.

9. Learn the initiative, decide the best time to shoot, and use your developed wisdom decisively.

10, how many men can stand the temptation and how many women can stand the loneliness! I am a man, I can stand temptation, but I can't stand loneliness! Hey! Might as well masturbate!

1 1, love a person, take care of him, protect him, and set him free. This is truly elegant love.

12. A blessing in disguise is a blessing in disguise. We should not always care about thorns, but look at flowers. All the pain comes not from the external environment, but from our attitude.

13, honey, if I give up, it's not that I don't love you, but that I can't stand being hurt anymore.

14, the biggest fear should be that it is broken.

15, some people quarrel with you every day, but they never blame you. Some people, without even quarreling, disappear into the sea of people. It turns out that indifference is more terrible than quarreling.

16. Who is the one who is convinced? Only Brother Zeng is still alive.

17, ◆◇ヽThis's paintings are only black and white in America after all. Friendship is real. After all, we are separated.

18, how many people, facing the computer, are in a daze and listening to music. Acting ruthlessly, but behind it is sad.

19, purify your thoughts, words and actions.

20. At the last moment of blackening, my hands trembled, my heart ached, and my pain entered the bone marrow.

2 1. Being honest with others is the best way to protect your dignity and conscience.

22. Never is a distance, but a decision. Eternal distance.

23. People's hearts repent in deep sleep and tears. A person is drunk and lonely in the middle of the night. The air is also pleasing. Why is it warm but not right for the stomach?

24. Lies are like lines, which are often recited. The truth is like a cough, most of which comes out when you can't hold it.

25. Yesterday is always a past tense, today is always a continuous tense, tomorrow is always a fantasy, and every day is an equation.

If you cultivate your mind.

1, when you put it down, there is no trouble.

It's not so much that others make you suffer, but that your self-cultivation is not enough.

3, do not forgive all beings, do not forgive all beings, it is bitter for yourself.

When you are poor, you can give alms with your body, such as sweeping the floor, sprinkling water and moving things. This is also a charity.

5, you should not always be dissatisfied with others, you should always review yourself. If you are dissatisfied with others, it is yourself who suffers.

6. People in the world should be responsible for the law.

7. When you know that you are confused, you are not pitiful. When you are confused, you are the most pitiful.

8. The world is inherently painful, without exception.

9. Arrogant people can be saved, but people with inferiority can't.

10, tell more jokes and deal with things with humor, so that life will be easier.

1 1, don't be too sure of your opinion, so you will have fewer regrets.

12, fate is not to muddle along, but to leave everything to chance.

13, when you are happy, you should think that this happiness is not eternal. When you are in pain, you should think that this pain is not eternal.

14, a person full of jealousy, dishonest in heart and incorrect in speech, can't be regarded as a person with correct facial features.

15, people suffer because they pursue the wrong things.

16, silently caring for and blessing others is an invisible charity.

17, every kind of trauma is a kind of maturity.

18, you can have love, but don't be persistent, because separation is inevitable.

19, it is shameful to cover up your shortcomings by hurting others.

20. You should always forgive all beings, no matter how bad they are, even if they have hurt you, you must let go to get real happiness.

2 1. Discipline yourself and leave others alone.

22. If you don't give yourself trouble, others will never give you trouble. Because of my heart, I can't let go.

23. People with insufficient realm often hear right and wrong; People who have enough realm have never heard of right or wrong.

24. Only by knowing yourself, surrendering yourself and changing yourself can we change others.

Don't waste your life where you will regret it.

26, persistent purpose, will cause tomorrow's regret.

27, emotional attachment is the cause of distress, let go of emotional attachment, you can get comfortable.

When you are honest with yourself, no one in the world can cheat you.

29. Don't say that others are pitiful, you are even more pitiful. What about your own practice? What do you know about life?

30. All evil laws are illusory, so don't feel inferior. All good laws are vain, so don't be too arrogant.

3 1. When you are poor, you should use your body to give alms, such as sweeping the floor, sprinkling water and moving things. This is also a charity.

Being a good person is a confession of one's conscience, not for others to see.