The mistress is leaving me.

You must be willing to give up. There are several reasons: (1) Your mistress. If you really do her best and want to give her a good future and make her feel safe, but you can't accomplish these things, then why not let her go and let her find her own The future of her home? She will appreciate it. (2) Your wife. How much courage and broad-mindedness does it take for her to forgive you for such a big mistake? I believe you know how much she loves you. Can you bear to break her heart again? Why not treat her well and pay more attention to your home, you will have a lot of unexpected gains. (3) Yourself. Aren't you tired of taking care of your wife, family, mistress, and work at the same time? Isn’t the psychological burden heavy? Don't you want to relax, don't you need a rest? It's time for you to reduce stress for yourself and live a comfortable life. I'm done. Finally, think about your wife, yourself, your family, and your future, and let it go.