Let's talk about what is the reason why a large number of older men can't get married now.

(first) there are few women, and the rest are celibate (actually, they have not found a satisfactory one); Some people like to be rich and powerful, but most of these people have families (raising 1 mistresses is an example, but it illustrates a social phenomenon now); Some are engaged in special services. In this way, the difference between men and women is not 4 million, but even greater.

The ratio of male to female is out of balance. There are 3 million male bachelors in China, which cannot meet their physiological needs. The pressure of life is huge, and it is even more difficult to meet the basic conditions of getting a wife with a house and a car. In addition, there are few girls of the same age, and girls are willing to find a rich man to marry. All girls' spirit of hard work and struggle has basically disappeared, and they are unwilling to work hard from scratch. In addition, the gap between the rich and the poor in society is too large, and the rich eat more and occupy more. Therefore, it is difficult for boys to get a wife if their family conditions are very general.

I want to have a wife, but I don't want to be responsible or contribute. In a word, I am smart and calculating. Those who want to marry can't marry, and those who want to marry can't marry, a vicious circle. This is the problem.

I can't afford to marry, support or have children. No one wants to marry. After marriage, the pressure is great, so it's better to make do with being single.

A large number of older young men can't get married, which is caused by both subjective and objective reasons:

Due to the improvement of life experience and economic conditions, some older young men become too rational and have higher requirements for their partners.

I think the definition of an older young man should be a single young man over the age of 3, who is eager to find a partner when he is in his twenties. However, after living for more than 3 years, he has worked for a certain period of time, and has a certain economic foundation, but he also despises many things. Generally, after this age, falling in love is more rational. Without the ignorant desire of adolescence, he will consider many questions, whether the other person can get along with himself or not. There are many problems, such as whether people can live a life, whether they can honor their parents in the future, how the other person's family conditions are, etc., but few people meet these conditions, and there is not much room for choice, but they are not willing to make do.

Some older young men have little contact with the opposite sex because of their work and living environment, and the pressure from all sides leads to their unwillingness to contact with the opposite sex.

Generally, older men also have their own jobs, especially some jobs are mostly men, which are not suitable for women. Usually, they are very busy, which is basically the life track of work-home, and they can't get in touch with women. After seeing women for a long time, they don't know how to communicate. In addition, at this age, relatives and friends at home bombard them on holidays and family gatherings, which makes older men feel pressure for a long time.

Some older young men are not financially strong, and the cost of getting a wife in society is getting higher year by year. Coupled with more men and fewer women, it can be said that it is worse for them.

Nowadays, the conditions for marrying a wife are changing again and again. A few decades ago, your parents' generation might have had a bicycle, a flashlight and a TV set, so they might have married back. But now the most basic condition is to have a house, some not only have a house, but also a car. The bride price is getting higher and higher every year, starting at 1,, then 3,, and now it is 8,, 1,, and some hundreds of thousands. However, for older young men who don't have a rich family background, their salary can't keep up with the increase in house prices. Moreover, due to the preference for boys over girls in previous years, there are more boys than girls, which leads to more men than women. It can be said that even the ugliest women have men, and they don't worry about getting married at all as long as they are willing. Therefore, the "three mountains" of houses, cars and tickets are in front of older young people, which has doubled the pressure on many older young people.

it's simple, because none of them are rich! Nothing else!

the question you are invited to ask is; Let's talk about what is the reason why a large number of older men can't get married now.

There are four reasons why a large number of older men can't get married at present because of simple things.

first, there are more men than women now.

second; Because it is rural, girls like to find the right image in the city. Now there are many only daughters, which means that girls like rural boys. However, the parents of the woman's family are greedy for money and oppress the man with gifts. Due to the limited economic conditions in rural areas, the man has to refuse to marry, which leads to the fact that the young man can't get married, but the young woman can't get married under the influence of her parents.

three; It is because of the damage of things, the pressure of housing and car is too great to meet the conditions, which leads to the fact that most young men are single. Because of the long-term influence, it is more likely to lead to the phenomenon that one person is tired of marriage and the whole family is not hungry.

4; It is the young men who are now lustful and sexually active, and are not interested in marriage. Because of the harm caused by the house instead of the car, most young men don't pay attention to marriage and like single life, so most young men can't marry their wives and don't want to marry.

that's all. If there are any mistakes, please make corrections. Thank you for your advice!

The imbalance between male and female leads to the fact that 3 million boys in China are considered as bachelors. The reality that there are more men than women suddenly pushes the girl's worth to a position where they don't know how high it is. As a result, she kept raising the level of marriage, which made many marriageable boys afraid and discouraged. There are still many girls who have subverted the traditional three views, preferring to be small four and small three rather than marry a poor man. Some girls choose the best among the best, choose the flowers among the flowers, and finally get worse and worse, becoming leftover women who can't get married. Some girls are married to foreigners, and they are willing to marry blacks, but they don't marry China men. This social phenomenon has been very serious, almost turning into a morbid state. At present, there is almost no solution. If the government does not pay attention to it and take measures, it will produce social contradictions, social hidden dangers and unstable factors.

Without interference, the sex ratio of babies born in all countries of the world is basically the same, generally in the range of 12-17, that is, the number of boys born is 12 -17 for every 1 girls. Demographers call this index a constant value of the sex ratio of babies at birth. Because the mortality rate of male children is slightly higher than that of female children, the ratio of male to female will be basically the same by the time of marriage.

The sex ratio of babies born in China is 117: 1

However, according to the fifth national census conducted by the China government in 2 (2 years ago), the sex ratio of the whole country was 117, that is, among the babies born, the sex ratio reached 117: 1, much higher than the normal value of 12-17. According to the latest survey of China Statistics Bureau, the sex ratio of boys and girls in cities, towns and villages in China is 112.8 to 1, 116.5 to 1 and 118.1 to 1 respectively.

The sex ratio of babies born in Shanghai is about 17: 1 (the only international city deserves its reputation); The ratio of male to female at birth in Shenzhen is 12.8 ∶ 1; The sex ratio of Beijing floating population born in Beijing is as high as 128: 1; At present, the ratio of male to female in Chongqing is 14: 1, and the ratio of male to female born in Hainan, Guangdong and other provinces is as high as 13: 1.

That is to say, among the population under 2 years old, there are more than 2 million men than women, and on average, there are more than 1 million men than women at each age. From this, population experts predict that by 22, there will be 3 million to 4 million young men of childbearing age who have no wives to marry.

in other words, the decline of neonatal mortality in China and rural areas >: Urban and rural fringe > Gender discrimination in developing first-tier cities is the main reason for the increase in the proportion of men.

It is also widely recognized that the modernization of cities and the expansion of employment have led to a downward trend in the scope, means and time of spouse selection, a decrease in the proportion of age-appropriate marriages (after all, there are 6 million to 7 million college graduates every year), and an increase in the proportion of older people who marry late and those who are 35 years old. , increased the impression that a woman is hard to find.

In addition, it is true that modern women's consciousness is growing rapidly, and women's theory ability is not inferior to that of men in many aspects, but childbirth is the only obstacle to career advancement and family support. Under the traditional old concept that marriage serves childbirth, the proportion of modern women who choose financial independence (not to marry) and choose to marry financially independent men (old men with few wives) increases.

Finally, in the stable economic atmosphere dominated by state-owned enterprises and institutions in China, under the premise of not getting married, middle and lower-level women have the characteristics of delicate personality, solid basic knowledge and stable mind, which obviously have a better chance of climbing than men. Male comrades of school age should not lose heart, and your future is still in middle school

1. Men are not responsible enough, which makes women feel insecure.

2. Men are not self-motivated. Poverty is not terrible. What is terrible is that a woman will never see hope in men.

3. It is normal for women to be greedy for the poor and love the rich. After all, it is much more realistic to marry a ready-made one than to work together, but it depends on the stage of not being in contact.

4. I don't think it's a reason that men are poor and can't get married. We men should also check our real reasons, and we can't just blame women's reality and social injustice.