What should I do if my brother hits me?

After watching this TV series, especially when I saw my brother beat his sister black and blue and was sent to the hospital, I felt that my brother had no affection and even regarded his sister as an enemy, which made me feel incredible.

Although incredible, there are similar phenomena in life. Neighbor's father was seriously ill in hospital, and his brother came back from other places. During the nursing of my father, because of an economic dispute, my brother and sister had a big fight and even tried to kill my sister with a knife, which made the neighbors see a sea of people. Everyone accuses him of being the most wicked brother in the world, which is so inhuman.

This brother in the TV series and this brother I talked about in my life, let me sum up a truth, the world is full of wonders and it is big news.

If it happened to me, my brother hit my sister. Although I gnashed my teeth with anger, I couldn't give up my family in retrospect. Although I have a strong appearance and a kind heart, I can only endure and forgive my brother when I see my father come to the hospital in person. I can't send my brother to prison, and I'm getting deeper and deeper with my sister-in-law. That would be too expensive, because everything can be changed, but blood can't be changed.

Finally, I want to say that I will forgive my brother, whether in the play or in life. Forgive your brother for mom and dad.

Will hate it. If you don't apologize sincerely, you will hate it for life! Therefore, women still have to find a reliable man to marry. My husband dares to use a knife when he knows that I am bullied outside. I am brother and sister, and I am the youngest. My parents prefer boys to girls. Fortunately, they are not too light on women. They have tried their best to send my second sister and me to college. I am very grateful to my parents for this. As for getting married, my brother is handled by my parents, and my sister has nothing. It doesn't matter. Our three sisters are also quite successful, and now everything is fine on our own. It's just that my brother generally likes my two sisters, especially my sister, because I 18 years old was not at home after graduating from high school, and things at home were not very clear. Later, I heard that my brother beat my sister, and my sister didn't study well. My family is an oil field mining area, and I could recruit people at that time, but my parents just wanted to give her a place, and my brother was unwilling because he was in a hurry to get married. I am the eldest son of 27, and I can understand why I want to get married. Why don't I communicate well? Do I have to hurt my feelings like this? After 25 years, this problem has been solved for a lifetime. The two brothers have never contacted each other, and my sister is very kind to me, but I can't adjust the contradiction between them because I know I am also a woman. If I was beaten by my own brother, my reaction might be more intense than my sister's. Hey! I can't say. It is always wrong for a man to hit a woman, which makes me look down upon it from the bottom of my heart.

I had a similar experience. When I was in primary school, my brother went to junior high school. Maybe all little boys are like this. They like to bully little girls. Two times were more serious, one time the blood vessels in the head ruptured and blood gushed out. My brother saw that he was in trouble and hid. I cried and shouted, Brother, hide quickly, or our mother will hit you and never come back. At that time, I didn't know that my parents were patriarchal. Another time, he almost strangled me. When I was walking on the road, my brother suddenly grabbed my neck from behind and my mother walked in front of us. I didn't annoy him, but suddenly I choked, speechless and out of breath. At that time, I felt that I was definitely going to die. My brother let go, and my mother didn't blame him. Later, many things happened slowly, and I grew up slowly. It turns out that children are different in the eyes of their parents. It turns out that I am a daughter.

If I were Su Mingyu, my parents didn't love me, and my brother bullied me, I wouldn't feel the warmth of my family at all in such a growing environment, or even be treated completely unequally. Maybe I would be more ruthless and unique than Mingyu. First, when my mother dies, I won't contribute like Mingyu. Second, Su Mingcheng will never be forgiven. He will definitely be imprisoned and will not accept any mediation. If you do something wrong, you have to pay the price, and you have to make him responsible for his actions. Third, I won't be so patient with Sue's father and won't take care of Sue's affairs. Perhaps the cold heart will never be as open as the so-called home.

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There's a reason to hit her first, otherwise she won't hit her again. There has been a gap between two people, which has accumulated for a long time. In addition, Mingyu lost his wife's job, so the registered permanent residence naturally belongs to Mingyu. Both of them have problems. Mingyu put the blame on her sister-in-law for the company. Why did she sacrifice her sister-in-law to save the company? This is a problem in itself. Nobody will do anything. How much hatred this has depends on the Ming family. No matter how wrong it is, Mingyu. Mingcheng's anger is too heavy. Who wants to hit his sister for no reason? There is something wrong with the author. You must send your brother to prison to show Jed's ability. In the fifties and sixties, a family basically had three or five or six children, and a bowl of water was flat, but if she really didn't like you, how could Mingyu let you go to normal school? Paying too much attention to family education is not a preference for boys. A high school student preparing for the college entrance examination doesn't understand what his parents are used to. So this is why writers can't tell the relationship between family education and son preference. Personally, I think.

When things don't happen to you, everyone can look at the problem rationally, and sometimes they will judge from the moral high ground. However, if you change yourself into Su Mingyu and get beaten by your own brother, the final choice may be the same as that in the TV series "Everything is OK", so that he can learn a certain lesson and forgive him.

There is nothing we can do about it. Family ties are hard to give up. Sometimes, even if we gnash our teeth and swear, we can't kill the murderer after we calm down. Of course, extreme examples are not without them. Yesterday, we saw a news that an old man in Shandong stabbed his son with a knife because he couldn't stand the beating and abuse of his son, and was sentenced to fixed-term imprisonment 15 years.

But you should know that such things are only a few after all, and most people will choose patience and forgiveness.

In the play, what Liu Qing said to Su Mingyu at the bedside of the hospital makes sense. Now people will sympathize with the person who is hurt more deeply. If this balance is not done well, it may change the direction of public opinion. She was originally a victim, but later she will become a perpetrator, from sympathy to contempt at first, because she can send her brother to prison. Then some people in the society may say that Su Mingyu is ruthless and has a bad influence on business partners and colleagues. Who dares?

In fact, people don't understand the feud between Su Mingyu and his second brother, but what they do know is that Su Mingyu made his second sister lose face and lost her job, so his second brother got angry and beat her. Perhaps people who don't know the truth will give more sympathy to Su Mingcheng, thinking that Su Mingyu is ruthless in treating his second brother, and it is right to hit people, but it is really too much.

In this matter, it is difficult for public opinion to stand on Su Mingyu's side because they don't know the truth. Once they involve the second brother, it is very likely that the public's sympathy will be concentrated here, because only the Su family knows the truth, and Su Mingyu can't explain it clearly to everyone.

Put yourself in Su Mingyu's shoes, and she couldn't help thinking more. She temporarily resolved the hatred in her heart, but it may turn the brother-sister relationship into a lifelong enemy. It's all right for Ersao here, but she can't face her niece and nephew who may be born in the future, and her relationship with family of origin will be completely broken.

In fact, Su Mingyu is strong in appearance, but weak and kind in heart. She couldn't give up Su Jia's feelings, so she finally chose to forgive.