How do you deal with a friend who doesn’t reply to your WeChat message but keeps replying to comments in Moments?

One of WeChat rules: Don’t appear in WeChat Moments if you don’t know WeChat.

But it seems that everyone is violating this unspoken rule. Some do it intentionally, some know it casually, and some know it and don’t pay attention. But speaking of it, not replying to WeChat messages and appearing in Moments is indeed a kind of disrespect for people. However, this does not mean that all failure to reply to WeChat messages is a sign of disrespect. It is also very likely that the owner has made mistakes in many things. .

There are several reasons for not replying to WeChat but appearing in Moments:

First, I don’t know who you are, so I don’t want to reply.

Secondly, the message you sent seems to be sent in bulk and I don’t want to reply.

Third, there are too many messages. I can’t find you and can’t reply.

Fourthly, when I saw someone commenting on me in Moments, I thought about replying to the comments first and then replying to you. However, I looked at Moments for a while and forgot to reply.

Fifth, get used to finding a time to reply together.

Basically all of the above things have happened to me, because WeChat is no longer the private social network it once was. No matter what the situation, I will definitely add WeChat first, so I have more and more WeChat friends. Sometimes someone asked me if I was there. When I saw that I didn’t know who the person was, I didn’t want to reply. I usually don’t reply to group messages. I think these reasons are understandable, but the only one is not good. The thing is I don’t want to reply to you!

I rarely have people talk to me but I just don’t reply. Of course, except for those frequent sales, I don’t really understand why there are people who just don’t want to reply, but I met them before. This happens when a friend talks to another friend, but doesn’t respond to WeChat messages or answers phone calls. Then, after a while, he finds out that he has liked others in Moments, and then he gets angry and says that he wants to go find him. We persuaded him that there must be some reason. In fact, we know it ourselves, and it is his own reason. His friend is the same friend as us. There has never been a situation where we would not respond to WeChat messages when we called. The matter of the circle of friends was actually because that person didn't want to talk to him, and it was also his personal reason.

So more often than not, if others would rather go to Moments to like it than reply to themselves, apart from possible errors, they should also look for their own reasons.

However, in normal interpersonal communication, such problems rarely occur. I find that such problems usually occur in sales. When sending messages to customers, they usually don’t reply much. In addition, they often occur in a salesperson. When a person wants to chase another person, but that person doesn't like this person, the other person will refuse to reply, and there must be some personal reason why the other person is unwilling to reply.

No matter what the reason is, it is always good to first see if you have any questions and are looking for answers.