What kind of harm will it do to say harsh words to the person you love?

We may often say things that don't mean to hurt others when we are angry, or we may always listen to others say things that don't mean to hurt us. So we gradually become more and more painful in hurting others and being hurt by others.

Because neither we who speak nor others know how much psychological harm these cruel words have caused to each other.

Sometimes, someone may forgive you once or twice for your carelessness, but after a long time, no matter how deep your feelings are, they will be exhausted in these cruel words, so your vows will be torn to pieces, and no amount of sweetness can restore a broken heart to its original state. Later, we looked up at the sky and shed a few tears in our eyes. Yes, everything can't go back.

There is a saying:? Don't say harsh words to others easily, because not everyone has the ability to bear those words. ?

When Wei He got married, she knew that she had a bad temper, but she never thought that one day she would choose to divorce because of her cruel words.

Before Wei He was ready to confirm her boyfriend, she had a serious conversation with him, saying that she had a relationship with her ex-boyfriend before, and if she didn't mind, they wouldn't continue. Zhang Hao said at the time that he didn't mind. Wei was glad to say so, so they began to fall in love and got married in less than a year.

After marriage, both of them felt very sweet, but then there was a conflict between them, Zhang Hao said? You've had sex with others before, haven't you learned to handle the relationship between two people? ? Wei looked startled and asked. I had sex with someone else. Can it be the reason why you quarrel with me and I can't talk back? ?

I may also realize that I said something wrong, just say that I didn't mean it, and apologize to Wei, and the matter will be over. Although Wei was a little sad, he forgot it later.

But then the two of them don't know when they always quarrel. I always feel that Wei is not good either, saying that she is not as gentle as other people's wives, and that she can't keep home. In short, Wei is useless and more and more angry. On one occasion, Wei finally couldn't help but have a big fight.

Wei said: you get up all day and say this is not good for me, and that is not good either. Why do you still live there with me? Did you see how their husbands treated them? ?

Zhang Hao said? Their wives didn't have sex with other men before they got married. Of course, they should be right. ?

At this moment, Wei couldn't believe it. What? It's not worth your husband's kindness to you if you have had sex with someone else? Her tears suddenly came out, she asked. So what you're saying is that I asked for it, so you should treat me badly. I can't be angry yet, can I? ?

Wei finally knew the reason. This is why Zhang Hao is always critical of himself. Originally, Zhang Hao felt that he was not worthy of him at all, and he didn't match her well.

Wei is even more disheartened. It turns out that she has been sentenced to death by Zhang Hao, and she still believes that everything is just his unintentional words.

Later, he apologized to Wei, but Wei thought that if this knot could not be untied, there was no need to be together again. So she asked Zhang Hao for a divorce.

But she disagreed and repeatedly stressed that she didn't mean to, saying that she thought Wei was very good. Give him another chance. Wei relented and didn't mention the divorce again, but Wei's heart was always depressed and he didn't have as great hope for their marriage as before.

But quarrels between husband and wife are always inevitable, especially after a certain gap in their hearts. Sure enough, Wei He quarreled over trifles again.

This time, Zhang Hao said a malicious word. Wei packed his things and left. Before she left, she said? Let's divorce. ?

Zhang Hao said that cruel words are:? You are just a second-hand goods! ?

Some things can be said, and some things just can't be said. Even if you really think so, you have to part. Why use such cruel words to hurt the person you love? Even if you don't love, you shouldn't say so, because no one has the right to sprinkle salt on other people's wounds, and no one is qualified to bring pain to others.

Later, Juck Zhang cried and said that she was wrong, but Wei knew that everything was useless and her heart was completely cold. The person she loves will say such things to herself. Wei remembered their intimate behavior and their happy time together, and felt that God had played a big joke on her. Now everything looks like a joke.

Man, you really can't say whatever you want, and there is really no chance to remedy it after you say it. So, don't say anything ugly to the person you love, because you never know how much harm your words will do to the other person. You don't even know how long it will take others to digest it after you say it.

So don't say anything ugly to the people we love, or it may become a permanent regret between you.