How to wrap the fruit of Shouxian wedding?

1. What is the fruit bag that the man gave the woman when she got married?

The man should prepare five children's clothes "Socks, Underwear and Coat" for the woman. When the girl becomes a monk, she should change them. When the daughter becomes a monk, her feet can't touch the ground, otherwise she will take away her family's wealth. When the man comes to your house, she should set off firecrackers, and the woman should also set off firecrackers "It's a whip". Otherwise, the woman must arrive at the man's house before sunset. On the wedding day, when the man goes to the woman to pick up the bride, there will be a red bag, which contains a red envelope. The woman's family needs to add money to the red envelope. Fortunately, the money in this bag is called "children's money". When the man arrives at the woman's home, the woman's family should prepare sugar tea and eight kinds of cakes for the people from the man's family to eat. When the bride gets on the bus, there must be two brothers or younger brothers who are equal to the bride to walk slowly in front of the car. The more,

It seems that the bride still has a mirror on her chest. I don't know what it means. I have to prepare a live carp, and wait for the bride to get up the next morning and eat it with the groom. That's all I know.

if you want to know more, you should ask the older people.

2. How much is the wedding bride price in Shouxian County

The bride price in Shouxian County, Anhui Province is 1, and the gift money is generally 5, yuan for the woman! Red envelopes don't need to be given to the woman's family and relatives! 2, the bride price generally pays attention to the double weight of chicken, fish, cake and sugar. The gift bearer is covered with red cloth, lined with mascots such as cypress, red dates, longan and peanuts, and posted with the bright red double word "Xi Xi".

after being hired, the man must also give his wife a "festival gift" to walk every year during the Dragon Boat Festival, Mid-Autumn Festival and Spring Festival. This custom is still popular in rural areas.

3, three gold wedding buy! It can also be decided according to the situation! 4, ask the media to propose marriage. Commonly known as "there is no cloud in the sky, no rain, no marriage on the ground", the most exquisite "parents' life, matchmaker's words."

* * After the founding of the Republic of China, the custom of matchmaking still exists, but marriage autonomy and free love dominate; After the 198s, there were marriage agencies in cities and towns, newspapers and magazines, and online advertisements for marriage advertisements. A horoscope.

That is, the date, month, day and time of birth of both men and women are set as eight characters, and the fortune teller will calculate whether there is a phenomenon of "Zodiac rushing to the gram". The anti-marriage song is circulated in Yuexi and other places: "White horses are never afraid of Taurus, once the sheep and rats meet, the snake will see the tiger like a knife, and the golden rooster will see the dog in tears, and the monkey and the pig will not be in the same circle, and the dragon and jade rabbit will not arrive." * * * After the founding of the People's Republic of China, most people did not believe in this.

blind date. There are projects such as seeing people, seeing families, etc., which are divided into men and women, and women and men, and they conduct inspections and exchanges to enhance understanding.

over age. Also known as biography, biography, determination, etc., that is, exchange of marriage-granting Geng posts.

The names of the posts are red and green slips, mandarin duck letters, letters of consent, small books, etc., which are wedding invitations to write the names, birthdays and parents' names. The man wrote the word "Gong Qiu" in the post, and the woman replied with the word "Jing Yun".

this custom has fallen out of vogue since the founding of the People's Republic of China. Under the dowry.

Also known as "gift-giving" or "engagement", that is, the man sends a bride price to the woman. Depending on the family situation, the gifts are rich and thin. Generally, it is important to have even numbers of chicken, fish, cake and sugar. The gift bearer is covered with red cloth, lined with mascots such as cypress branches, red dates, longan and peanuts, and posted with the word "Xi Xi" in bright red.

after being hired, the man must also give his wife a "festival gift" to walk every year during the Dragon Boat Festival, Mid-Autumn Festival and Spring Festival. This custom is still popular in rural areas.

However, due to different regions, the life and death of giving a bride price to a chicken are different. In April 22, a couple of young people got married in jieshou city. The groom's family dispatched two wedding cars to pick up the bride. A live chicken was hung on the gift box carried with the car. The bride was in tears when she heard the news. According to the wedding custom of the bride's side, it is a local funeral custom to send cooked chickens on the wedding day.

The bride and groom are more than a hundred miles apart, but the marriage customs are so different that there is a big wedding, and the bride returns to her family after attending the church. The groom angrily sued the city court and was granted a divorce.

It shows that marriage customs are not trivial. Choose a wedding date.

It is also called newspaper, lucky choice, big book, etc. Agree on the wedding date in advance, ask the fortune teller to choose an auspicious day and write it in red paper. The man will prepare a gift and ask the matchmaker to accompany him to the woman's house.

farewell ceremony. In the old custom, the man prepared a gift and sent it to the woman's house one day (or two days) before the wedding to pay homage to her ancestors.

send a dowry. As the saying goes, "the upper class marries women with money, the average person marries women with money, and the lower class marries women with money."

In general, dowry includes clothes, chests, pots, gold and silver ornaments, etc., with heavy gifts such as farm property, houses, mountains, cattle and sheep, etc. Today, household appliances, houses and other items have been given away.

frowning and crying for marriage. On the wedding day, women who have "longevity" are invited to "open their faces" for their daughters, that is, white lines are used to remove hair to dress up the bride.

before getting on the sedan chair, relatives, friends, daughters-in-law and good sisters from the same village all came to accompany the married women to cry and get married, which is called "crying more and more." Wedding ceremony and having sex.

When you get married, you must decorate your new house, decorate it with lanterns and colorful decorations, light red candles in the hall, post wedding couplets at the concierge, and make your own bed and quilt. Most brides are greeted by sedan chairs, and they are simply married by unicycle, donkey and carriage. After 198s, tractors, trucks and passenger cars were used in rural areas, while cars were used in towns to greet brides.

Scholars in Tongcheng pay attention to putting couplets on the sedan chair door for singing. The man makes the first couplet, the woman makes the second couplet, and carries the boys and girls to greet the bride, which is called "warm sedan chair". When the bride gets off the sedan chair, the man uses two cloth bags to spread the floor, and takes turns to move it, so that the bride can step on the bag, which is called "passing the bag" (passing on). The bridesmaids and others are singing loudly: "Passing on a generation, beaming; Pass on the second generation, full of children and grandchildren; Pass on three generations, rich and prosperous; Pass on four generations, four generations live under one roof; Pass the five generations, and the abital will pass the exam ... "And so on, for good luck.

visiting the church and entering the bridal chamber. Some traditional worship ceremonies are held in nave Hall at home, while others are held in ancestral halls of clans. Generally speaking, they are one worship of heaven and earth, two worship of ancestors, three worship of in-laws, and finally the couple worship each other.

The bride covers her face with a red silk veil from the time she gets on the sedan chair to the time she visits the bride. After entering the bridal chamber, the bridegroom holds the beam to carry the veil, and the best man sings a jingle as a blessing. For example, "When the scale is provoked, the in-laws are happy" and "When the hijab is picked on the edge of the bed, you will be a champion all your life".

Then, many relatives and friends launched a "new house" activity, claiming that "a new house is not big or small in three days", and they took a couple of new people to have fun when they had problems. When the guests leave in the middle of the night, the bridegroom goes to the kitchen to bring food and drinks together, calling it "a toast". The food includes red dates, longan, lotus seeds and eggs, which means auspicious meaning.

a few young people also take a piece of clothes stolen by the couple after they fell asleep as evidence, and ask the host family for "happy fruit" to eat the next day, which is called "stealing a new house". Three dynasties and honeymoon.

On the second or third day of the wedding, the groom leads the bride to visit her in-laws and family before the wedding, which is the custom described by "the wedding stopped last night and paid homage to her aunt before the dawn". The Tang poem The Bride is also called: "on the third day, taking my place to cook, washing my hands to make the bridal soup.

I decide that not my mother-in-law, but my husband's young sister shall have the fiat taste ". In today's rural areas, the "cooking" project is passed down, which only asks the bride to symbolically add firewood and burn a fire.

"Huimen" in the Three Dynasties was called "mothering" in ancient times, also known as "mothering". Generally, I only go back to my mother's house for a meal, because the custom is that "I don't have a room for a month after I get married", which is called a honeymoon.

When the moon is full, I will officially go back to my parents' home or relatives' home to walk around and stay. After the 198s, urban youth became popular to travel for their honeymoon, also known as "traveling to get married". They chose scenic spots and took a trip on their wedding holiday.

generally speaking, it's 1, to 3,. This side of Beijing is. The lowest and most basic one in Qingdao is 318., which means three families will send it together! Guangdong .. Some women don't want too much gift money. I remember a relative gave it to Fuzhou in 3999. It was 33, before, but now it is 53,.

But the most important thing is that the man wants to buy a house for the woman. Now it is 3,-5, yuan in Tianjin. There are also 7,-8, yuan who have more money and give less money. After all, they marry their daughters, not sell them.

3. Shouxian people's marriage shocked the whole country. Are Shouxian people rich?

First of all, as a Shouxian person, I have a strong dislike for the marriage and love customs in my hometown! Let me introduce how people in Shouxian generally get married from love! I'm not sure about the city, so let's start with the countryside! Step one: meet.

Every time I go home for the Spring Festival, it's a good time for blind date. Everyone has worked hard in the field for a year, and after returning home for a few days, someone must introduce you to someone.

Because most of us abide by the imperial edict left by our parents: "Never fall in love while working outside, but marry our local." It is this that makes the price of girls in Shouxian skyrocket.

let's talk about meeting first! The man, led by the matchmaker, went to meet the woman. The meeting place is probably in the market.

or in the matchmaker's house, pay attention: the man should try to dress decent and handsome, so as to ensure the success rate of blind date. At least bring a pack of cigarettes with more than 2 yuan, because you will smoke when you meet the elders who come with the woman, so that you can show your maturity and be a man.

even if you are a young adult who can't smoke. After greeting each other, the man and the woman can walk for a while in the market and chat for a while.

attention! Just a few minutes of chatting, you have to decide whether you want to marry her in the future. Then both men and women go home and discuss the next step with their families.

if one party doesn't like the other party, it's over. if both parties think it's ok, then they can move on to the next step. Step 2: Go shopping.

After the men and women meet, they can go shopping. What to buy? Buy clothes.

to buy diamond rings and cosmetics, now it is usually two people, men and women, who take a bus from home to the best shopping mall in the county to buy clothes. The woman buys clothes and the man pays.

Since the blind date is in winter, I need to buy two down jackets, two sweaters, two pants, two pairs of socks, two pairs of shoes and a suitcase. Buying two sets of clothes means yes man, and buying a suitcase is to pack the clothes you bought.

the ring is for engagement. At this time, it's almost time for dinner. I want to find a restaurant to eat.

Never be stingy when you take your future girlfriend to dinner for the first time. At least find a decent restaurant, order at least eight dishes, and order if you can't finish eating.

then both men and women can go home, and the man will take the clothes home first. Now we can move on to the next step.

Step 3: Get engaged. Because of the previous meeting and shopping, the man showed his determination to go through fire and water for the woman, and now he can finally get engaged! When engaged, the woman goes to the man's house to collect money and draw money.

At this time, the man's family should prepare 2 dishes and three or five tables. Moreover, some dishes can't be cooked in a day or two, and not ordinary people can cook them well.

if you use it for a long time, you can buy it, but if you are unlucky, you can't buy it yet. If you can't do it well, you must ask a special chef to do it.

All of these 2 dishes must be served, and if one is missing, the woman's family will find fault and refuse to agree to the marriage. After a full meal, you can book the marriage between the man and the woman.

of course, engagement should look like engagement, and a deposit is required. Now it is generally 11 and 116, and 128. 6 and 8 are auspicious numbers, and 11 stands for "one in a million".

finally, the woman left with the deposit and the clothes you bought last time. I forgot to mention that the value of two sets of clothes and other things should be around 3.

do you think this is a complete success? The answer is no. There's a lot to be said later. Let's look at the fourth step.

Step 4: Pay New Year greetings. Due to the completion of the previous engagement, the next step is for the man to go to the woman's house to pay New Year greetings (all of them are engaged in the Spring Festival, and they must go to pay New Year greetings before the fifteenth day of the first month).

when you go to your girlfriend's house for the first time, you can't take less things, even if the road is difficult. During the dinner, the future father-in-law will definitely invite a group of people to drink with you.

note: you must drink this wine, and you must not get drunk. When eating, the future father-in-law will definitely ask you something, and if you are drunk and talk nonsense, it may lead to the premature death of this marriage.

when everyone is satisfied, you can go home. Before you leave, your future father-in-law will give you several hundred dollars to kowtow, including 6 yuan, 8 yuan and 1, yuan.

paying 3, to 4, yuan has finally paid off! Don't be too happy. At this time, you should pay attention to see if your girlfriend has any nephews or nieces. If so, you have to give them lucky money.

Give at least 2 yuan, and if there are two, give them both, even if they are still nursing children. Only in this way can you show your maturity and handle affairs.

The task of paying a New Year call to the old father-in-law has finally been completed, and now it's the fifth step. Step 5: Give gifts.

At this time, both men and women went to other places to work, and each went to his own city and did his own work. Don't fantasize about taking your girlfriend out to work together. It's impossible to take someone else's daughter to live together just because of your little deposit! When you miss her, you can call her, and that's the only way.

At this time, if it is a major festival, such as Dragon Boat Festival and Mid-Autumn Festival, someone in the man's family must have a gift from the woman's family. If you don't give gifts, the woman's family will break off the marriage on the grounds that the man's family doesn't know the rules.

It's not as simple as giving a gift. The man can't fall in love with other women in other places, denying that the woman will break off her marriage and not refund the money. What if the woman is in love with someone else in other places? That's a good question If the woman has another boyfriend in other places, it will be considered as a breach of contract and she will refund the deposit to the man.

As for mental damage compensation, it seems that there is no such item in the law. If both men and women persist for one year, maybe two or three years, then I can congratulate you.

after years of hard work, your love has finally come to fruition. Now we can proceed to the last link, which is the most important and crucial.

step 6: get married. To get married, you need to have a new house, build it or buy it.

the price of buying and covering is similar, about 2, yuan, and the man pays. When you have a new house, you have to have new furniture, which is also provided by the man.

what's wrong with the woman? Some dowries, such as televisions, sofas and quilts, are mostly bought with the money from men. I forgot to mention that before the woman gets married, the man has to buy her "three golds", namely: gold earrings, gold rings and gold necklaces.

The wedding day is not as smooth as you think. It will definitely cause you a little accident, and then the man will pay for it. In short, on the wedding day, the man should bring at least 1 thousand yuan in cash to cope with emergencies.

There is also the need for a bride price for marriage, which is generally 1, now. I don't know, but I'm scared.

4. How much bride price does it cost to marry a daughter in Shouxian

This is an article in my QQ space, which may be helpful to you, please refer to it!

First, the original intention of the bride price:

When getting married, the man needs to give the woman a gift, which varies in amount. Its meaning is different. In the early days, it was a promise gift, and handkerchiefs, personal objects, etc. expressed mutual consent and a lifelong commitment. After entering the private ownership society, marriage has become a business.