How to treat bullies?

Bullying the weak and fearing the hard is actually a manifestation of inferiority. It is when individuals can't maintain their self-esteem, inner love and goodwill, and can't get the benefits they want through normal means that individuals can survive with bullying and fear of difficulties, attach themselves to the strong, act as their thugs, and seek benefits by selling their personalities.

Some people just have a bullying mentality. In the face of the strong, he will behave like a weak person; In front of the weak, they will look like the strong.

For this kind of person, if you always give in, his arrogance will get stronger and stronger day by day, and he will become more and more presumptuous. If you never give in when you should be strong, he will hesitate and restrain. Why? What is the psychology of these bullies in life?

We all have inferiority complex, and we all seek compensation from it. After entering adolescence, most people will gradually change from inferiority to self-confidence with the improvement of age, ability and experience.

Because most people have experienced "inferiority, hard work and promotion", with the growth of age, the continuous improvement of social achievements and the gradual possession of social resources, their personal nature will begin to become more and more tolerant and "compassionate because of knowing".

However, a few people will not be smooth sailing in the process of transforming their inferiority complex. For example, people who suffered too much pain and humiliation in their early years will be deeply imprinted in their hearts.

These painful marks make it too urgent and deliberate in the process of pursuing Excellence and compensation, forming what psychology calls "overcompensation complex"