Talking about premature delivery

A few days ago, the results of the seventh population census in China came out, and the birth rate dropped again. Nowadays, many people don't want to have children because it is difficult to raise children. Let me briefly talk about my mental journey of raising a baby.

Raising a baby is like raising a game number, constantly fighting and upgrading. Before having children, I worked in a private company. I watch the computer all day, and sometimes I go on business trips. There are many inconveniences at work after pregnancy. For other reasons, I quit my job and started a new family life.

In retrospect, I should have lost my original self from the beginning of pregnancy and become one of many ordinary mothers. I always put my children first. At home, the fetus did not give birth to my baby at full term. I am still premature. I thought it would be nice to have it, but on the contrary, birth is the beginning. Experienced the pain of planing the palace; Survived the pain of cutting edge, opening milk and increasing milk; Looking at his figure out of shape, a gaunt face; Also need to bear the psychological gap before and after delivery, and stand by and watch the baby for 24 hours; We must study hard and be a qualified mother. Even if we work hard, we may not raise our children well. Experts say don't take care of the baby from generation to generation. Society believes that women should be economically independent. Grandma said that mom should wash clothes, cook and take care of the children. Dad said I was too tired from work. This is also the reason why many women don't want to have children, because children are born by themselves, brought up by themselves, and more importantly, they are responsible for everything. What's the point of getting married and having children, finding your ancestors and giving birth to your own flesh and blood? No wonder girls nowadays are reluctant to get married and have children. There is also a reason for the low birth rate in China.

Talk more about what children go through at every stage. Children have difficult things to go through at every stage. Due to premature delivery, the baby is difficult to wait on in the first month, eating less and pulling less, and the jaundice is not clear after the full moon. Finally, after the first month, the second month, crying and colic. Hugging for a whole month, I can't even sleep at night. He can't turn over for a hundred days, so I'm in a hurry again. I practice lying down every day? Four months later, I had an aversion to milk, and I began to feel anxious when I saw that his little face had finally gained weight and lost a little weight. Five months before teething, my baby's gums itched, and when she was nursing, she kept pulling me and biting me, which made me afraid at the thought of breastfeeding. I began to add complementary food at the age of six months, and I started a new study for fear that my child's nutrition was not comprehensive enough. There's still a lot to go through after this. I dare not leave my sight at the age of one. At the terrible stage of two years old, children begin to have self-awareness; Going to kindergarten at the age of three produces separation anxiety; At the age of four, preparing for the school district to consider admission; When you start studying at the age of five or six, everything is difficult at the beginning; Dogs of seven or eight years old are very annoying. Then officially began to go to primary school, various remedial classes and interest classes. Children are tired, adults are tired, but they dare not relax. Finally, I went to junior high school, tried to get into a good high school, went to a good university in high school, and then looked for a job. Watching children get married in a hurry, I began to worry. I became a family and went back to show my children. God, I thought about my life, or my mother's life.

Some people say who doesn't come like this. Yes, for most women in China, most parents raise their babies in this way. I'm not complaining, I'm stating the facts. Some people like children, and it is good to be willing to have more children, while others are understandable not to. We can't judge those who don't want to have children from our own point of view. Of course, there are also many happy moments in the process of raising a baby. Happy or unhappy is a complete life. It is not easy to raise a baby, and it is cherished.