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Talk to someone who wants to be your bole.
Because a blind cat met a dead mouse and sent two or three hot articles, I was drawn into the author group by a big V in Weibo, which made me know a group of talented authors. Everyone often discusses writing experience, interesting life stories, entertainment gossip, and of course there are some small setbacks that can't be let go.
I don't know when this story was known to some of my readers and friends, and someone started sending me private messages: Uncle A Liang, I like writing, too. Will you drag me into that group?
There are many soft girls among them. They coquetry and say, Uncle A Liang, please drag me into that group, please, please.
Some children even screamed and threatened: If you don't drag me into that group, I will take it off and give you three days. ...
I always laugh and cry when I see such a private letter.
First of all, this group has a threshold. The threshold is that at least one of your articles has been selected by the group owner, that is, the big V period, and you can only enter after publication; Secondly, even if I have the privilege to drag you into the group, your article has never been recognized, and there are various popular authors in the group. Today, this man's article got a hot search in Weibo, and that man's article attracted a large number of fans. You are anxious and get nothing but stress.
I will send them these two reasons one by one, but someone will still reply that you are too stingy, you are stingy, and you occupy favorable resources and don't want to enjoy them.
What else can I say? Don't say anything I was going to tell him-not because you know big V, your article will be popular, but because you have to write a hot article before you can know big V, and you have to understand this order. No matter how big the V is, you still have to write the article yourself. If you are bright enough, you are not afraid that others will not see your light.
Type these words, and I deleted them again because there are so many people in this world, and it is always chicken to duck to communicate with them. It's useless, it's useless.
02
During graduate school, a classmate, Kun, lived in the dormitory next door. As we often play badminton together, we gradually get to know each other.
After getting familiar with it, I learned that Professor Akun is the dean and librarian of their college and enjoys a high reputation in academic circles. At the beginning, Kun was hired because he was the first in the written test and the second in the interview.
The tutor is a famous teacher and a good prospect. From the first year of research, everyone admired Akun. Kun himself, in such praise, was a little carried away and lost his way. He subconsciously regarded his graduate life as a college life. Skipping classes, sleeping and playing games have become the normal state of life. The dormitory is only five minutes away from the canteen. Sometimes, he is too lazy to leave. Anyway, there are many takeaways. Just open an APP and you can call it, saving time and effort.
This life will last for three years. In the past three years, his tutor criticized him a lot and even threatened him in the name of persuasion. On the surface, he nodded like garlic, and it passed after a while, but privately he went his own way and ignored it. Finally, I barely passed my graduation thesis, and I had two B's in the same major. He, the best one, was C. As for the job, many students had found it in the last semester of the third year of research. Everyone is writing their graduation thesis while practicing. After three semesters of research, the first draft of the paper has been handed in. On his side, the work has not been decided yet.
For three years, everyone said that he had no problem finding a job. It's not just a matter of what a tutor says. His position there, there must be enough resources. He believed it, too, and spent three years in a daze. Finally, the tutor did help him find it and recommended more than three or five units, but people turned him away for one reason or another.
What could be the reason for this or that? It is nothing more than a lack of professionalism and knowledge reserves. Because of feelings, people don't want to find it. Finally, everyone was busy filming graduation photo and going through the formalities of leaving school. Kun found a job in his hometown and worked as a chemistry teacher in a county-level middle school. It is said that he didn't want to go home to be a teacher when he took the postgraduate entrance examination. result ...
At the end of June, the day I officially left school, Kun came to the dormitory to borrow tape from me to pack my luggage. He looked sad and shook his head again and again, saying that graduate students, like undergraduates, have become gangsters and can't learn much. This may be good for your Chinese major, but in our science and engineering department, it is nonsense. what can I say? I can only pat him on the shoulder to thank him.
Speaking of it, many truths in this world are actually relative. As the saying goes, a teacher makes a master, and this is no exception. How many people are eager to visit famous teachers, but forget to ask themselves whether they are excellent students, whether they have the potential to become excellent students, and how far they have to go. Even if you have potential, a famous teacher will accept you as an apprentice. Whether you are high or low in the future depends on your own efforts.
Isn't it?
03
When I was in senior three, I met a female classmate, Xiaowen. Actually, I can't say I know her. She is one year older than us, and she only learned her story through the school honor list. What story? She was admitted to Shanghai Theatre Academy. Perhaps, you sound familiar, but this is shocking news in the third-rate high school in our small county. There are also photos of her and some stars in the school honor list, all of whom are big stars of the older generation. In the photo, the star is full of gas, and Xiaowen shows a suitable smile, gentle and sweet.
As soon as the news came out, there was a lot of discussion on campus. For a time, the students were impetuous. As soon as the class begins, they wait for the class to end, and then they begin to discuss it. There are even "people familiar with the matter" who stripped Xiaowen of his previous generations. As for why she was able to take part in the play, all kinds of opinions were rampant.
The most unified one is that she lives in a family of Quyi, her father is a singer, her mother is a bel canto, and her parents are the literary backbones of the county art troupe, especially her mother, who has won many awards in the county, the city and even the provincial capital, so she met some famous people in the literary and art circles and laid a good foundation for Xiaowen's drama.
It has caused many art students to sigh repeatedly, especially those who study acting. What are you lamenting? What else can there be? I lament that there is no mother like Xiaowen, and Xiaowen has no more ways. I am an unappreciated flower, no matter how fragrant it is, it is doomed to wither.
Few people affirm Xiaowen's efforts, and few people think about what Xiaowen did to get here today. Except for her class teacher. Two weeks after the news was announced, at a teacher-student meeting of the whole school, Mr. Yang, Xiaowen's class teacher, made a sincere speech, which, according to today's statement, was to wash Xiaowen's white clothes.
Teacher Yang said that Xiaowen is the most diligent student he has taught for more than 20 years. Every time she plays a sketch in class, she rehearses with her classmates countless times in private. She must ponder over every word in the script for a long time. Sometimes in front of the office teacher, she will blush and argue with thick neck. Not only is her acting class delicate, solid and infectious, but she also plays the piano very well, singing is not excellent, but it is not bad, and her culture class is not bad, especially English, which is often among the best in her class.
Finally, Teacher Yang concluded: What reason does such a student have to keep her away from the program? Everyone says Xiaowen has connections, maybe, but these connections and relationships are based on her Excellence. Even if there is no connection, Excellence itself will open the door for her and expand her relationship.
This passage is still fresh in my memory.
04
The "inspirational brother" Wang of Beipiao happened to be on fire during that time. In private, how many people like him are waiting at the gate of Beijing Film Factory, envious of his "luck", longing for his "opportunity" and lamenting his untimely birth and brilliant talent? How many people are eagerly waiting for the next Xiaogang Feng? Come on, come on, let's have a pair of eyes to see through my pearls.
Yes, in the eyes of many people, Wang is lucky, but luck has come to him. You don't need luck to explain it. What can be explained? He has no height and no face value. As for acting, the door of the film and television academy has never been inside. How good can it be?
But everyone forgot that he was discovered by Xiaogang Feng because of his role in the movie "Blind Well", and he was able to play in "Blind Well" because he dared to go down the mine, hundreds of meters deep, and others dared not. In addition, his image is consistent, his sincerity is full and his attitude is correct, so the director retained him. On this matter, director Li Yang once said with emotion that many people make movies just to be famous. In order to make big money, they run when they are in danger, but Wang didn't run. The child can.
After the release of Blind Well, the applause thundered. With this film, Wang won the Best Newcomer Award in the 40th Taiwan Film Golden Horse Award, which fully proved his strength and showed his talent. Perhaps, looking at him standing in the spotlight, you will say, isn't it just a little braver than others? Isn't that one step ahead of others?
Since there is only one point, since there is only one step, why not? Speaking of talent, people always seem to attribute it to nature, fate, and God has chosen you. However, I want to say that courage is also a gift-without the escort of courage, talent can never be exerted.
05
This is a society that pays attention to contacts and circles. It seems that the more people you know, the wider your circle, the more secure your success and the closer you are to your dreams. The network seems to be synonymous with shortcuts. When you enter the circle, it seems that you can enter the back door unimpeded. Every time I do something, everyone's first thought seems to be, who can help me and who can introduce me, not, what should I do and how to do it well.
Undoubtedly, contacts are very important, and the opportunities created by contacts are also very important. I don't deny its importance. However, contacts and opportunities should be based on ability. Before establishing contacts, ask yourself what attracts others. Before seeking an opportunity, ask yourself whether you have the strength to seize it. And most of us are often, in the dark, looking around for the person who found our light, isn't it ridiculous?
Yes, if you want to meet Bole, you must first become a swift horse. I'm not a swift horse. It's no use meeting Bole. It is better to train yourself into a horse than to spend time looking for Bole.
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