What is the reason not to be burdened by money?

What we have is always limited, and so is money. If you are obsessed with your own money bag and try every means to increase the amount of money, you will only become a miser. Then you will find that you have nothing but money. Such a life is sad.

I always hear people say that money is not everything, but having no money is absolutely impossible. The purpose of making money is to make yourself more convenient. So money is not a god, but a servant.

In modern society, we cannot deny the importance of money in life. But we need to understand that wealth does not determine everything. Whether we are happy or not is determined by our state of mind. There is a proverb that says: Ten kind people will get along well with each other and sleep soundly if they sleep on a blanket, but two rich people will get into trouble if they live in ten big rooms. If a kind man is given a large piece of bread, he will give part of it to a hungry person. The emperor possesses the country, and he will never allow others to possess it, let alone share it with others, and he will not sit back and relax. Therefore, whether we are happy or not depends entirely on our hearts.

Money is something external to the body. Without it, one cannot live, but too much becomes a burden. It is like a person's ten fingers. One is indispensable. If there are more than ten, it becomes a burden. If you have too much wealth, you will harm yourself; if you hide too much, you will perish. So don't take money too seriously.

Only those who have little money but know how to use it will get real happiness from money. And those who only blindly amass wealth and don't know how to use it will often be burdened by money.

In the Qing Dynasty, there was a businessman in Taiyuan, Shanxi Province. His business was very prosperous and he had a lot of money for many years. Although he hired several accountants, he was still worried. He still kept the general ledger by himself, and the money came in and out. There were so many and they were so big that he stayed up from working on the abacus in the morning until midnight every day, which made him so tired that his back ached and he felt dizzy. When he went to bed at night, he thought about tomorrow's business, and he was excited and excited when he thought about piles of white money. In this way, I am too busy to sleep during the day, and too excited to sleep at night. As a result, I suffered from severe insomnia. Next door to the rich old man lived a young couple who made a living by making tofu. They lived a poor and optimistic life. They got up early every morning to grind soy milk and make tofu, chatting and laughing, happily and sweetly. The rich old man on the other side of the wall was tossing and turning on the bed, shaking his head and sighing. He was envious and jealous of the poor couple. His wife also said: "Master, what is the use of all our money? We are tired and worried all day long. We are not as good as next door." The poor couple lived happily and comfortably."

The rich old man said: "They are so happy because they are poor, but they will not be able to when they are rich. Look, I must make them unable to laugh." With that said, he got out of bed, grabbed a few handfuls of gold and silver from the cash box, and threw them into the yard of the neighbor's tofu house. The couple was singing and making tofu when they suddenly heard a noise in the yard. When they shined a lantern, their eyes lit up, and they saw glittering gold and white silver. The couple quickly put down the beans and picked up the gold and silver in a hurry, feeling extremely nervous. I don’t know where to hide this wealth. I’m afraid it’s not safe if I hide it in my room. I’m afraid it’s not safe if I hide it in the courtyard. From then on, I never heard them talking or laughing again, let alone singing. The neighbor's rich old man and his wife joked: "Look! They don't laugh, and they can't sing! They should have tasted the taste of wealth."

Although this is a humorous piece The story makes people laugh and sigh softly: What is money? It makes people love and sad at the same time!

It’s not about the amount of money, it’s about how we use it and how we buy happiness. Some people use money specifically to buy fun. In the end, they buy a lot of things, but their mood never gets better. Instead, they feel even more empty. Some people use their money for charity and donate to nursing homes and welfare homes. Although they get nothing, they feel that they have done good deeds and helped others, so they feel very happy.

There are always some contented people around us, and you will be surprised by their attitude towards spending money. They can't afford high-end furniture, but they can go on vacation across the country; they live in shabby rooms but dress up like fashion models. In order to make his children happy, a father took his four children to have a meal in a palace-like luxury hotel.

"They will forget their poor and unhappy life in the future, but they will definitely remember this meal." The father said.

A female writer once said in an article that when she was a child, her father was unemployed and the family lived on leftover fish offal sold at the fish market. One day, she saw a small pin with a red plastic flower in a shop window and became crazy about it. She hurried home and begged her mother for a dime. The mother sighed, knowing that one dime could buy two kilograms of fish offal at that time, but the father said: "Give her the money, knowing that the happiness that can be bought for the child at such a cheap price will not be available in the future." Come across again. "What a dime can buy is gold that will shine forever."

Money does not determine everything in life. A truly worthwhile dream has the power in itself to make it come true. If we want to learn a craft, we should go to the best place you can find to learn it, even if the tuition there is high. On the contrary, if we are afraid of spending money, only want to be cheap, and find second- or third-rate teachers, it will be difficult for us to achieve great success in this industry. In a sense, money is secondary. As long as you have the vision and have identified the things that can make you happy, you should spend money to get them. Using the little money you earn through hard work to receive advanced art training or buy yourself a beloved thing may not be commensurate with our low income, but it enhances the interest and meaning of our lives.

In terms of attitude towards money, ordinary people always carefully consider food, clothing, housing and transportation. Although they take care of everything, in the end they feel that they have gained nothing. And sometimes I feel very happy when I spend money on things I like.

Look around you and you will see many men and women every day, often in the midst of trials, disappointments, and poverty. But look at their faces, they look happy and content. Not only can they face life bravely, but they can also gain joy from life. Such people will improve the atmosphere of the world. They inspire others so that they can bravely shoulder the great mission of pursuing happiness.

So, if we can lift the spirits of others, we can also make our own sad moments easier to pass away. Let us not miss the sunset and the joy of opening the door to welcome friends.

Everything should be done in moderation. If the habit of saving is overdone, it will not only be useless, but also harmful. A businessman who tries to be economical in the normal expenses of his business is as unwise as a farmer who wants to be economical in raising corn. "If you don't sow much, you won't reap much." Doing so will only be counterproductive, and the result will be greater losses.

There was a boss who was too frugal in clothing and other areas, so he lost many opportunities for advancement and his business was greatly reduced. His suit of clothes and tie were not very worn out and he would never change them. This behavior of his must be looked down upon by others. He never treated his clients or potential clients to a meal or paid their cab fare. He was so stingy that no one wanted to do business with him. Wrong economy caused this person to suffer a big loss.

Some people even refuse to provide themselves with proper food in order to save a little money, thereby damaging their health. If you are interested in starting a business, you must avoid such uneconomical savings. Providing oneself with bad food because of the need to save is like a factory owner who burns inferior coal to run his machinery because the price of good coal is high. No matter how poor you are, you should never be short on food and treat your body and mind badly.

The so-called economy, in a broad sense, contains two elements: far-sightedness and sound judgment. Therefore, people who really know how to save are not stingy, but know where to spend a lot of money, and how to use hundreds of dollars to get thousands of dollars in rewards.

It is more worthwhile to spend a large amount of money on places that are enough to help us succeed, to make us have a good impression on others, and to help us improve and make progress, than to put money in a savings bank. . People who are determined to do something in business must take a long-term view. Don't spend every penny wisely, care about every detail, and focus on small areas. This will cause you to lose greater benefits and sacrifice greater opportunities.

People have a lot of precious vitality and energy that is wasted because of specious ideas of thrift. When people suffer from a seemingly minor disease that requires medical treatment, they often put it off month after month, year after year, and do not seek medical treatment because they are reluctant to spend money. The result is a small gain at a loss.

We should try to remove any factors that hinder the progress of our lives at any cost. "Strength" and "efficiency" should be our goals and criteria. Any investment that is enough to increase our strength and efficiency, and that is enough to enhance our mental and physical strength, no matter how high the cost, is worth investing. You should spend a lot of money on anything that will help you succeed and make you a greater and more capable person!

There is a big difference between real savings, smart savings, and stingy savings, the kind of savings that take a dollar's worth of time and save a dime.

I have never seen a stingy person who focused on small profits and was able to achieve great things in the end.

There was a man who developed the habit of being overly thrifty when he was young. Later, he could not get rid of this habit. He will often spend a dollar's worth of time just to save a dime.

He often spends a lot of precious time to save some tips, but he does not know that the value of the time he spends is completely disproportionate to the benefits he saves. He also had this stingy frugal spirit in his business. He asked his employees to save some rope at all costs when packing the goods, but the actual value of the time spent was far more than twice the value of the rope. In his normal work and life, he would also do all kinds of similar foolish and economical things.

There are very few people who have a full understanding of the true meaning of "saving". The true meaning of frugality is not to be stingy and free from money. On the contrary, the true meaning of frugality sometimes means using a lot of money, as long as it is used appropriately.

The era of small business is a thing of the past, and stingy frugality is no longer suitable for this era. Today, what is needed is big comings and goings. To do big things, you need to be generous. Only people with great generosity, far-sightedness and sound judgment can achieve success in their careers. In short, it takes a lot of effort to do big things.