Be a man three times

I read the book "Three Meetings" these days. The "three meetings" are: talking, doing things and being a man. Next, I will list the main contents and talk about my feelings as follows:

First of all, you must be able to speak.

1. Say the first sentence, so that the first sentence will bring us closer; Feel respect with the first sentence; Send greetings in the first sentence; The first sentence makes others feel considerate, caring and inclusive.

Let others speak first, then speak for yourself. Control your speaking volume and develop good listening habits.

3. Say whatever you meet.

4. Go straight to hurt people, why not take a detour?

5. Use humorous skills in conversation.

Two: pay attention to being able to do things.

1. Store personal relationships with your heart

Don't forget to give benefits to others, don't forget to care about others, and don't offend others; Don't care about being taken advantage of;

2. Use acquaintances to find a backer.

Don't eat alone, everyone has one.

4. Get close to successful people.

5. Be friends first, then do things

6. Show weakness in time to avoid being annoying.

Third, be a man.

1. Enough is enough, be kind to others.

Honesty is the most important thing when dealing with people.

3. Hide, beware of the villain's face.

Keeping secrets is an advanced life strategy. Hiding one's edge is also a process of strengthening one's knowledge, talent and cultivation, which is conducive to improving one's ability and skills in dealing with various interpersonal relationships. This is also a manifestation of giving up one's vanity and embarking on the road of life in a down-to-earth manner.

5. endure for a while and get back on your feet and become stronger.

Looking back on my past, many places are not satisfactory. We must gradually correct, grow and improve in the future. It is especially important to note that you can't call a spade a spade, and you don't know if you hurt someone. In fact, when dealing with people, you must be able to say what you see, and the method of doing things should be based on materials, and it is best to find the most suitable one.

Keep practicing!