How do men deal with their wives' complaints?

When a woman complains, a clever man should first open his eyes and use his brain to judge whether a woman's complaint is a kind of talk or a coquetry. As long as it is a normal woman, she will like to be spoiled in front of her husband. This is also a way for her to express her feelings. A woman's complaint is a potential coquetry in many cases. For example, a woman complained to her husband that it was too difficult for her to cook. In fact, she doesn't really want to cook again, but wants to hear a word from her husband: hard work! My wife cooks the best food! For example, when a woman complains about any contradiction with her colleagues, she doesn't necessarily want to hear her husband comment on who is right and who is wrong. She just wants to hear her husband's comfort: you are wronged! By analogy, the husband must first know whether his wife's complaint is coquetry, and then give her comfort or praise, so that she can get inner comfort In this way, even if a woman has any fire, she will be doused by her husband's sweet words.

If women are really complaining and complaining badly, then men should remember-don't fight back head-on, know how to use circuitous tactics, or simply say "muddle along". When women are really wronged and angry, men should not add fuel to the fire and contradict them head-on, otherwise it will not lead to a bigger war. A wise man should echo his voice first, or admit his mistake. Even if he is wronged, there is no need to rush to defend himself until his wife's strength passes. Women, in a rage, say anything, and these sharp and ugly words may not be true. If the wife really has any obvious fault, it is better to wait until everything calms down. For example, when your wife is happy, try to say in a communicative way: Honey, do you think there is anything wrong with what you did that day? In fact, a woman with a little wisdom will also reflect on her behavior after complaining. However, on the other hand, no matter how smart a woman is, when she is angry with men, she will be embarrassed to admit it even if she is wrong because of face problems. Therefore, circuitous tactics are very necessary and effective. If a woman complains too much and gets angry, the above tactics can't cope, and it really can't, just raise your hand and say, honey, I surrender!

Finally, you should know that women complain about men because they love him. When a woman has no complaints, this is the really terrible time. The book describes the good relationship between husband and wife. I have never doubted the saying that "the young couple never blush" or "respect each other as guests". Couples who don't quarrel or bicker, I think they have communication problems. Perhaps it can be said that when there are no complaints, contradictions and quarrels between husband and wife, the relationship between two people may be in a state of crisis. I see many couples who are clamoring for divorce every day, and rarely really divorce. On the contrary, it is precisely the couples who have never blushed or quarreled that go through the divorce formalities. Quarrel, in a sense, is also a way of communication. Complaining is the prelude to quarreling. When the other party doesn't understand or solve it in time, the contradiction will further intensify and then turn into a quarrel or even a fight. Therefore, when the wife begins to complain, it is the best policy to find it early and solve it in time. Of course, in the sweet song of husband and wife life, it is better to stage these discordant episodes less.