My husband insisted on not having a second child and was rejected by her mother-in-law. What should I do?

My husband insisted on not having a second child and was rejected by her mother-in-law. What should I do? This is very simple. Let her talk to her son herself. It's none of your business. It is his son who doesn't want a second child. Why does he dislike you? The best way is to be kind to yourself. Don't feel inferior and sad because your mother-in-law doesn't like it. After all, you live with your husband, not your mother-in-law. What's the point? Some people say: people are not selfish, and the devil takes the hindmost. Although this sentence is a bit exaggerated, it also has some truth.

Your mother-in-law thinks about their offspring, and the more the better, of course, I hope you have more children; I don't think about how much energy and money it takes to raise a child and who will take care of it. And your husband may be very busy at work, worried that giving birth to a child will not give him certain material conditions and care, and will bring a lot of burden to his life and so on. In other words, they are all thinking of themselves. No one will consider that it is difficult for you to conceive in October, and no one will consider that it is dangerous to have children when you are old (maybe your husband will consider it). So, just let nature take its course. How can I care so much? Husband is satisfied and mother-in-law is satisfied. If you want to have the best of both worlds, you must struggle.

I have seen many dangerous cases of having a second child because of old age. There was a 42-year-old woman who fell in love with her husband and had a daughter. Just because her husband carried on the family line and the national second child policy was liberalized, she decided to have another one. However, 10 is not only extremely difficult to conceive, but also has massive bleeding when giving birth. In the case of protecting children or adults, the husband did not listen to her mother-in-law and told the doctor without hesitation: "Protect adults." So as to get rid of death, the child is still gone, and I saved my life. Woman, this is not a fertility machine. It's up to you whether to have a second child or not. Why do you want to please your husband and mother-in-law, regardless of your own life and death?

So, in this case, I suggest you not to have a second child. At the very least, your husband is the one who will spend his life with you. Mother-in-law's dislike is only temporary, as long as her son can do her job well. To say the least, if she can't do it, it's her own problem, but she is too greedy. How should we live or how should we live? Just don't bother yourself.

Author: Hao Ran Xin Zheng, official account of WeChat is a good mother, a good daughter and a good wife (ID: ghc2efdb631a15).